Is Anal Sex Pleasurable For You?

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Wow, that's not nice at all!! I honestly question if anal for women is just a "porn or domination thing"?
I have no idea. I know some women like it rhough.

My general rule is if my partner won't let me do him up the butt, then he's not going to do it to me.
 

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I am friendly to ass play. With most partners activities were of the fingers and toys variety. The boy has parts I didn't have access to before.

Butt stuff time requires a bit more forethought and foreplay than PIV hanky panky. Trust and mutual respect is so damn important, cuz the chance of real injury and harm, emotional and physical, is very real. I've been blessed with awesome playmates and only have good experience to go by.

Hugs to the folks with trauma related to something meant to be/should be pleasurable.

Like, just the Porn Section here would put me even thinking of experimenting if that was all I had to go by. The hostility and disrespect is unsettling.
 

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I noticed particularly among guys in their 20ies it is a thing to have anal sex with their gf. I have never had that desire and thought this could stem from todays broader porn consumption where there is dp etc. and every hole filled in by a cock.

Totally agree with you @MickeyLee , it should be intimate and pleasurable or left away.
 
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I enjoy it. Giving and receiving.
How do you give it, with toys or your fingers? Which way do you enjoy it yourself and can you try to describe the good feelings for those who didn't have that experience?

Personally, as a male, i love to feel my muscles relaxing gradually as something enters and spreads there and then have my best spot massaged inside. it makes my breathing heavier and i like to moan in the rythm of the penetration. That spot is internally connected to my penis root and can totally make me climax.

How is this for those women who enjoy it too? Do you get any sensations overthere around your best spots?
 

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There's a saying that every woman has anal sex twice...once to try it, and once to see if it's really as bad as she remembers it from the first time.

I'd have to agree with that.
Darn it. I knew I should have stopped doing it after the second time... ;)

Oh, well... Good thing I enjoy it
 

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Never had anal sex, but I have enjoyed butt stuff. An anal toy is how I first discovered posterior fornix stimulation can feel very good...a certain spot that in my experience can be reached from the back as well as certain positions vaginally. But my 1st encounter was with the butt toy. It's pretty great. Hard to achieve on my own though, solo-wise I really don't play with anal toys or dildos anymore.
 

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Never had anal sex, but I have enjoyed butt stuff. An anal toy is how I first discovered posterior fornix stimulation can feel very good...a certain spot that in my experience can be reached from the back as well as certain positions vaginally. But my 1st encounter was with the butt toy. It's pretty great. Hard to achieve on my own though, solo-wise I really don't play with anal toys or dildos anymore.

See, butt stuff never was part of my vocabulary, so it's kind of difficult to fathom including that now. But you make it sound interesting! Of course, reading how other enjoy anal I figured I was missing something. Long story short, I'm still missing that and will probably miss it every chance I get.