Is Anal Sex really worth all the preparation?

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  1. AdamTaylor

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    ...for the bottom that is. I've never had anything more than a finger or two up there, so I'm no expert. It just seems like a whole lot of work (douching, cleaning, enemas, cleaning, laxatives, cleaning) for a guy to get his hole ready for just a night of fucking. Just wondering if it's really worth all the preparation that goes into it?
     
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    Depends on how bad you want it, myself I like being stretched to the limits and deep so yes I like to have it as clean as possible so that nothing pops out and ruins the mood.
     
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    Why don't you try it out and see?
     
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    I'm really not that into the idea of having a dick up there. I also have a low pain tolerance haha!
     
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    Yes it is my girl loves it.
     
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    It is worth it yes, but unless you are planning a night of anal fun with toys, fisting etc... then you don't need to go quite as far in making sure you are that clean, as you suggest! I have never done any of those things for plain old anal sex & have never had any cleanliness issues...
     
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    I don't think it takes quite that much preparation. I'm primarily a top, but with the right guy I'll bottom and the feeling of having you prostate banged nicely is well worth any amount of preparation.
     
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    Speaking for myself..yeah, it's soooooooo worth it. And the clean out takes variable time depending on: current diet (if i have been eating properly and enough of both types of fiber, clean out is a beeeze), time of day (we all have a certain rhythm to our bowel movements. TMI alert but i go, with out fail erly in th emorning. So unless i did a clean out the night before, aerly morning anal is the most problematic. Afternoon and evening is the least) and what type of play (large toys etc, hours long vigerous pounding, things that can pass the "second sphincter" -which isn't a sphinter at all only acts as one, but i digress- needs a deeper clean out)

    Seems like a lot, but really it isn't. And yes there are tims when thereis the spontaneous sex and no clean out, I haven't had issues, but I know when to be spontaneous and when not to be, lol!
     
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    Yep...its worth it....I've even fasted at times to make sure I'm clean
     
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    If you've got to go to that length to get your butt clean there's either something horribly wrong with your diet or something horribly wrong with your insides.
     
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    exactly! I no that my cleanout takes no real leantgh of time, and I have had no problems. Correct diet makes all the diffence (i hve never had to take a laative to clean out:eek: sounds like not enough fiber to me).

    I like early morning fucks with my guy. I no that around a certain time tahe may be iffy. I either avoid that time or clean out fairly good the night before (which then gives me free play time) or I *gasp* get into the shower (im most likely coveried inn sweat and jizz form the nights entertainment) and use the restroom when I first go in, and do a quick clean. Seriously that clean out is like nothing. Then i snugle back in and enjoy my FB morning wood.
     
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    Dude, do you brush your teeth before hooking up, or just leave your mouth full of nasty and stench? A little bottom prep is courteous, and essential if your partner is hung well enough to get into the sigmoid.

    Time involved? Less than the time I've seen others spend prepping and preening their hair, nails, makeup, etc.

    Laxatives and other artificial aids are unhealthy and unnecessary if you're not already in trouble.
     
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    With a top that knows how to fuck? Abso-goddamn-lutely!!!

    Without? Eh, ... it beats a poke in the eye with a sharp stick.
     
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    For just regular anal sex I've never seen it as that much of an effort. As others have said it usually takes no longer then other prep work you do. I've had many...and I mean many..spontaneous sexual encouters where there was no time or place to do little or no cleansing and most of the times it's been just fine.
     
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    It takes less than 5 minutes to prep...but one thing to remember...no meals within 8 hours of when you're gonna get fucked. Getting plowed and opened up can feel really good.
     
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    In a word: yes.

    Five minutes for five hours seems like a deal to me.
     
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    Yes, If it's with the right person.
     
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    I didn't realize that it was so easy. Having no experience in the matter I've read tons of posts by guys that do all sorts of stuff. I'm slowly coming around to the idea of giving it a try, but I'm engaged and my fiance keeps me quite busy tending to her "needs" I know she wouldn't mind if I went exploring. I guess I could let her do a trial run on me with one of her dildos.
     
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