Is Anal Sex really worth all the preparation?

[erratic]

I guess I could let her do a trial run on me with one of her dildos.

That's a fantastic idea. Perhaps you should google "bend over boyfriend" if you haven't already?

 

[texas9850]

"trial run on me with one of her dildos."

just not like the real thing

 

[shadow28]

I'm with the OP... it doesn't seem worth it. Totally not interested. In fact the thought of it fills me with horror.

Anyone read the sex column "Savage Love"? According to him, 1/4 of gay / bi guys have zero interest in anal sex. Count me as one of them. Though I'd be curious to know the true percentage...

Looking at porn, anyone would think that it's not sex unless you get pounded to within an inch of your life, or do the pounding yourself.

But I for one think there are SO many hot things to do with another guy, without anal sex... so many things - JO, sucking, cuddling, frot, body contact, 69, cockfighting, facials, kissing... the mind reels.

So to me, no, it's definitely not worth it. And I know that there are many guys like me.

 

[prism]

It takes less than 5 minutes to prep...but one thing to remember...no meals within 8 hours of when you're gonna get fucked. Getting plowed and opened up can feel really good.

whoa

you do know that's basically a whole day of no eating

 

[erratic]

Looking at porn, anyone would think that it's not sex unless you get pounded to within an inch of your life, or do the pounding yourself.

But I for one think there are SO many hot things to do with another guy, without anal sex... so many things - JO, sucking, cuddling, frot, body contact, 69, cockfighting, facials, kissing... the mind reels.

100% absolutely yes. One of the great things about queer sex is that you're handed a "Get Out Of Jail Free" card in regards to the whole "it's not sex without penetration" bullshit. I'm not here to bash the guys out there who love getting pounded/pounding someone to within an inch of their lives, but almost every partner I've had prefers anal as an occasional thing, and everything else (from 69ing, to docking, to edging) is where it's at.

 

[B_Nicodemous]

For just regular anal sex I've never seen it as that much of an effort. As others have said it usually takes no longer then other prep work you do. I've had many...and I mean many..spontaneous sexual encouters where there was no time or place to do little or no cleansing and most of the times it's been just fine.

Yep. :biggrin1: This is wht I have been saying. Though I do try to do prep work out of common curtesy as well as my own desire to not have any mess (and that frees me up to fuck with abandon) there have been times with partners that sex is super spontaneous and (for the most part) there were no issues. The times there were? Meh. My FB and i know that if he is in that much of a hurry, and doesn't heed, then there is the chance. You clean up, laugh, and then decide if you want to continue. Course now he knows I know my bodily system and knows that 5 to 10 minutes is well worth the wait:biggrin1:

It takes less than 5 minutes to prep...but one thing to remember...no meals within 8 hours of when you're gonna get fucked. Getting plowed and opened up can feel really good.

Yes it can feel very wonderful...but no need to starve yourself! 2 to four hours before i ususally dont eat anything if for one reason: food ingested starts the process of movement throughout the ENTIRE digestive track. Unless i have done a deep deep clean, I just prefer no foods a min 2 hrs before hand:tongue:

In a word: yes.

Five minutes for five hours seems like a deal to me.

Thank you for the approximation! I suck at math! lol! But yeah, providing a good diet, and where you are in relation to your normal BM schedule, then yeah 5 for 5 seems pretty spot on:biggrin:

I didn't realize that it was so easy. Having no experience in the matter I've read tons of posts by guys that do all sorts of stuff. I'm slowly coming around to the idea of giving it a try, but I'm engaged and my fiance keeps me quite busy tending to her "needs" I know she wouldn't mind if I went exploring. I guess I could let her do a trial run on me with one of her dildos.

Dildos will help you judge how much you need to clean, depending on depth, angle and velocity of the fuck. Remeber to rubber it up to ensure easy clean up, esp if you didn't get as clean as you thought:smike:

"trial run on me with one of her dildos."

just not like the real thing

Well noooo...but read my response to his q, just above this quote...

I'm with the OP... it doesn't seem worth it. Totally not interested. In fact the thought of it fills me with horror.

Anyone read the sex column "Savage Love"? According to him, 1/4 of gay / bi guys have zero interest in anal sex. Count me as one of them. Though I'd be curious to know the true percentage...

Looking at porn, anyone would think that it's not sex unless you get pounded to within an inch of your life, or do the pounding yourself.

But I for one think there are SO many hot things to do with another guy, without anal sex... so many things - JO, sucking, cuddling, frot, body contact, 69, cockfighting, facials, kissing... the mind reels.

So to me, no, it's definitely not worth it. And I know that there are many guys like me.

Oh i know oodels of gay guys who either never or very rarely engage in anal. Enjoy what you enjoy:smile:

whoa

you do know that's basically a whole day of no eating

My point.

100% absolutely yes. One of the great things about queer sex is that you're handed a "Get Out Of Jail Free" card in regards to the whole "it's not sex without penetration" bullshit. I'm not here to bash the guys out there who love getting pounded/pounding someone to within an inch of their lives, but almost every partner I've had prefers anal as an occasional thing, and everything else (from 69ing, to docking, to edging) is where it's at.

Couldn't say it better:biggrin:

 

[CobraLover]

whoa

you do know that's basically a whole day of no eating

It's not a whole bay of no eating. Just skip dinner if you're gonna get fucked at night.

 

[mariorossi]

just a little enema, if you feel 'full'... that's enough!