Is anyone a sucker for a softie?

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  1. Chick&2DicksUK

    Chick&2DicksUK New Member

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    A personal observation and question aimed, primarily, at the ladies but I'm interested in thoughts from the guys, too.

    Not sure if this has ever been discussed, but I've never had a girl voluntarily suck me unless I was either hard or it was in order to make me hard (and I've never requested it - but maybe I should).

    Never have I been sucked when flaccid, purely for her pleasure(?) of sucking on a soft dick.

    I even had a girlfriend, once (though not for long - lol) who refused to even glance at my cock unless it was hard (she claimed, to any and everyone prepared to listen, that all love-truncheons look "unmanly" unless pumped and raring to go).

    Never have I gained anything but pleasure from sucking and tonguing a girl's nipples - erect or not. The same goes for a clitoris (they can't be always standing to attention) which I can play with for hours without needing it to be part of foreplay per se.

    Is this just a female thing?

    Is sucking dick only performed in order to achieve or maintain an erection &/or to make a guy cum?

    Does anyone (lad or lass) like to suck a penis and roll it around their tongue when it is limp, soft and pliant and with no arousal agenda?
     
  2. Tickled Pink

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    I've gone to sleep with my mans soft dick in my mouth like a dummy (pacifier) after a long session and also intentionally. It was an interesting experience for both of us!
     
  3. lttlgrllst

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    Yes, but it inevitably ends in arousal.
     
  4. Chick&2DicksUK

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    Which can't be a bad thing, either:wink:
     
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    I've had women tell me they enjoyed feeling me grow aroused in their mouths. Good way to go about it if she can't wait.
     
  6. IntoxicatingToxin

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    I love sucking on cocks, hard or soft. :biggrin: I've sucked on flaccid penises numerous times... and I don't plan on stopping anytime soon. I, too, enjoy feeling a guy grow in my mouth.
     
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    It is very stimulating for me to feel my husbands penis start to get firm as I have it in my mouth. Love it!!! YUM!!!

    Honeydew
     
  8. The Dragon

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    Goodness YES!!
    Just the feel of a man getting hard in my mouth and working his glans with my tongue is just a sheer delight.
    It puts a smile on my face just thinking about it.
     
  9. Chick&2DicksUK

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    See, the problem we have here is inattention.

    No-one (apart from Tickled-Pink) appears to have read/digested (pardon the expression) the OP or have read their own stuff into it.

    The answers have been great and it's gratifying to learn that a penis becoming erect in your mouths, due to your administrations, is a horny turn on.

    But is it no turn on at all to just suck and lick and tongue-explore a flaccid penis for no other reason than it feels good to YOU (the one doing the sucking) any subsequent hard-on being a bonus, but no subsequent hard-on being of no consequence?
     
  10. The Dragon

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    The answer is YES.
     
  11. D_Ivana Dickenside

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    not only am i a sucker for a softie, i'm just a sucker for cock in general. whether it's a hard cock or a soft cock, it doesn't matter. in my opinion, it's actually more fun to see the flacid penis grow before my very eyes. plus i love feeling how it grows in my mouth from soft to hard. it's a turn on because i know my partner is getting aroused by what i'm doing to him.
     
  12. Chick&2DicksUK

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    Thankyou.

    You're hired.:wink:
     
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    i love feeling a guy go hard in my mouth. but i'd be bothered if he didn't go hard and just stayed soft.
     
  14. Chick&2DicksUK

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    How would you feel if, having performed a task, you were then dismissed. Not important no more until the task needs repeating.

    Who's to say a cock ain't got feelings.

    Plus, would you like your partner to kiss and suck and gently tongue massage your cock until you slept?

    Surprise!!!!!

    Maybe he'd like that, too.

    I would.
     
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    Yes, I am a sucker for a softee. I think dicks look cute and innocent in their most soft state.

    No, dick sucking is often done for my pleasure, his is secondary. :biggrin1::wink:

    Yes, I do but I can't remember eve doing it that didn't lead to arousal and sex on both our parts.


    tee hee hee I've done the same thing. :biggrin1:


    Exactly! :biggrin1:


     
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    Most nights when we go to sleep,my wife holds or sucks my softie.Then we roll around and I snuggle her breasts or ass.None of it has anything to do with sex or arousal.I'll let Lisa give more details if she want's.
     
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    Sounds like a nice idea. Must give it a try.
     
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    ......obviously bothe........Sucking on a dudes cock.....i think they call it for play:rolleyes:
     
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    I dont like a soft cock at all. I can take the touch of it to start off a hand or blow job but i wont put it in my mouth until it has a bit of firmness to it
     
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    I think my b/f's cock is cute when it's soft but if he heard me say that he'd be pissed. Guys don't want to think about their cocks as cute.
     
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