Is anyone a sucker for a softie?

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A personal observation and question aimed, primarily, at the ladies but I'm interested in thoughts from the guys, too.

Not sure if this has ever been discussed, but I've never had a girl voluntarily suck me unless I was either hard or it was in order to make me hard (and I've never requested it - but maybe I should).

Never have I been sucked when flaccid, purely for her pleasure(?) of sucking on a soft dick.

I even had a girlfriend, once (though not for long - lol) who refused to even glance at my cock unless it was hard (she claimed, to any and everyone prepared to listen, that all love-truncheons look "unmanly" unless pumped and raring to go).

Never have I gained anything but pleasure from sucking and tonguing a girl's nipples - erect or not. The same goes for a clitoris (they can't be always standing to attention) which I can play with for hours without needing it to be part of foreplay per se.

Is this just a female thing?

Is sucking dick only performed in order to achieve or maintain an erection &/or to make a guy cum?

Does anyone (lad or lass) like to suck a penis and roll it around their tongue when it is limp, soft and pliant and with no arousal agenda?
 

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I've gone to sleep with my mans soft dick in my mouth like a dummy (pacifier) after a long session and also intentionally. It was an interesting experience for both of us!
 

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I've had women tell me they enjoyed feeling me grow aroused in their mouths. Good way to go about it if she can't wait.
 

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It is very stimulating for me to feel my husbands penis start to get firm as I have it in my mouth. Love it!!! YUM!!!

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Goodness YES!!
Just the feel of a man getting hard in my mouth and working his glans with my tongue is just a sheer delight.
It puts a smile on my face just thinking about it.
 

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See, the problem we have here is inattention.

No-one (apart from Tickled-Pink) appears to have read/digested (pardon the expression) the OP or have read their own stuff into it.

The answers have been great and it's gratifying to learn that a penis becoming erect in your mouths, due to your administrations, is a horny turn on.

But is it no turn on at all to just suck and lick and tongue-explore a flaccid penis for no other reason than it feels good to YOU (the one doing the sucking) any subsequent hard-on being a bonus, but no subsequent hard-on being of no consequence?
 

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not only am i a sucker for a softie, i'm just a sucker for cock in general. whether it's a hard cock or a soft cock, it doesn't matter. in my opinion, it's actually more fun to see the flacid penis grow before my very eyes. plus i love feeling how it grows in my mouth from soft to hard. it's a turn on because i know my partner is getting aroused by what i'm doing to him.
 

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i love feeling a guy go hard in my mouth. but i'd be bothered if he didn't go hard and just stayed soft.

How would you feel if, having performed a task, you were then dismissed. Not important no more until the task needs repeating.

Who's to say a cock ain't got feelings.

Plus, would you like your partner to kiss and suck and gently tongue massage your cock until you slept?

Surprise!!!!!

Maybe he'd like that, too.

I would.
 

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Is anyone a sucker for a softie? Is this just a female thing?
Yes, I am a sucker for a softee. I think dicks look cute and innocent in their most soft state.

Is sucking dick only performed in order to achieve or maintain an erection &/or to make a guy cum?
No, dick sucking is often done for my pleasure, his is secondary. :biggrin1::wink:

Does anyone (lad or lass) like to suck a penis and roll it around their tongue when it is limp, soft and pliant and with no arousal agenda?
Yes, I do but I can't remember eve doing it that didn't lead to arousal and sex on both our parts.


I've gone to sleep with my mans soft dick in my mouth like a dummy (pacifier) after a long session and also intentionally. It was an interesting experience for both of us!
tee hee hee I've done the same thing. :biggrin1:


I've had women tell me they enjoyed feeling me grow aroused in their mouths. Good way to go about it if she can't wait.
Exactly! :biggrin1:


See, the problem we have here is inattention.

i love feeling a guy go hard in my mouth. but i'd be bothered if he didn't go hard and just stayed soft.
Depends on how long I was sucking and what we had been doing beforehand. :wink:

 

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Most nights when we go to sleep,my wife holds or sucks my softie.Then we roll around and I snuggle her breasts or ass.None of it has anything to do with sex or arousal.I'll let Lisa give more details if she want's.
 

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A personal observation and question aimed, primarily, at the ladies but I'm interested in thoughts from the guys, too.

Not sure if this has ever been discussed, but I've never had a girl voluntarily suck me unless I was either hard or it was in order to make me hard (and I've never requested it - but maybe I should).

Never have I been sucked when flaccid, purely for her pleasure(?) of sucking on a soft dick.

I even had a girlfriend, once (though not for long - lol) who refused to even glance at my cock unless it was hard (she claimed, to any and everyone prepared to listen, that all love-truncheons look "unmanly" unless pumped and raring to go).

Never have I gained anything but pleasure from sucking and tonguing a girl's nipples - erect or not. The same goes for a clitoris (they can't be always standing to attention) which I can play with for hours without needing it to be part of foreplay per se.

Is this just a female thing?

Is sucking dick only performed in order to achieve or maintain an erection &/or to make a guy cum?

Does anyone (lad or lass) like to suck a penis and roll it around their tongue when it is limp, soft and pliant and with no arousal agenda?
......obviously bothe........Sucking on a dudes cock.....i think they call it for play:rolleyes:
 

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I think my b/f's cock is cute when it's soft but if he heard me say that he'd be pissed. Guys don't want to think about their cocks as cute.