Is anyone else completely obsessed with their boyfriends/husbands big dick, or am I just a weirdo?

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The way you describe it sounds really interesting! You seem pretty confident with your body, glad that you enjoy it so much. I also think a man being well endowed is a great bonus.
I used to view a big dick and a nice bonus as well, but now that I have been spoiled by one, it is a necessity for me. I have every intention on being with my current partner for life, but if for some reason I was looking again, having a big dick would honestly be the first requirement, before I even got to know someone. I would never settle for a jerk with a big dick, or a guy with a great personality but a tiny dick. I know how harsh that can sound, but both dick size and personality are equally important to me in a relationship.
I wouldn’t want to fall for a guy only to find out he can’t satisfy me sexually.

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most people are fine with driving a Chevy until they get a chance to drive a Ferrari. Then that Chevy rather sucks in comparison.
 

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I used to view a big dick and a nice bonus as well, but now that I have been spoiled by one, it is a necessity for me. I have every intention on being with my current partner for life, but if for some reason I was looking again, having a big dick would honestly be the first requirement, before I even got to know someone. I would never settle for a jerk with a big dick, or a guy with a great personality but a tiny dick. I know how harsh that can sound, but both dick size and personality are equally important to me in a relationship.
I wouldn’t want to fall for a guy only to find out he can’t satisfy me sexually.

@VIIby5 put it perfectly
Personality is obviously very important. If your partner got both that's great enjoy it! I still have to find someone like this lol.
 

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I think most women are like this they just dont know what they dont know or they do but just wont admit it. My analogy has always been most people are fine with driving a Chevy until they get a chance to drive a Ferrari. Then that Chevy rather sucks in comparison.

My wife was a virgin when we met so she has no idea what she is missing and although I would be pretty devastated seeing her with another man I do feel guilty for not being able to satisfy her like a good sized dick could. No matter how much foreplay I invest or techniques I employ its just never going to be as good.
I love that analogy! Even if your wife wasn’t a virgin when you met though, there is a good chance she wouldn’t have ever met anyone with a really big dick. They aren’t as easy to come by in the real world as one might think by seeing so many gorgeous cocks on a site like this! Trust me. I know from first hand experience :joy:

The important thing is you know your strengths and weaknesses and do what you can with what you’ve got! The fact that you care so much about her pleasure speaks volumes.
 

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Personality is obviously very important. If your partner got both that's great enjoy it! I still have to find someone like this lol.
Oh yes! Personality definitely matters, equally as much! I honestly feel like I found a unicorn because my man has both, but I promise there are others out there! No need to settle! Enjoy the ride (pun intended) while searching for a guy with the full package ;)
 
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Oh yes! Personality definitely matters, equally as much! I honestly feel like I found a unicorn because my man has both, but I promise there are others out there! No need to settle! Enjoy the ride (pun intended) while searching for a guy with the full package ;)
It seems he definitely got the "horn" that makes him a unicorn
 

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I love that analogy! Even if your wife wasn’t a virgin when you met though, there is a good chance she wouldn’t have ever met anyone with a really big dick. They aren’t as easy to come by in the real world as one might think by seeing so many gorgeous cocks on a site like this! Trust me. I know from first hand experience :joy:

The important thing is you know your strengths and weaknesses and do what you can with what you’ve got! The fact that you care so much about her pleasure speaks volumes.

Lol, I laughed when I read this about how rare you're saying it is, because it's always been weird to me growing up growing up having what I thought was normal and then you get out in the real world and realize okay, people are telling you that it's definitely not :joy:

Brings back funny memories of when I was first starting to buy condoms, that and locker rooms were definitely an eye opener for me.
 
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Lol, I laughed when I read this about how rare you're saying it is, because it's always been weird to me growing up growing up having what I thought was normal and then you get out in the real world and realize okay, people are telling you that it's definitely not :joy:

Brings back funny memories of when I was first starting to buy condoms, that and locker rooms were definitely an eye opener for me.
Don't you see each other in the locker rooms or was it quite early when you realized?
 

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Don't you see each other in the locker rooms or was it quite early when you realized?

Locker rooms and all of the comments I got then were when I first realized, and then it was buying condoms and the reactions from girls through my college years when I started hooking up a lot.
 

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I am genuinely curious on this one - male or females, please feel free to reply!

My boyfriend has, by far, the largest dick (both in length and girth) of anyone I have ever fucked. I have always enjoyed sex, but holy hell! Experiencing a legitimate big dick was a life-changing experience. I know that sound a tad ridiculous, but it’s true!

I wasn’t always this way. I have had a number of previous partners, all of whom had average sized dicks. Some who knew how to use them and others who didn’t. Even the ones who knew how to use it, didn’t come close in terms of the intensity of orgasms they gave me. Not only that, I typically had to focus quite a bit during sex to get to the point of a vaginal orgasm. There were many times with other smaller cocks I couldn’t get there at all.

That’s not even an option with my boyfriends dick. Generally, he gives me at least 3 orgasms every time we have sex, leaving my whole body quivering after. The girth alone often makes me cum just from initially pushing it inside me. There isn’t anything like that first feeling of being penetrated and stretched. I’ll inevitably cum at least a couple more times while he is fucking me. My absolute favorite thing though, is that when he cums, because he fills me so entirely, I can feel his cock pulsing inside me. The feeling of him cumming and filling me up even more, makes me cum again 9 out of 10 times.

There really is not anything like it. I thought sex was fun before, and was happy with an orgasm every now and then. But now that I know how amazing sex can really be, when you have someone with a big dick who knows how to use it, there just isn’t any going back. If I watch porn I don’t even find myself attracted to average sized dicks anymore, where as I used to not really pay too much attention to the size.

I literally think about his dick all the time. I get so turned on just seeing the bulge from his pants or shorts (it’s impossible to hide). If he sends me photos, I get instantly wet and can feel my clit throbbing.

It’s not even just sex that I crave. I love everything about his dick. It’s just perfect. I love playing with it soft while watching tv or falling asleep and feeling it grow in my hand. I love sucking on it, and even just looking at it. Is it weird to think a dick is beautiful?

Oh, and this isn’t a new relationship either. We have been together for many years, and my obsession has not faded in the slightest. If anything it’s increased….

Curious if there are any others out there like me?
Yes this is healthy and completely normal I can tell your relationship is lasting
 

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I am genuinely curious on this one - male or females, please feel free to reply!

My boyfriend has, by far, the largest dick (both in length and girth) of anyone I have ever fucked. I have always enjoyed sex, but holy hell! Experiencing a legitimate big dick was a life-changing experience. I know that sound a tad ridiculous, but it’s true!

I wasn’t always this way. I have had a number of previous partners, all of whom had average sized dicks. Some who knew how to use them and others who didn’t. Even the ones who knew how to use it, didn’t come close in terms of the intensity of orgasms they gave me. Not only that, I typically had to focus quite a bit during sex to get to the point of a vaginal orgasm. There were many times with other smaller cocks I couldn’t get there at all.

That’s not even an option with my boyfriends dick. Generally, he gives me at least 3 orgasms every time we have sex, leaving my whole body quivering after. The girth alone often makes me cum just from initially pushing it inside me. There isn’t anything like that first feeling of being penetrated and stretched. I’ll inevitably cum at least a couple more times while he is fucking me. My absolute favorite thing though, is that when he cums, because he fills me so entirely, I can feel his cock pulsing inside me. The feeling of him cumming and filling me up even more, makes me cum again 9 out of 10 times.

There really is not anything like it. I thought sex was fun before, and was happy with an orgasm every now and then. But now that I know how amazing sex can really be, when you have someone with a big dick who knows how to use it, there just isn’t any going back. If I watch porn I don’t even find myself attracted to average sized dicks anymore, where as I used to not really pay too much attention to the size.

I literally think about his dick all the time. I get so turned on just seeing the bulge from his pants or shorts (it’s impossible to hide). If he sends me photos, I get instantly wet and can feel my clit throbbing.

It’s not even just sex that I crave. I love everything about his dick. It’s just perfect. I love playing with it soft while watching tv or falling asleep and feeling it grow in my hand. I love sucking on it, and even just looking at it. Is it weird to think a dick is beautiful?

Oh, and this isn’t a new relationship either. We have been together for many years, and my obsession has not faded in the slightest. If anything it’s increased….

Curious if there are any others out there like me?
I get so hard looking at big dicks and my wife has had big ones…8…9…10 inches and she said there's nothing like it…although…she says they can be uncomfortable but worth the effort…so we are looking for a guy with a big dick that we both can enjoy
 
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Im obsessed with my bfs dick! It hasn’t even been that long. We’re a fairly new couple. he has the biggest ive ever seen in real life. The lengthy ones never gave me trouble in the past but the GIRTH! He is the kindest sweetest guy but it’s almost like he is a completely different person in bed.
The way he handles me..it makes me so wet. I’ve always had a little bit of a submissive side but i never discussed it with him. He fucks so hard that i almost feel like i will pass out from the continuous orgasms. As if that wasn’t enough..he lasts more than 30-45 mins inside me. The strange thing is that in his mind his dick is normal. He hasnt said anything about it or bragged ever. Can someone really be unaware ?

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I sorta have this fear that no one else will be able to satisfy me if we ever break up.
 

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I guess you'd say I settled....my husband is smaller and while we have a good relationship, I do wish sometimes he was hung and I could brag on his dick the way the original poster brags on her bf. I've realized too late how important size is to me. I do admire all of you who are hung and proud though, and I'm envious of the women that get to experience you.
 

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My ex was like this.

She called it a kind of penis envy--she was utterly fascinated with mine apart from how I used it (which was pretty well imo), there were times she found herself idly playing with it and talked about pegging me (which I was down for but we never got to that).

Toward the end I suspect it was the only thing left she liked about me, alas.
 

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I guess you'd say I settled....my husband is smaller and while we have a good relationship, I do wish sometimes he was hung and I could brag on his dick the way the original poster brags on her bf. I've realized too late how important size is to me. I do admire all of you who are hung and proud though, and I'm envious of the women that get to experience you.
My wife settled also but since she was a virgin she doesn't know what she is missing . I guess that could be considered a positive at least from my perspective. It does weigh on me a bit and sometimes feel guilty about not measuring up.

Does your husband feel bad about the situation?

If you dont mind me asking what size did you settle( husband) for and what size would you consider to be a satisfactory size for you. Length and girth?
 
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My wife settled also but since she was a virgin she doesn't know what she is missing . I guess that could be considered a positive at least from my perspective. It does weigh on me a bit and sometimes feel guilty about not measuring up.

Does your husband feel bad about the situation?

If you dont mind me asking what size did you settle( husband) for and what size would you consider to be a satisfactory size for you. Length and girth?
Fully erect, he's probably 4" or so. I think around 7" is the perfect size. I don't know if he really feels bad about it, but I can tell he is insecure and self conscious sometimes so no doubt he is at least aware he's below average.
 

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It’s not the size or girth.. I get sick and tired of people thinking only huge cocks makes for a good fucking..

One guy I was with was barely six inches and he knew how to use that cock .. first time he fucked me my ass was sore for days.. and did it again.. three times that night and next Daryl was still sore and I wanted him to fuck me a lot .. and he did..

I’d been fucked by guys 8 to 11 inches and thick as hell.. but he knew how to use what he had and I think there were times he didn’t want to do it but he did just to make me happy