Is asexuality the answer to the small penis problem?

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Asexuality - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia

The above is the wikipedia definition of asexuality.

So, I've been thinking recently about how to solve the problem of men with small penises and I came to the realization that the vast majority of the problems related to small dicks have to do with sex. If sex wasn't part of the equation having a small penis wouldn't be a problem at all. This leads me to believe that asexuality is the answer to the small penis problem.

If those of us with small penises gave up on sex and sexuality, our lives would become much easier. We wouldn't have the burden of pleasuring women or relationships in general. We would no longer be intimidated or threatened by large cocks because a large cock's sphere of influence is relegated to the realm of sex. I think it's a much better solution for everyone. This idea might even lower the crime rate.

The only problem is how to create this new world. The obvious answer is that the government would have to enforce this new lifestyle. It would become illegal for men with small dicks to have sex or consume pornographic materials like videos or magazines.

I know what a lot of your are thinking, "how will the government enforce this?" That's simple. If a woman or gay man has sex with a man who has a small penis, (s)he can report that man to the authorities and receive an award of $10,000. The offending man will be sent to prison or forced to pay a hefty fine. In terms of pornography, there will be a database of men with small dicks and before buying pornography or any kind of sex toy the store or business selling the porn/sex toy will have to run the customers name and social security number through the system to make sure they aren't prohibited from buying these materials.

In a perfect world, masturbation would also be banned, but sadly masturbation laws would be much too hard (lol) to enforce, so that's the one loop hole.

What do you guys think?
 

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I also think you either a man who had a such a small penis it's given you a complex or a
man with such a big penis that you've taken the issue of small penises (peni?) to psychopathic/ sociopathic lengths.
 

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As a genuine asexual, I can assure you that penis size and sexual desire have no correlation.

If those of us with small penises gave up on sex and sexuality, our lives would become much easier.
In fact, I find your post extremely disturbing, and your comparison of my sexuality to a cop-out to be more than a bit offensive.

I hope, sincerely, that you are not actually serious.
 

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This is an absurd thread. Any person is capable of giving and receiving sexual pleasure. Having a small dick isn't a problem. It's what God gave some dudes. He also made some near-sighted people. Some people who can't dance. Even some people who can't sing on pitch (the horror!). Maximize your strengths, don't hide from your weaknesses.
 

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Furthermore, having a small penis isn't a problem. And how the hell does penis size effect crime rates!

The idea that this would lower the crime rate was a joke. It was a subtle reference to the South Park episode where violence was ended once the average penis size was lowered.

But, having a small penis is a big sexual problem.

As a genuine asexual, I can assure you that penis size and sexual desire have no correlation.


In fact, I find your post extremely disturbing, and your comparison of my sexuality to a cop-out to be more than a bit offensive.

I hope, sincerely, that you are not actually serious.

I am sorry for offending you. I completely respect your sexual orientation and did not intend to insult you at all.

It's not that I feel that your sexuality is a cop out, it's just that I think that if those of us with small dicks did not have any sexual desires or were at least forced to live like we did, then the lives of everyone would be much better. Women would no longer live in fear of meeting a guy, liking him and then finding out that he has a tiny cock. Men with small dicks would never have to be rejected for being small. Even men with big dicks would benefit as they would now have a much wider pool of women to date. It's truly a win-win for everyone.


This is an absurd thread. Any person is capable of giving and receiving sexual pleasure.

Men with small dicks cannot pleasure women or men. That's the problem. Saying that a man with a small dick can please anyone is like saying that a man with one hand can clap.

I have no facts to back this up, but I bet that men with small dicks can't even pleasure themselves. Once again, I have no facts to back this up, but when I see men cum in porn their orgasms are much more intense than anything I've ever had. In fact, whenever I've seen an average or tiny dick cum, the orgasm has appeared quite weak. I think this is because small dicks have less nerve endings overall, so the actual pleasure we receive from sex or even masturbation is lower than men with average or larger cocks.

Once again, I have no facts to back up what I said above. But, I do think it's probably. I wish a reputable scientific journal try to examine that issue a bit.


Having a small dick isn't a problem. It's what God gave some dudes. He also made some near-sighted people. Some people who can't dance. Even some people who can't sing on pitch (the horror!). Maximize your strengths, don't hide from your weaknesses.

I also think that people should maximize their strengths. For men with small dicks, their strengths lie in anything non sexual. My idea allows for them to focus on what they're good at.
 

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I am sorry for offending you. I completely respect your sexual orientation and did not intend to insult you at all.
That's very gracious. Thank you.

It's not that I feel that your sexuality is a cop out, it's just that I think that if those of us with small dicks did not have any sexual desires or were at least forced to live like we did, then the lives of everyone would be much better. Women would no longer live in fear of meeting a guy, liking him and then finding out that he has a tiny cock. Men with small dicks would never have to be rejected for being small. Even men with big dicks would benefit as they would now have a much wider pool of women to date. It's truly a win-win for everyone.
I have no sex drive. I do not repress it or ignore it. To me, it is irrelevant.

Unlike me, yours would have to be repressed. Consciously, or pharmaceutically. To you, presumably, it is a basic driving instinct...to meet up, to love, to couple, and to have sex. Why would you deny yourself *even the possibility* of such a basic desire?

Celibacy != asexuality.

Thinking back, I can remember several threads concerning the opposite end of the spectrum, asking how to not hurt a woman, or how to to overcome other various logistical problems caused by an abnormally large penis.

Presumably, statistical outliers *on both ends* of the scale would have issues.

But is this enough of an issue to address? I mean, though I have no first hand experience with this, wouldn't it stand to reason that just as men's genitals come in different sizes, so would women's? Why not just match up according to size, if that's your issue?

And, again speaking from a lack of personal experience, is it true that women "live in fear" of meeting and liking a man with smaller equipment? I suspect that you are overstating the issue.

Where is this coming from? I sense in you, a personal experience which has brought this to the forefront.
 
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Never. Never. Never.
I have a small dick but OH BOY I have a great sex life.
Would never give up sex.
I might have a small dick but I used words, atmosphere, tongue, fingers, massage, to give my girl multiple orgasms before I penetrate.
I sure don't worry about the size of my dick.
 

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Never. Never. Never.
I have a small dick but OH BOY I have a great sex life.
Would never give up sex.
I might have a small dick but I used words, atmosphere, tongue, fingers, massage, to give my girl multiple orgasms before I penetrate.
I sure don't worry about the size of my dick.

If the 5 x 4.5 statement in your profile is about your penis size, then you're average not small. It's perfectly fine for men with average penises to have sexual relationships, but if you're smaller than average sex is debasing to both yourself and your partner.
 

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That's very gracious. Thank you.


I have no sex drive. I do not repress it or ignore it. To me, it is irrelevant.

Unlike me, yours would have to be repressed. Consciously, or pharmaceutically. To you, presumably, it is a basic driving instinct...to meet up, to love, to couple, and to have sex. Why would you deny yourself *even the possibility* of such a basic desire?

Celibacy != asexuality.

Very good points. In my mind, the sexuality of men with small dicks is harmful to society and should be suppressed. Sex with a small penis debases human sexuality by making it a meaningless gesture devoid of pleasure or emotion. By robbing your partner of even the slightest opportunity for pleasure and an emotional connection with their partner, women and gay men will begin to resent their partners and the concept of sex and relationships in general. Dooming them to lives of loneliness and depression. This is why the sexuality of men with small dicks must be suppressed at all costs!

Thinking back, I can remember several threads concerning the opposite end of the spectrum, asking how to not hurt a woman, or how to to overcome other various logistical problems caused by an abnormally large penis.

Presumably, statistical outliers *on both ends* of the scale would have issues.

But is this enough of an issue to address? I mean, though I have no first hand experience with this, wouldn't it stand to reason that just as men's genitals come in different sizes, so would women's? Why not just match up according to size, if that's your issue?

And, again speaking from a lack of personal experience, is it true that women "live in fear" of meeting and liking a man with smaller equipment? I suspect that you are overstating the issue.

Where is this coming from? I sense in you, a personal experience which has brought this to the forefront.

You make interesting points, but I disagree. A woman's vagina can be trained to accommodate larger (better) penises much easier than a penis can be made bigger. To put it simply, you can fix a defective vagina, but you can't fix a defective dick.

You are correct, I have had many experiences that have taught me the futility of sex with a small (defective) penis.
 

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I think you just like it when you find ways to make other people - strangers in distant lands, some of us - think about the smallness of your penis. I'm not sure it's the usual SPH thing, but there is definitely something imperfect in your mind.

But that's OK. Who am I to judge ? My mind is imperfect too - I had brain scans recently, for example.

Here's the thing. Yes, having a smaller than average penis CAN create some problems for some people. And, as we know, so can having a bigger than average penis.

The two aren't equal, I agree. "Neutral" people would be more likely to feel sorry for the guy with the small penis. Large penises are seen as more masculine, more powerful, and so, for many straight women, and gay men, presumed to be more desirable. Even though some of us know that there can be a downside.

Now, I'm not claiming to be intellectually superior, or to be managing the whole set of issues better than you. And I know that having a cock slightly above average, but only very slightly, is almost by definition completely unremarkable. And I know that I am interested in penises, and men's thoughts about them, otherwise I wouldn't be here from time to time. So, I'm not separate from the whole issue.

But I do think you could be taking this a little too far, with your ideas about celibacy and chastity. Yes, it might work well for some individuals. But, for me, the issue is : freedom. Should the government get involved in this, and be saying what people should do ? Who they should sleep with ? How often ?

NO. Of course not. It is no business of government to regulate human sexual behaviour. If one person wants to be celibate and another doesn't, that's fine. If one person only wants sex within marriage and another doesn't, that's fine. If one person wants to be straight, another gay, and another bi-, that's fine. If one person wants to have sex with men with small dicks, and another with men with big dicks, and another doesn't really mind either way, then that's fine.

It's all fine. There is freedom in the world. And variety. And change.

Governments should be managing economic freedom - education and health, foreign relations and defence, industrial and agricultural policy, food and drug standards, the environment. Those kinds of things. Not penis size.

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Read the first line, then lost interest. Personally, I find that those that lack the drive sexually, most of the time lack it in creativity. Procrastination is sometimes viewed as a bad thing, but it can also give birth to some very creative ideas. Where as people who lack invention and creativity usually busy themselves looking to the well worn and old age views such as world domination and tomorrows weather :)
 

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Wallyj84, thanks for stirring up some emotion. At least we will have something to read, ponder, argue about, etc. Sort of reminds me of what the article "A Modest Proposal" by Swift accomplished. I do realize that I moved your from a blog contributor to the rank of world literature contributor. But that's ok, I'm just wondering if I'm the only guy who reacts emotionally to the phrase "Does Size Really Matter"? That phrase seems to have become acceptable on television any time day or night around any age group. But may be I just think too much....
 

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I think you just like it when you find ways to make other people - strangers in distant lands, some of us - think about the smallness of your penis. I'm not sure it's the usual SPH thing, but there is definitely something imperfect in your mind.

But that's OK. Who am I to judge ? My mind is imperfect too - I had brain scans recently, for example.

Here's the thing. Yes, having a smaller than average penis CAN create some problems for some people. And, as we know, so can having a bigger than average penis.

The two aren't equal, I agree. "Neutral" people would be more likely to feel sorry for the guy with the small penis. Large penises are seen as more masculine, more powerful, and so, for many straight women, and gay men, presumed to be more desirable. Even though some of us know that there can be a downside.

Now, I'm not claiming to be intellectually superior, or to be managing the whole set of issues better than you. And I know that having a cock slightly above average, but only very slightly, is almost by definition completely unremarkable. And I know that I am interested in penises, and men's thoughts about them, otherwise I wouldn't be here from time to time. So, I'm not separate from the whole issue.

But I do think you could be taking this a little too far, with your ideas about celibacy and chastity. Yes, it might work well for some individuals. But, for me, the issue is : freedom. Should the government get involved in this, and be saying what people should do ? Who they should sleep with ? How often ?


NO. Of course not. It is no business of government to regulate human sexual behaviour. If one person wants to be celibate and another doesn't, that's fine. If one person only wants sex within marriage and another doesn't, that's fine. If one person wants to be straight, another gay, and another bi-, that's fine. If one person wants to have sex with men with small dicks, and another with men with big dicks, and another doesn't really mind either way, then that's fine.

It's all fine. There is freedom in the world. And variety. And change.

Governments should be managing economic freedom - education and health, foreign relations and defence, industrial and agricultural policy, food and drug standards, the environment. Those kinds of things. Not penis size.


:smile:

I get what you mean as far as this perhaps being too much government interference in people's private lives. You actually make a very good point. Personally, I'm willing to do it because small dicks are so harmful to the people who have to deal with them, that I believe they should be treated like a controlled substance. There's nothing good that could come from having sex with a small penis. Only pain. That's why those of us with small dicks should be forced into celibacy and asexuality.
 

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... Men with small dicks cannot pleasure women or men ...

Funny, I've been pleasured by many a small penis.

... Saying that a man with a small dick can please anyone is like saying that a man with one hand can clap ...

No, it's like saying that a man with small hands can't clap.:arms: In other words, bullshit.

Is asexuality the answer to the small penis problem?

There is no small penis problem. If you perceive it to be otherwise the problem is between your ears, not between your legs.