My partner last night had a couple of drinks, tripped, and scrapped her knee. She was having a great time up until that point. She thought she embarrassed me, when she really didn't at all. She told me to punish her.... she told me that it was ok to hit her..... to have my way with her....
Of course I didn't...... I love her. I never want to hurt her. But it seems like that's what she wants me to do..... even when she has nothing to drink.... I was disturbed that she asked me to hit her..... I thought it was insulting to even ask me to do that....... I'm not that type of man.....But I do want to give her what she wants.... We do have rough sex frequently because she likes that and asks for it...... but its never out of anger....
Do you believe this is unhealthy? Have you experienced other men or women like this? Is this part of some sort of sexual fixation or something that needs counseling?
Of course I didn't...... I love her. I never want to hurt her. But it seems like that's what she wants me to do..... even when she has nothing to drink.... I was disturbed that she asked me to hit her..... I thought it was insulting to even ask me to do that....... I'm not that type of man.....But I do want to give her what she wants.... We do have rough sex frequently because she likes that and asks for it...... but its never out of anger....
Do you believe this is unhealthy? Have you experienced other men or women like this? Is this part of some sort of sexual fixation or something that needs counseling?