whatireallywant
Sexy Member
I truly think it is a misconception that most women need to be in love or feel an emotional attachment in order to have sex.
I think being told that from an early age, taught men are pigs for wanting sex all the time, made most women turn off the natural sexual impulses. Because if men are pigs for having lots of sex and only wanting sex, what would that make a woman who wanted the same thing? A whore. Double standard.
There are not as many differences between the genders sex-wise as most think. I think society has made women believe we are not as sexual as men. There is a lot of new information (and old) that blows this theory out of the water.
YAY!!!!! I definitely agree! In fact, one of my main hot buttons is the whole gender stereotype/biological determinism thing...
Interestingly, I was raised probably like most women are, as far as what I was told about sex, but just didn't agree with what I was being told. :biggrin1: So much so that when I was younger I wondered why other people were so completely different in their thinking than I was.
Now, I do know that not everyone thinks like I do and I have to keep quiet about certain things with most people so I won't be called names and shunned. I have recently dabbled in the swingers lifestyle (went to a party tonight, in fact!), and I feel a lot freer there, where I can be more myself, but at the same time, be safe. I know that there are a lot of psychos out there and I do take precautions against that.
That said, I am also open to a serious relationship if someone compatible should come along. I am open to all the possibilities...