Is "big cock" a compliment?

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My question is this: If someone commenting on a man's photos or videos tells him that he has a big cock, does politeness require a "Thank you" in reply?

It seems to me that it does not. "You have a big cock," as far as I can see, is a mere statement of fact, in contrast with expressions of favor such as "You have a nice cock." Of course, a big cock is something that men in general want to have; so in saying such a thing to a man (I mean saying it through the medium of the Internet when he has his photos there for all to see, not saying it to his face in a locker room or in some such situation) one is likely to be saying something that he may find flattering. But it seems to me that the fact remains that "big cock" by itself merely estimates the size of a body part, just like "big feet" or "big hands," and for that reason, "Thank you" is not the appropriate response.

I ask this because of an exchange that I recently had with someone by private message on Xtube, where my videos are posted. A user sent me a message containing the following text:

(Added in editing: "Xtube Guy" is not my correspondent's actual screen name.)

I was in some difficulty about how to reply to this. Think about it: if someone says you have a pretty big cock, why should "Thank you" be the response? It didn't seem the right response to me, but I had to say something, so I wrote back as follows:

That brought back this reply:

So, obviously, Xtube Guy thought it was a compliment. I wrote back:don't worry about that xtube guy,you do have a gorgeous cock,but you don't have to thank him if you don't think you should

Fair enough, don't you think? Well, I got this reply:

Now, it seems to me that if anyone in this exchange is a douchebag, it's Xtube Guy, as I went to some lengths to be civil to him, while he replied with an insulting epithet. It is possible that the question mark at the beginning of his post, followed by the word "yea" (by which I assume he means "yeah," rather than the Biblical "yea," which rhymes with "nay"), as if he were carrying on my thought, means that he was simply unable to understand even the words of my previous message. But it really bothers me to be called such a thing, even by a dimwit. So is "Thank you" an appropriate response to "You have a big cock"?
 

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If you have photos posted; or if you are on camera and someone pays you a a compliment, just say thanks and move on.

If you are n the bathroom, minding your own business; and someone looks over and makes a comment. This, you are in no obligation to respond with a thank you, nor a smile.

Do not worry I checked the official rules of manners and etiquette, under the section about Penises :D
 
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My question is this: If someone commenting on a man's photos or videos tells him that he has a big cock, does politeness require a "Thank you" in reply? "
I agree with you as I think it is merely a declarative statement reflecting an opinion. I share that opinion and I know it makes my mouth water but that's beside the point.


LOL..
 

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If you have photos posted; or if you are on camera and someone pays you a a compliment, just say thanks and move on.

If you are n the bathroom, minding your own business; and someone looks over and makes a comment. This, you are in no obligation to respond with a thank you, nor a smile.

Do not worry I checked the official rules of manners and etiquette, under the section about Penises :D


You know I'm just actually reading through this thread and I find it quite revealing both as people like myself as "outside observers" of the big cock guy and recipients of compliments for having a big cock.

Moreover is it equivalent to guys gawking at a girls huge rack, , the societal ease of complimenting a woman on her beauty, guy on his looks?

I know it would be awkward to hear another guy standing next to some one on subway lean over and say, "Say dude, nice pipe you have hanging there,: and go back to reading his paper. This I find is a good rule of thumb.


If you have photos posted; or if you are on camera and someone pays you a a compliment, just say thanks and move on.

If you are in the bathroom, minding your own business; and someone looks over and makes a comment. This, you are in no obligation to respond with a thank you, nor a smile.

Do not worry I checked the official rules of manners and etiquette, under the section about Penises :D

I started the thread about swinging chariots as I'm starting to recall the many situations both past and present where total strangers seem to go out of their way to get the attention drawn to their package.

However........if you post photos of your dick online to fish for compliments,

then later,get blindsided , or just happen to catch what you perceive as someone checking your junk out, should you be insulted.

Is that the equivalence of people who expose body parts because of how it makes them feel, then call you a perv for sneaking a peek at said exposed body parts? Just asking
 
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On the weekend just past my love and I walked into the hardware. The local Bunnings. A couple of the women staff said ...Hi, what are you doing here on a Saturday?

My love automatically became protective. On the way out through the checkouts she was hugging my back, walking through the store she had her palm up my back..etc.

At the checkout she whispered in my ear "I'm just marking my territory" Ok, after I said ...My love, they are way below me in years and really have no interest. Her answer was, "makes no difference, if they find out how nice a cock you have and you know how to use it"...well she said big, but it's not that big.
 
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Is that the equivalence of people who expose body parts because of how it makes them feel, then call you a perv for sneaking a peek at said exposed body parts? Just asking



The best were these size queen friends of mine independently tear into acquaintances of ours.

The friends are a 2 straight females and a gay dude. The recipients of the compliments were straight guys.

They told the one guy, Dude, You're wearing a cock ring, and you don't need it!! Look how big your shit is already, You're worse than a chick flashing her tits.

And the other guy, they were on him for going commando. It's refreshing to hear straight girls talk down and dirty.

They were like "Dude what are you, fucking Jon Ham. Your'e swinging for the fences with that dog of yours walking itself and you're mad cuz a dude took a second look. Duh. Take it for the compliment it was intended for."