Is Bisexual Separate From Bi-romantic?

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I read here, and other sites (such as fetlife), and so much of bisexuality, and indeed male to male sexuality, is so focused on body parts and sex itself.
Not all, for sure, but it’s a loud voice in the tent.

For the bi and bicurious identified, when does the man matter more than an organ?
 

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interesting question! For me, “crushing” on someone is definitely independent of merely wanting to fuck someone, but I think I could just as easily have fun nsa sex with women the way I do men. You could ask the same q as “when does the woman matter more than the organ” and I’d have the same difficulty answering. Some people I catch feelings for and some people i can’t deny my physical attraction to em but I don’t really want anything to do with their personal world.

I guess that, given the spectrum quality of bisexuality (as with all sexuality) as opposed to a binary on/off switch of feelings/fucking, there’s not one answer out there but rather millions of independent levels of comfort and desire. For me it’s the difference between a crush and a one nite stand from person to person instead of a strict gender/sexual thing. Probably different for other people
 

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I suspect it has much to do with how bi you are 80/20 maybe you just need some dick involved but you are not into a full romantic relationship. I have trouble kissing a guy and can't envision being in a full romantic (partner) with a guy. I have a bi female friend that was married to a man when we meet and is not married to a woman. The three of us have all talked about this at different times. Her current partner told me she is all gay only into woman. However the four of us (them and my wife who is not very bi) have had fun sex together. Granted the full lesbian fucked me with a strap-on and we made sure the other two woman had fun. She told me I was one of a few times she ever had fun with a man.
I think where you are in the spectrum is a bit part of this, and not a cut and dry on or off thing.
 

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I don't think I answered your question clearly
I was trying to explain that I think the level of bi that you are determines how romantically attached you can be.
But what you are calling just interested in the body parts might be the attraction part of it.
So for our fully bi friend everything is possible
For me I can find a guy attractive by more than just his dick but still not interested in a full MM relationship.
For my wife and our lesbian friend the attraction helps them be interested in (dick, pussy, whatever) some body parts but not as far as me or our bi friend seem to be willing to go.
 

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Sex with a man is purely physical. I cannot have an emotional attachment with a man like that with a woman. I cannot kiss another guy, which is weird because I'll put his dick in my mouth.

With a guy I just gotta get my nuts off, and I don't mind working hard to get his off as well.
 

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Sex with a man is purely physical. I cannot have an emotional attachment with a man like that with a woman. I cannot kiss another guy, which is weird because I'll put his dick in my mouth.

With a guy I just gotta get my nuts off, and I don't mind working hard to get his off as well.

I agree to me it is about being carnal and passionate with a guy, however I do like to kiss.

I can spend time in bed with a guy, even happy making out before hand but there is no romance
 

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I'd never get amotionally attached to a man (maybe to a feminine transwoman), I only love cocks, I fall in love with girls
 
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Age old question ... I guess if anything I feel it's easier to be romantically involved with a man than sexually. I mean, I am not sure how to define a romantic relationship, but I know I can feel close to many people, share thoughts, feelings, enjoy things together and so on. I am not sure how I'd define romantic, maybe. Would I share a life with any kind of person? If thoughts, feelings, things you enjoy actually resonate ...

And since I am sexually pretty much down the middle, seems to make sense I'd have the same relationships with all sexes.
 

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Sex with a man is purely physical. I cannot have an emotional attachment with a man like that with a woman. I cannot kiss another guy, which is weird because I'll put his dick in my mouth.

With a guy I just gotta get my nuts off, and I don't mind working hard to get his off as well.

If both guys are consenting and aware of what the sex means, I think its totally fine for the sex to be just meaningless physical fun.

Its funny, you say these things, yes I agree, I will put his dick in my mouth and allow it happily to enter my hole, but kissing is not something I am totally into.

Has nothing to do with looks either. For me at least.
 
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If both guys are consenting and aware of what the sex means, I think its totally fine for the sex to be just meaningless physical fun.

Its funny, you say these things, yes I agree, I will put his dick in my mouth and allow it happily to enter my hole, but kissing is not something I am totally into.

Has nothing to do with looks either. For me at least.

Lips on dick, yes.

Lips on lips, no thanks.
 
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