Is bisexuality a choice?

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For me it evolved. I was pegged by an older woman at 20. She had a tit for tat anal rule. That lasted a year. I really like anal sex performed in on me. My first man was a few years later. My girl at the time was way at a friends wedding. I went over to my gay friends house to get a bag of weed. He knew about my pegging. One thing led to another. I was introduced to hot man to man sex for the first time. We fuck each other all weekend long. That went on/off for five years. He moved a away and I knew I was bisexual. My wife knows all about my past adventures. She peggs me at least once a week. It’s a choice who you fuck and are attracted to.
 
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I don't know. I certainly didn't choose to develop an interest in men, just like I didn't choose to develop an interest in women. I did choose to explore my interest in men (curiosity) and I can recall when I was first aware that I was interested in men, when I became aware that my interest was at a sexual level, when I started to explore that interest online and when I started to actually act on my interest (or curiosity); the last two were decisions I made after weighing up my options.
I don't think I consciously decided to explore an interest in women, it was there from early on and developed as I matured; it remained after I accepted my interest in sex with men.
 

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I don’t know I think it really depend on the person I choose who I want to have sex with because I am attracted to them male or female. It depends how I feel about the person or not and how they feel about me I am not attracted to just pus or cock i like them both I don’t label myself as one or the other I just am
 
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Initial impulses are just that... they open something you can either choose to investigate... or not.

A person can choose to explore it with their choice in porn... and choose to diversify their life experiences by choosing to pursue physical encounters.

So... nature introduces a spark, and it's up to us to see what we choose to do with it.

Personally... I find it hard to resist the temptation of to wrap my lips around a nice, juicy cock... That's MY weakness... ;)
 
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I became bi twice. A few years ago I went to the hospital, I had vertebral artery syndrome, according to the doctors. I lost my libido for 2 years. After that I was hetero, I didn't think about the penis. When I began to feel the same as before the disease, my bi side returned. I think it's my brain, hormones, they control me.
 
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It’s not a choice, but if I could choose my sexuality I would still be bisexual/pansexual. For me I can’t see anything that could be better. I’ve had sexual experiences with men and women and my options were always open to whoever I fell for. I am now in a committed relationship with a woman, but still will always be bi/pan