Is cuckolding only about size and strength

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  1. virgin_bi

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    Was wondering, if cuckolding means wifes/girlfriends sleeping with bigger men or just BETTER* men? Just a thought. Like my girlfriend was praising another of my guy friend..and I'm sure he's not very superior physically...got me jealous and then horny. Love the idea of cuckolding..keeps me thinking.
    (BETTER : considerate, nice intellect and shit...)
     
  2. D_Ernest Porknine

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    Cuckolding has always intrigued me and it is something I have considered pursuing (as a bull) . I would assume the woman would appreciate and the cuckold would get his pleasure from someone who had the attributes the cuck didn't have themselves, whether it be size, strength, brains, power, hair, etc. I possess both some size and strength so I feel I could make a cuck feel inferior which is what they want to feel like. I don't get it but what ever rocks your boat.
     
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    I don't think it's always about degrading a person. I think that's mostly porn stuff. My ex and I used to have sex with this lady while her husband watched. He couldn't perform because of surgery but he wanted her to be pleased. He was also bi and loved seeing her fucked. He always wanted me to cum inside her so he could clean her up. It was to bad as she was a great squirter, so I guess he only got showered.

    When we would leave she would use a strapon on him.

    If this turns you on then go for it and let us know the results.
     
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    It could be, or not. It really depends. There are couples who seek bulls for their sheer physical size, his prowess, the size of his cock, or simply the fact that he's another man. Or it could be any combination of those things together. But the bottom line is the man will either be forced to watch or voluntarily watches his wife/girlfriend have sex with this other man. There are some extremes in which the cuck is forced to do things that make him "appear" inferior to the man having sex with his woman.

    To each his own. If this something you want to try then go for it. There are lots of men who get off watching their woman have sex with other men while they sit back at see the events unfold before them.

    Simba
     
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    I have been a bull a few times and I'm below average height and slim, which is much better than overweight. So it's my cock size that gets the couples I have been with in, as well as being considerate and decent when we email prior to the eventual meeting and performing. Women want more than just a big cock, and a connection beyond sex is essential.

    I don't get the men who want to be cuckolded, and in each case the wife has done purely because her husband wants her to. They didn't have the need or desire to have sex with a bull beyond his need to watch. Sensing this is what makes being a bull a hard one to do (you got to get it up and last long enough to come inside, and virtually put all other thoughts to one side).
     
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    I'm not into the scene at all, but at one point I spoke to someone who was quite into it, and having the curiosity that I do...I asked lots of questions. For this person it was less about sex and more about power and posturing, and even humiliation. This guy would be invited into relationships and would have sex with the wife openly in front of the other guy, sometimes making the guy participate in guiding the bull's dick into her or catching the bull's spooge so that is wasn't "wasted". He would cum on the husband's pillow and make him sleep on it...or take the husband's place in his bed forcing the guy on the floor. He liked to hear the wife talk about how much better he was than the husband...aspects of which they would discuss while having sex.

    This wasn't to be confused with a three way in which there are two relatively equal males who express themselves in different ways with each other or a woman. This was distinctly an unequal role play in which one male was given a superior position temporarily over a person who voluntarily subjugated himself.

    Of course, the psychology of all this is complex and hard for some to understand, myself included. But...I don't have to understand why it works for some people...I was just interested in how it worked. Looking at it from a distance, it involves role play and a power switch for couples who might find that interesting.
     
  7. cuck4you

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    it doesnt have to be about humiliation - but for some, it is. in my cuckold relationship, humiliation is at the center of it.

    Found this list a few years back of a 113 things to do in a cuckold/slut marriage and thought it might be fun to post it here for your comments.

    1. Tease your husband with sex and sexual ideas.
    2. Comment on how good other men look to you.
    3. Tell your husband you like big dicks.
    4. Tell your husband his dick is not big enough for you.
    5. Tell your husband your lover/s are much better at sex
    6. Tell your husband he is a wimp.
    7. Tell your husband is a fag.
    8. Laugh, grin, giggle or shake your head in contempt every time you see your husbands dick.
    9. Tell your husband you can’t wait to have sex with someone else.
    10. Tell your husband you’re horny because you have been thinking of some other man.
    11. Make your husband watch as you prepare to go out to look for other men.
    12. Make your husband watch as you prepare to go out on a date.
    13. Take a lot of care when you get ready to go out. Do your self up really good, a long bubble bath, shave your legs, paint your nails, wear perfume and jewellery, do your hair, everything, the whole nine yards.
    14. Shave your pussy.
    15. Make your husband bathe you, shave your legs and pussy, pick out clothes, jewellery and perfume to get you ready for your lovers.
    16. Get a tattoo of a suggestive nature: QOS (Queen of Spades for attracting black men), black snake, “Slut”, “Easy” "Robert"( your lovers name) etc. You can get temporary ones too.
    17. Wear ankle bracelets. These are a sign that you are available to fuck.
    18. Wear ultra sexy, revealing slutty clothing, especially high heels.
    19. Don’t wear underwear.
    20. If you do, wear the skimpiest, sexiest thongs.
    21. Flirt heavily with other men at all times, especially in front of your husband.
    22. Find, meet and go out with other cheating wives.
    23. Form a local cheating wives club.
    24. Make your husband give you lots of cash when you go out.
    25. Make your husband go out and get a hotel room for you and your lover to use and bring you the key.
    26. Make your husband go with you and watch from across the bar/club as you meet, flirt and pick up men.
    27. Make your husband drive you and your lover around while you and him make out, suck and fuck in the back seat.
    28. Make your husband drive you and your lover to the motel and make your husband sit in the car and wait until your done, whenever that is.
    29. Make your husband go out and find lots of men for you and you pick and choose which ones you like.
    30. Make your husband go into a bar/club and tell candidates that you are available for sex
    31. Suck off men under the table in a bar/club.
    32. Suck off men in the parking lot or alley.
    33. Let men feel you up in public.
    34. Let men fuck you in the parking lot, on the hood of your husbands car or in the back seat.
    35. Let your husband see, feel and eat your lover’s cum that has been deposited in your face, mouth, pussy and ass.
    36. Make your husband watch.
    37. Deny your husband the privilege of watching.
    38. Fuck another man in your bed.
    39. Fuck another man while your husband is at work
    40. Fuck another man while your husband is in the next room.
    41. Fuck another man, film it and make your husband watch it later
    42. Place your husband in a chastity device.
    43. Tie up or otherwise restrain your husband and make him watch while you fuck other men. Consider gagging him too.
    44. While your fucking your men and your husband is restrained, call your husband nasty, demeaning names.
    45. While your husband watches, always verbally express how good it feels.
    46. Do things with other men you wouldn’t or haven’t done with your husband.
    47. Tell your husband all the details of your fucking.
    48. Deny your husband the details of your fucking, but let him know your fucking other men.
    49. Tell your mature daughters you fuck other men and Daddy likes it.
    50. Fuck your husband’s boss.
    51. Fuck your husband’s friends
    52. Fuck black men.
    53. Fuck older men
    54. Fuck younger men
    55. Fuck rich men
    56. Fuck bikers, truckers and cops.
    57. Tell your husband you'd like to get pregnant by another man
    58. Get pregnant by another man
    59. Suck off a man in front of your husband and spit the cum in your husband’s mouth.
    60. Go to XXX adult video booths and suck dicks through glory holes.
    61. Make your husband suck your lovers dick
    62. Make your husband lick your lovers asshole.
    63. Make your husband take your lovers dick up the ass
    64. Make your husband wear women’s clothing, make up and a wig.
    65. Make your husband clean the house while you’re out fucking other men.
    66. Make your husband baby sit your lover’s children while you got out with your lover.
    67. Make your husband wash and wax your lover’s car while you fuck in your bed.
    68. Make your husband go to your lover’s house and mow, paint, do other chores while you fuck in your bed.
    69. Make your husband get a “Cuckold” tattoo.
    70. You and your lover escort your husband to the clinic for a vasectomy and you both watch while it is done.
    71. Make your husband work more overtime while you go out.
    72. Make your husband pick out and pay for gifts for your lovers.
    73. Make your husband ask your lovers to fuck you.
    74. Make fun of your husbands dick in front of your lovers and your husband.
    75. Deride, insult, and name call your husband in front of him and your lovers.
    76. Have your lovers humiliate your husband.
    77. Have your lovers slap your husband
    78. Teach your daughters to have sex with your lovers
    79. Teach your daughters to humiliate their father.
    80. Go out looking for men with your daughters.
    81. Piss on your husband right before you leave for a date.
    82. Shit on your husband right before you leave for a date.
    83. Deny your husband sex for long periods of time.
    84. Deny your husband all sex, even masturbation.
    85. Allow your husband only masturbation.
    86. Let a big dog fuck your husband.
    87. Walk around your house naked but deny your husband sex.
    88. Watch porn movies but masturbate but deny your husband sex.
    89. Masturbate in front of your husband while you tell him the details of your sex with others.
    90. Bring home used condoms and give them to your husband.
    91. Wear all jewellery, clothes given to you by your lovers.
    92. Have your lover’s call you at home and ask for you when your husband answers.
    93. Let your lovers use your husband’s prize possessions i.e. boat, motorcycle, guns, computers, car/truck, etc. anytime they want.
    94. Leave notes for your husband telling him your out on a date and for him to clean the house, wash the car, do chores etc.
    95. Call your lovers in front of your husband just to flirt, chat and make dates.
    96. Make your husband buy all of your condoms and lube.
    97. Make your husband pay for all items and services related to your fucking other men.
    98. Make your husband lick out cum from your pussy and ass.
    99. Make your husband lick off any pussy juice and cum from your lovers dick.
    100. Make your husband suck your lovers dick into a hard on so your lover can fuck your again.
    101. Make your husband guide your lovers dick into your pussy and ass.
    102. Make your husband lie under the bed while you fuck your lovers.
    103. Tell your girlfriends your husband is a cuckold and you cheat on him a lot.
    104. Tell your mother.
    105. Tell HIS mother.
    106. Find girlfriends you like to go out with that hate your husband.
    107. Make your husband buy you sex toys.
    108. When out buying slut clothes, take your husband with you and make it clear to the sales staff that the clothes will be worn for other men, not your husband. Say things like, “Oh! He’ll love this!” Or, “Mmm, I know I can pick up a lot guys with that!”
    109. Fall in love with another man.
    110. Tell your lover you love him in front of your husband.
    111. Have a second marriage ceremony with all your closest friends that know you’re a slut, remove the ring given to you by your husband and wear the ring given to you by your lover. Make your husband the ring bearer and an usher and leave for a honeymoon financed by your husband. Hell, take the kids.
    112. Same as above but leave the kids for hubby to take care of.
    113. Take photos and video of your husband sucking dicks and getting assfucked by lots of other men, then store them securely and threaten to use them in court if you ever need them.
     
  8. swingle66

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    For me, cuckolding is very much about size. I wouldn't be interested in my girl fucking small dicks, but I would actively encourage her with big one's.
     
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    I see this couple every now and then, where the guy totally gets off seeing a huge cock plowing his wife. We talked about the psychology behind it in quite some detail: he likes seeing his woman having orgasm after orgasm, and thoroughly enjoys the fact that he can't make her come that way. He's quite an attractive guy in every way, and well-hung too; it's the purely animalistic side of it that he gets off on - he certainly isn't a cuckold. She was introduced to size worship - which it sort of borders on - through him; she didn't know she had it in her, but boy does she give full rein to it. Our gettogethers are always amazing. He sits by or on the bed, wanking and egging us on. Sometimes he joins in, "to feel how wide and open she feels", but it's never a threesome in the usual sense of double penetration, etc; he always goes back to watching after "feeling the difference".

    He also has a bi side, but out of respect of her, we've never had sex just him and me. But there definitely is a bi aspect to it, even if it is suppressed. Or rather, simply not brought into action.
     
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    I constantly get ditched because I'm a Donnie Downer in most situations. I don't call it pessimism; I call it realism.

    Basically, girls want a happy, strong, entertaining guy. When you start to slack in those qualities, she will go hunt for them from someone else. The real reason young couples marry and then divorce isn't because of money, it's because that money they used to have freely they associated with happiness, and once it's gone, so too are the warm, fuzzy feelings of the relationship.
     
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    Oh god, can't have this conversation before the cuckolds come here and start shaming themselves (or getting themselves off, if you will).
     
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    We cuckold, but it's not about size or power or anything like that. It's just because she loves having sex with other guys...
     
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    It means different for each person.
    But man this topic got me hard, I wanna fuck someones wife or gf on here.
    Holla!
     
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    So it's more like threesomes?
    Although I think if you were into cuckolding and size you'd have a really hard time finding anyone bigger than you.
     
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