Is Cyber Love Possible?

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  1. B_Austin Blue

    B_Austin Blue New Member

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    I think I'm in love or have a crush (a bad one) with someone I met thru LPSG!

    Is that possible? I've not met him in person, but we've spoken on SKYPE and i've also chatted on the phone and damn -- i'm falling fast for this guy.

    If you're reading this, I'm blushing, but heck, what's a guy to do? I'm not used to this feeling - it's been a while. Could it be real?

    :redface: I never thought it would happen. When we don't chat, I feel sad and anxiously await the next chat. I find this person to be intelligent, caring, beautiful, wise, funny, happy, oh everything that sends me over the edge.

    I think it's happening....
     
  2. avg_joe

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    Good luck
     
  3. B_Austin Blue

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    thank you - i don't know where it'll go if anywhere. I'm so happy to find someone so special that i'm scared i'll screw it all up. i have a short temper and can get pissed off really fast. we'll see where this goes. well at the very least, I can enjoy this feeling for a while right? :dunno:
     
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    yes, cyber love is possible....:cool:
    best wishes!
     
  5. nashboy

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    def...enjoy it!
     
  6. D_Jurgen Klitgaard

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    Happened to me too I think, best of luck to you! :smile:
     
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    It didn't work out for me but doesn't mean it cant work out for you or anybody else so dont deny it before you give it a chance. Hope it works out for you
     
  8. flame boy

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    Cyber Love is totally possible! Congrats on those mushy feelings etc!

    x
     
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    Its happened to me and we still mad into one another so enjoy it is all i say!
     
  10. Mr. Snakey

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    Anything is possible. Good luck to you.
     
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    Met a girl on here thought she was the one, but ended badly. Hope you have better luck.
     
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    me and my now-fiancee met online a few years ago, we got really close during the past 6 months, me living in the uk and her living in the USA made it a cyber-only relationship, it went well and I moved out to california last month, we hit it off as soon as i got here and I proposed soon after, I think the few months where it was purely an online relationship helped us get close and learn alot about each other before we settled into a relationship in person

    so I believe it can definitely work and is worth a shot of following it up, no matter how near or far the 2 of you might be


    ps. love you purrfect
     
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    It can definitely work, but be realistic and don't be blinded by love I think. But man, good luck, just like other people said before, it can definitely work!

    Cheers
     
  15. D_Portelay Porquesword

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    Anything is possible. From my years of chatting (8 to be exact) bear in mind that these feelings are intensified with the lack of physical presence. (Do some research on line about internet psychology, you'll see I am close to the mark here.)

    These things do pan out on occasion but the possibility of them doing so is but a narrow margin. It is rare and not always what you may come to expect.

    Go slow, take notice and enjoy yourself. Always safeguard your well being in the process.
     
  16. Eboomo

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    Oh man....sigh.... I have a love hate relationship with this topic. I have had those mushy feelings with someone I met online and who lives in my town.... Talk about luck. I talked with him for like three weeks on the phone and online. Same thing as with you I couldn't wait for the next time we talked, I wanted to meet him SOOOO BAD. Every time he texted me my heart skipped a beat...... then all of the sudden I hadn't heard from him in 4 days. His last message to me even said "Call ya tomorow". I sent him a message to see what was going on and nothing........ So I guess all I'm saying is don't let yourself get hurt (If thats even possible) because I was depressed and heartbroken for to long after being dropped so suddenly. It seems to be much easier in cyber romance to just walk away instead of considering the other person.
     
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    Yeah i think cyber love is possible. Gud Luck hunny x
     
  18. exwhyzee

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    It can happen, just be sensible and dont fill in too many blanks with the answers that you want to be there.
     
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    Very definitely! LPSG is responsible for at least three marriages and even more long-term relationships.

    Please, however, do not make the mistake I did and wait to declare your intentions. The longer you wait the more your brain will fill-in missing gaps with fantasies of how perfect you'd be together, making any disappointment hurt far more than you can imagine. Let whomever it is know now, before you get too involved.
     
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    Enter every relationship I've ever had. I wait too long, create a perfect mental persona and then everything comes crashing down when she doesn't fit the mold.

    Original poster, don't wait! And certainly don't be afraid to progress beyond the cyber.
     
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