dating used to be fun and enjoyable. in today's age of social media, cellphones, instagram, online hookups, likes, and whatnot, the dating battlefield has changed greatly for both men and women. not to mention new laws and antics, as well as dating expectations.
i personally love watching MRA and MGTOW videos on youtube as it gives me perspective on why people are the way they are. do i agree with these groups?... yes and no. some points are very valid and some are just off the wall crazy... but i do step back and have to acknowledge that these people are voicing their opinions on their own life experiences.
for example, if some guy had bad luck with women all his life for whatever reason (his fault, her fault, social norms, etc.) then he will have a perspective of women as being "blood-sucking whores who don't deserve shit" while the next guy who grew up differently will be one of the guys supporting the 3rd wave of the feminist movement... i digress... you get my point? since i'm very open-minded, i love to watch MRA and MGTOW videos so that i learn more but not necessarily to become one.
here's my take on dating... if you meet a woke male or female in today's society, dating will be super-hard. they will have full knowledge of the playing field and will play you head on with that knowledge. what i mean is any man or woman who has swallowed the red pill. now if you meet a non-woke male or female in today's society, then dating should be rather enjoyable or at the least tolerable because these men and women do not know how to play the field yet and are still living in the "lovey-dovey neverland" world. some never make it out of there and actually live out a beautiful life in that world (and that's freakin awesome if i may say so). the danger with non-woke partners is when they wake up and throw your ass to the curb if you are not prepared.
my advice to guys is to be careful. woke women will not hesitate to lie and throw you in jail for rape, attack, abuse, or whatever that never happened just because you didn't treat her the way she wanted or turned her down for sex when she offered, or she won't hesitate to drop you for the next better guy, or she won't hesitate to marry you for your money, wealth, and success to divorce you shortly thereafter. it gets even worse when she decides to go psycho-bitch on you...
my advice to the ladies is to be careful. woke men will more than likely chase younger women and/or will drop you once you get "too old" for his liking. no matter how beautiful you are, it won't work on woke men. that beauty charm that you can cast over thirsty males will have zero effect on these men. sure it will attract them but the charm spell will never take hold. they will hang around to fuck you then most likely leave. they will never marry you and they will probably guard themselves til they die. the more money, success, and wealth they have, the harder it will be for you to date them and/or become of any worth to them. this does not mean they are bad men, they're just not boyfriend/husband material and you are wasting your time if you are looking for anything more than a "good time".
wow, i wrote a lot. it took me a long time to find my wife. both my wife and i would be considered "woke". we both are red-pilled, per se. i think the reason we work well is that i know she "wants" to be with me and she knows that i "want" to be with her and that at any moment, either of us can pull the plug anytime. we also compliment each other and never stop bettering ourselves for each other. we don't play dating games and we're dead honest with each other. lastly, i can't speak for her, but i know that as an entire "package", i have not found anything out there better than my wife, hence i married her; and i would like to think she feels the same for me but who knows... she brings me joy and fills in the missing spaces in my life so for now, it works and i'm happy for it.
could it change tomorrow, hell yes it can, and i'm under no illusion that tomorrow may be the day... and if it comes to pass, i'm okay with it.
