Is eating a woman's pussy submissive?

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  1. clman68

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    In the case of my wife and I, it is. She really likes sitting on my face. She talks dirty too while sitting on my face. She'll ask if I can breathe. She'll tell me that she's smothering me with her pussy and ass. She'll grind on my face. She'll tell me she's soaking my face with her pussy. She'll tell me she feels my nose tickling has asshole. She tighten her pussy around my tongue. I feel totally submissive to her when she sits on my face. And she has a gorgeous body. She used to not be into the dominant aspect of this, but in the past few years she sits on my face over and over. She enjoys it for the dominant aspect of it. I'll jerk off while she sits there and I lick her. Sometimes we fuck after; sometimes I come with her sitting on my face.
     
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    It can be submissive, sure. But the main thing is that you're eating it!

    Pussy Eaters Stand Up!!
     
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    Yes, it can be...and what a happy face/faces you make.
     
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    I think that just like sucking dick, it can go either way.
     
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    You're the one in control of the stimulation when she's sitting on your face.
    If you didn't use your tongue to pleasure her, she wouldn't get off that way.
    Tease her, make her beg you to flick your tongue across her clit. Make her plead for you to plunge your tongue far into her pussy.
    You're totally in control when your mouth is engaged with her pussy, just like she's in control when your dick is in her mouth!
    There is no submission when YOU'RE the one eating pussy, (that is, unless she has your balls in a vise-like grip)!!!
     
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    Can be, but either way it's fantastic!
     
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    Never really thought of it as submissive, since you are doing it to her. But then I don't see sex with a partner you care about (and they you) as submissive on either's part. Submission or dominance is in a person's head more than the act.
     
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    It really depends.
     
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    OK, I am gay as can be and this scenerio even to me seems so fucking hot. I mean she is comfortable to go there with you and she is getting more darring. I bet she is up for anything! I think you should explore this dynamic to the max. And, if you need to, mix it up and turn the tables. Sounds like you guys have something powerful going on
     
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    Yeah, I feel like the one in control when I'm eating my lady out.
     
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    No.

    The woman is being submissive by giving us the opportunity to do anything to her vagina.
     
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    Agreed, same as sucking a cock. You are in control of the pleasure, so if you want you are really in the dominant position. You just happen to be a sub and I bet as she learns you will become submissive in more ways.
     
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    agreed
     
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    Oral sex is a broad enough net that it's not dominant/submissive at all by itself. It's no more submissive than PiV intercourse, and that can definitely be submissive depending on how it's done.

    Smothering your face with verbal humiliation is definitely submissive.
    Tying her up, spanking her hard while eating her out, pulling her hair, and pushing her face in to the pillow is dominant.
     
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    Clman's description does sound pretty submissive for the guy. I too love to have my woman lower her pussy onto my face, but it doesn't have the same submissive vibe for me, nor does she like to feel dominant. It's just incredibly erotic, and about the most intimate thing a man can do for his girl. I love the variety that's possible, too. Personally, I love to tell her how swollen she is, how wet my face is getting. I know I've said the right thing when she humps back at my face.
     
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    Isn't this one of those threads for which the OP's real intention is to tell everyone a story about how he has sex?
     
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    I guess can I do because I love too.
     
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    How much more dominant can you get, eating her pet cat.
     
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    I never eat cause it's too submissive for me! Though I know other Doms thinks it's fine. For me I to be towering over her always
    lol
     
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    The role play seems submissive, but eating pussy could be either. It's what you bring in to it and how you act it out, doing it.
     
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