I don't get the confusion. Are you looking at the definition of the words before you use them?
Theory: a supposition or a system of ideas intended to explain something, especially one based on general principles independent of the thing to be explained.
Science adheres to this, fuck commonality. Say the words that you mean.
Either way if you are satiating your own desires then you aren't submitting. If eating pussy is truly what you want to do then a woman sitting on your face so you can eat her out is satiating your own desires. If you don't like eating pussy then a woman siting on your face isn't satiating you desires. You might still allow it, but its only submissive if you don't want it and it is forced or willed upon you.
Just because some people understand the meaning of a word as something other than what it is doesn't mean that the definition has changed. We don't change existing words to suit the fringe of society until it becomes commonplace. Otherwise if I start calling lettuce "apples" then you have to do the same according that own logic.
If you are satiating your desires through any action then you are not being submissive.
If you are partaking in an act without your consent, meaning against your will, then you are being submissive.
If you consider yourself a tool used to achieve satisfaction then you're objectifying yourself at that point. I guess that's not necessarily a problem but it doesn't address the context of this question. Does a hammer enjoy hammering in a nail? No, its inanimate, which is how you described someone partaking in the act.
When I eat pussy I am a willing participant and get enjoyment from the pleasure received by my partner and I want to do that. By satiating my own desires I am not submissive, according to the definition excepted by the English speaking world, I am just as much dominant because I am satiating my desires, taking what I want even if it means another is receiving pleasure because of it.
The only thing I can take from your response is that you don't like giving oral and have been forced into it at some point.
Anyone who thinks giving pleasure to their partner is a negative thing is probably disappointing their partner.
Theory: a supposition or a system of ideas intended to explain something, especially one based on general principles independent of the thing to be explained.
Science adheres to this, fuck commonality. Say the words that you mean.
Either way if you are satiating your own desires then you aren't submitting. If eating pussy is truly what you want to do then a woman sitting on your face so you can eat her out is satiating your own desires. If you don't like eating pussy then a woman siting on your face isn't satiating you desires. You might still allow it, but its only submissive if you don't want it and it is forced or willed upon you.
Just because some people understand the meaning of a word as something other than what it is doesn't mean that the definition has changed. We don't change existing words to suit the fringe of society until it becomes commonplace. Otherwise if I start calling lettuce "apples" then you have to do the same according that own logic.
If you are satiating your desires through any action then you are not being submissive.
If you are partaking in an act without your consent, meaning against your will, then you are being submissive.
If you consider yourself a tool used to achieve satisfaction then you're objectifying yourself at that point. I guess that's not necessarily a problem but it doesn't address the context of this question. Does a hammer enjoy hammering in a nail? No, its inanimate, which is how you described someone partaking in the act.
When I eat pussy I am a willing participant and get enjoyment from the pleasure received by my partner and I want to do that. By satiating my own desires I am not submissive, according to the definition excepted by the English speaking world, I am just as much dominant because I am satiating my desires, taking what I want even if it means another is receiving pleasure because of it.
The only thing I can take from your response is that you don't like giving oral and have been forced into it at some point.
Anyone who thinks giving pleasure to their partner is a negative thing is probably disappointing their partner.
