Is Fellatio Instinctual?

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  1. Symphonic

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    For those of you who do happen to enjoy a penis in the mouth and oral sex did you find yourself more willing to simply engage in the act without being told or did you find yourself being more led to the act rather than taking initiative? This is especially important for your first time at giving oral ministrations to the penes of your lives.

    Personally I think it is instinctual, I.E. you don't have to be taught or told and it just naturally becomes a desire to complete if you are willing and have no particular aversions, but maybe there are thoughts and opinions that differ and have good reasoning that I've not yet been exposed to.
     
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    Your first paragraph deals more with the desire to suck cock, instead of the actual ability.

    You can learn many things on your own over time, but you can learn them twice as fast if someone instructs you. This is as both a student and a teacher of the craft.
     
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    What type of anserine thinking created this post?
     
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    Which I admit I did not know exactly how to project the message of desire over actual ability considering in many minds they are linked. That aside, I agree with your assessment.
     
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    Sucking cock is like riding a bike, you just do it.
     
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    Nursing at a mother's breasts comes instinctually for babies. Instinct is an innate skill and babies are not taught to do that. I guess some styles of fellatio are similar to the sucking instinct, but others require dedicated practice (e.g. - deep throating).

    As for desire, I figure somebody either has it or they don't.
     
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    I agree. The very first time I ever sucked was so natural I just went down, it was like the natural thing to do, up there with sucking the guy's nipples and feeling his smell.

    I was 16 and he was 34.
     
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    Once you get eye to eye with a cock you like, yeah, probably so.
     
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    Out of curiosity, how do you feel a smell?
     
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    Lol, I'm going to say Extacy!
     
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    Some cultures more predisposed to it than others. Ayahs (childrens' nanies in Malaysian and Chinese communities) used it on infant boys as a pacifying technique. Usually European men raised in the east by an ayah take to having their cocks sucked like ducks to water.
     
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    Actually, I had to be TAUGHT to do it...by the guy I first messed with! He begged me to try it after seeing a movie where the girl was asked to do it! He wanted to imitate THAT!

    At FIRST, I was very scared and MADE him PROMISE not to LET OFF in my MOUTH! I did GAG the first time I did it and didn't like it at all! But as we continued our relationship, I kept trying until I began to look forward to feeling him PENETRATE my MOUTH and THROAT!

    NOW, I'm just a COCKSUCKING WHORE!!!! A DICKSUCKER!!!! A PENIS LICKER!!!!

    AND I LOVE IT!!!!
     
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    I would say that it is instincual. How many times do we see "straight :cool:" guys that say "I just wanted to try it"?

    I know for me, there was just a feeling, and this was when I was kid and didn't know anything. The exact same feeling that draws my mouth to a woman's breasts and pussy.
     
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    Most children are taught
     
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    I'd say taught. I think most of us assume that tab A goes into slot B (penis into vagina) and that's about all there is to it. (It may be different for gay males as they're already thinking outside the 'box'.:wink:)

    Once you're introduced to the concept via porn or by a lover your desire to do it will depend on your attitudes towards sex and may even change from partner to partner and over time.

    My introduction to fellatio was being told to get on my knees and "smoke the pole". I did it, I thought it was stupid and I wasn't eager to repeat it.

    Years later I initiated fellatio on my own terms and was thrilled by the responses I was able to elicit, from there coming to positively love the feel of a thick cock on my tongue and in my throat.

    Years later still, I did smoke that pole again. And I wasn't the one who fell to their knees.:cool:
     
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    those who say 'i just did it!' grew up in a society where we all know what a blowjob is, what a cock sucker does...so we all knew a little about it before we started.

    i would say that, no, sucking cock is not instinctive.

    what IS instinctive is reading his reactions to what you're doing, repeating actions which produce rewarding responses, and ceasing actions which produce negative reactions.
     
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    for me it was instinvctive...as a very young boy without any knowlege of sex, the first time i played with my friends penis i liked it so much i just wanted to kiss it...and kiss it i did! Sometime later i licked his dick and it was a quick transition to a lifetime of sucking cock, no tuition or education required.
     
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    You realy need to read or live more.:rolleyes:
     
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    big mouth :tongue:
     
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