Is Fellatio Instinctual?

[Wrist_thick10]

I think its instinctual. I've only met one lady that did not automatically suck my dick when I whipped it out.

 

[Waruiko_ne]

For those of you who do happen to enjoy a penis in the mouth and oral sex did you find yourself more willing to simply engage in the act without being told or did you find yourself being more led to the act rather than taking initiative? This is especially important for your first time at giving oral ministrations to the penes of your lives.

Personally I think it is instinctual, I.E. you don't have to be taught or told and it just naturally becomes a desire to complete if you are willing and have no particular aversions, but maybe there are thoughts and opinions that differ and have good reasoning that I've not yet been exposed to.

For me, it was more of an instinct and a "why not?" the first time I gave head. It was a self taught process with a bit of guidance. But you learn different.... Well... Strokes..... And techniques as you go along. I enjoy giving head.

 

[Daisy]

No way!! The first time a guy wanted me to suck his dick I thought "ewwww", and I was terrible at it. I did learn to appreciate it over time though, probably as more of an expression of my affection for a guy as opposed to highschool fumbling. Now I love it and can't get enough of it, so my instinct now is definitely yes, I want to put my mouth on it!

 

[latinluva]

those who say 'i just did it!' grew up in a society where we all know what a blowjob is, what a cock sucker does...so we all knew a little about it before we started.

i would say that, no, sucking cock is not instinctive.

what IS instinctive is reading his reactions to what you're doing, repeating actions which produce rewarding responses, and ceasing actions which produce negative reactions.

I agree...I think sucking cock is an art form that is mastered, and I consider it a gift from him. So I aim to please, I consider myself a great cocksucker. But I needed practice in order to learn how to really enjoy it and be sure he really enjoyed. I remeber the first couple of times, I was like,"is he gonna cum in my mouth, I hope not...and then bang, a big shot to the back of my throat." I also was like ewww! But then I would get very horny with the ideal of a man shooting his load in my mouth. I got better and better at sucking cock. By the time I had ten or so, I was an expert. I hate when people suck cock and have that bitter looking face either while sucking or when he comes. I'm all into it, I love to play with his cum and look him in the eyes like,"I love your cum...with a big smile on face." Now I'm all worked up, gonna have to jack off...see ya.:tongue:

 

[B_stevekorgman]

Well I was 14 and so was my football-player friend ... walking home after a game at night ... found a dark alley in a mid-western neighborhood ... he asked if I'd ever sucked a cock ... nope, I said ... do you want to, he said? Unzipped, and it was like I'd done it all my life. He blew in about 30 seconds and that began a long, wonderful relationship that lasted past college.