Is gay if 2 straight guys masturbate together?

[D_Jimmy Jammer]

If jerking each other off or masturbating in front of each other makes you gay? hmm...

I doubt it.
The American Psychological Association's concept of sexual orientation, according to Wiki,

"describes the pattern of sexual attraction, behavior and identity e.g. homosexual (aka gay, lesbian), bisexual and heterosexual (aka straight)." "Sexual attraction, behavior and identity may be incongruent. For example, sexual attraction and/or behavior may not necessarily be consistent with identity. Some individuals may identify themselves as homosexual or bisexual without having had any sexual experience. Others have had homosexual experiences but do not consider themselves to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Further, sexual orientation falls along a continuum. In other words, someone does not have to be exclusively homosexual or heterosexual, but can feel varying degrees of both. Sexual orientation develops across a person's lifetime-different people realize at different points in their lives that they are heterosexual, bisexual or homosexual."

The 'pattern' bit is important. So is the sentence in bold. Further, most of the points have been made, one way or another, in various threads, by many people without resorting to (excluding a few) the APA or any other Psych Association, or DSM-IV..which makes perfect sense. :smile:

 

[ck85x65]

For the love of Christ ... what is with you people.

Do the labels ultimately matter ?

If you think it is, then it is. If you think is isn't, then it isn't.

Who honestly is so self-absorbed to give a shit ? Why ?

Whatever of whomever you believe in, sex can be a Meaningful Experience or it can Just Feel great. It is SUPPOSED to feel great. Why obsess about it ?

If you want to do it, then do it. If you don't want to do it, then don't. But please, for the betterment of all of us, just accept it and move on.

 

[D_Jimmy Jammer]

If you want to do it, then do it. If you don't want to do it, then don't.

I would say that's exactly the conflict for some people. They do and they don't.
At least that's my experience in the work that I do.
Sodomy (read, 'homosexuality') laws in the States were repealed/struck down in only one state before 1970, in twenty or so states between then and 1989, in about ten states between '89 and 2002, and the rest in 2003. That's just the United States. Add to this the very slowly changing attitude of the Church, Catholic especially (many people have experienced a 'religious' upbringing and are affected by it ('morality')) - and the still significantly homophobic population, parts of which, admittedly, are changing (social ostracism)..let alone the poor souls who still wonder whether homosexuality might be an illness..and you've a pretty good mix for the conflict (anxiety) I've mentioned.
Not all things are black or white. :smile:

 

[Nudetommy]

I have jackoff with a straight buddy many time still do , been married
I like cock also

 

[deleted871301]

As long as the balls don't touch... LMFAO...

 

[bigbucky]

gee, drag up an almost 7 yo WGAF thread that has nothing to do with a healthy penis.

 

[itsalondonthing]

clang clang goes the trolley!

 

[coxslover]

Zing went the strings of my heart!
I guess that's because I'm gay.

 

[554279]

As long as the balls don't touch... LMFAO...

As we speak there is a crew of developers working on the "ball bib" to let straight guys get off in complete straightness

 

[littleguy2]

Well i like seeing other cocks, even jerkin some, maybe getting or giving a blowjob, but no way in hell would i ever have a boyfriend. Got a girlfriend and love that pussy, ass and tits. Soo to each his own. Live free die old!!

Couldnt have said it better but what does that make us?

 

[prepstudinsc]

No, why can't two guys just get off. If there's porn playing, a dick is going to bone up. Pull them out and get off, go grab something to eat. That's all there is to it. If a dick goes in an orifice, then I'd question the straightness. Two horned up guys do not gays make.

 

[Krusader]

Nope.

 

[hairynycstud]

Beating with a bud isnt gay..its just male

 

[hardsounder]

If you concent and enjoy the act masturbating with a friend who cares.

 

[deleted907269]

Come on, jerking off with a mate has nothing to do with being gay or straight (the porn you are watching or what turns you on about the situation might)
It's just a great thing to do, specially when growing up, let's not put labels on everything.

 

[hairynycstud]

Dang its good seeing a guys who gets it! Great male bonding bro

 

[notthatguy]

Just means they were horny. Nothing more...

 

[Notaes]

I agree with Sykray 100%. In other words just get over the fucking labels and enjoy your circle jerk!

Never engaged in a circle jerk or knew what it was until I subscribed to this forum. But I think I would love to participate in one get my cock out with others guys and shoot my cum in a circle with all the other MEN! Cum has to come out one way or another or I would go nuts. Just another way to shoot my cum!

 

[muscleman1965]

For the love of Christ ... what is with you people.

Do the labels ultimately matter ?

If you think it is, then it is. If you think is isn't, then it isn't.

Who honestly is so self-absorbed to give a shit ? Why ?

Whatever of whomever you believe in, sex can be a Meaningful Experience or it can Just Feel great. It is SUPPOSED to feel great. Why obsess about it ?

If you want to do it, then do it. If you don't want to do it, then don't. But please, for the betterment of all of us, just accept it and move on.

Can't agree. People too hung up on labels. If it feels good do it.

 

[Notaes]

Well i like seeing other cocks, even jerkin some, maybe getting or giving a blowjob, but no way in hell would i ever have a boyfriend. Got a girlfriend and love that pussy, ass and tits. Soo to each his own. Live free die old!!

Same here I love eating pussy and could eat pussy all day and fuck the next day. Love tits sucking on them biting them when they get hard and most of all sliding my hard cock inside my wife's beautiful pussy and fucking the hell out of her pussy and shooting my hot cum deep into her pussy listening to her cum and moan from al, the cock pleasure I give her pussy!