Is gay sex more enjoyable when 2 str8 men have it?

[NY4Curious]

Green Carnation--not only can two gay men have straight sex, they can have it with each other! The only limits we face are the limits of our imagination!

 

[DiscoBoy]

I think these people are operating with a basic dishonesty towards themselves and who they are, and I certainly think the less of them for it. But it's not important to me. It doesn't really affect me.

It affects everyone. Claiming to be straight yet fucking around with guys all the time promotes a homophobic point of view. If someone can go around essentially being bi/gay, yet identify as being straight, they don't have to experience the social stigma of being openly bi/gay and enjoy the privilege of being straight. They add to the social stigma. What they do makes it seem as if there's anything wrong with identifying as bi/gay. If you like sex on the side with men, you are not straight. Deal with it, accept it, announce it.

 

[Countryguy63]

I figured that Maxcok would enjoy this.

As a gay (bisexual, sexual male), I LOVE SEX WITH MEN! LOVE IT!!! And after looking at the thread "str8 men hooking up in the shower at the gym" or whatever, yeah, soooo not touching that one. I'm just curious- is there something I'm missing? Because every "str8" male I ever hooked up with turned out to be dick sucking slutty bottoms, so yeah. Looking forward to the responses. Let the fun begin.

Much more fun!! That's why I only use my "straight" 50% when I have sex with men :biggrin1:

Eh-men, brotha.

I absolutely refuse to talk cock with "straight" guys, let alone hook up with them. It's something I've started doing in the chatroom recently. If you're "straight", and you're asking me about my cock, or other cock, I'm just not gonna reply to that.

I hear that your cock is asked about in all areas of the world :tongue:

 

[HungThickProf]

Much more fun!! That's why I only use my "straight" 50% when I have sex with men :biggrin1:





I hear that your cock is asked about in all areas of the world :tongue:

Both statements are true. But Disco is the cream in my coffee, the beauty in a mad world, and the hot in my chocolate.

Country, you nasty. <3 you


I will go ahead and say this, and strangely enough- a "str8" man said this to me today. "If there weren't labels, how would you know what you're buying at the grocery store?" BAM!!!! Feed into that "I don't like labels" bullshit if you want to, but I'm not buying it- and I'm aware that I won't get it for free.

 

[green carnation]

but they will experience the social stigma of being dishonest or hypocritical. And how would anyone in the wider community know they were bi masquerading as straight, because they are not going to be advertising the fact due to shame etc, so i dont see how they are having a negative effect on perceptions of gay people. But i do see how they are affecting their own reputation.
Also, i have said this a thousand times, is ones sexual orientation not determined by ones emotional alliance and not by where one sticks ones cock? Therefore a straight man can engage in gay sex but not be gay...

It affects everyone. Claiming to be straight yet fucking around with guys all the time promotes a homophobic point of view. If someone can go around essentially being bi/gay, yet identify as being straight, they don't have to experience the social stigma of being openly bi/gay and enjoy the privilege of being straight. They add to the social stigma. What they do makes it seem as if there's anything wrong with identifying as bi/gay. If you like sex on the side with men, you are not straight. Deal with it, accept it, announce it.

 

[maxcok]

Wow, Dante, you designed a whole thread just for me? Thanks. :wink:

I figured that Maxcok would enjoy this.

Actually, not so much. As entertaining as it might be for you and no doubt a few others to see toss out a few bon mots or work up a head of steam, I'm really rather bored with the topic. It always ends up the same place: lots of preposterous definitions, rationalizations, self-delusions and denials. It's all rather annoying, uninspiring, and very predictable.

I might just sit here for a little while though, until I run out of opcorn:

P.s. Where's maxxy boy?

oke: Sorry, not going to take your bait, sweetheart. It's nasty.

I'll also thank you not to taunt me or mock my user name, especially behind my back.

im almost straight but would love for your big fat cock to pop my ass is that any help haha

You're joking, right? Please tell me he's joking.

 

[HungThickProf]

Wow, Dante, you designed a whole thread just for me? Thanks. :wink:

Actually, not so much. As entertaining as it might be for you and no doubt a few others to see toss out a few bon mots or work up a head of steam, I'm really rather bored with the topic. It always ends up the same place: lots of preposterous definitions, rationalizations, self-delusions and denials. It's all rather annoying, uninspiring, and very predictable.

Well ouchie.

 

[maxcok]

Well ouchie.

Don't take it personally, my friend. It's not you, it's the predictability of the responses. People seem to view the topic through their own unique (and often defensive) lenses, and they are incapable of seeing it any other way. It just gets tiresome after awhile.

As penance, I'll respond directly to your OP. If I'm going to have sex with a man, I want it to be with a man who is very enthusiastic, experienced, and good at it; not someone who is curious, hesitant and bumbling.
I can't answer for you what it's like when two "str8" guys get together. Perhaps for them the novelty and the "forbidden fruit" :wink: aspect is excitement enough. But based on my own experiences with the "curious" sort,
I can't imagine it would be very satisfying, at least not by my standards.

 

[B_Hung Jon]

I have noticed in my own life that there are a lot of guys who are "straight-identified" and/or are married to women with children who seem to be quite experienced in the casual sex game...like quickie blow jobs for example. It used to happen to me frequently at the beach where some guy who was hanging out with his family would then discretely walk past me to the public rest rooms and check me out with a smile and a come-hither look. I always used to wonder what sort of relationship they had with their wives if they were so casual about picking up guys at the beach in full view of their families?