so let me start off by sayin first time poster, long time lurker. Now, I love my gf very much, we've been together for a while but she is the jealous type, and I don't know why because she's beautiful. I have never ever cheated on a significant other in my life, and have only been with 3 women in my life. the first was a quick highschool fling, but the second was a 4yr committed relationship during highschool and college, and this third one is going on 3yrs fully committed. My current gf i think is going to be the one for me, we're both crazy for each other, however one day she found old porn on my computer. She got VERY mad and started saying that i cheated on her. she says that i shouldn't be looking at any thing other than her and theres no reason for me to have to look at that stuff. I defended it by saying I would never EVER even consider cheating with another peson and she beleives me. She knows i would never touch another girl, but even just looking at pictures online is a no no in her book. She also gets upset if she finds out i've jerked off because again she says the point of having a gf is to let her get me off. Now we have regular sex and its great, but sometimes i just want to get off on my own, is that so bad? I've begun to feel bad if i even just look at pictures of other girls. I feel she's being unreasonable, and it makes me upset because I've never even considered being with another girl, let alone having sex with another girl. I don't think i'm out of line by getting off on my own or looking at some porn here and there. I just figured its a good way to get off when I'm not with her. I don't know how to convince her that it's normal though. Am I the one who is out of line here?