Is having a small cock a Mental Thing?

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Hey guys. I've just been wondering lately, is it possible to make yourself believe you have a smaller cock even when you don't?

For instance, I'll been told I have a nice size cock ( 7.4x5.8 ) even called big a few times. However, for some reason I just don't believe it to be truth. Its like I have a mental block on it. So much that my erections as of late are soft and I've even thought about getting surgery. Sometimes I get real low and think about.. well I dont wanna say it.

Maybe Im just thinking way to much about it , or maybe Its truth and I'l just been getting lied to.

Anyway whats you guys opinion on the matter?
 

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Your erect cock is way above average. Your belief that you're small is a mental thing. Rather like an anorexic weighing 85 pounds (38kg) believing that he/she is fat. It may be a good idea to seek counselling.
 

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I agree with everything in the above post.

Many guys would dream to have a penis the size of yours.

But let me ask you this...does it matter if you are small? Would you feel inferior in front of a guy that's bigger than you?

I am 6" hard. I am more than happy with my size. If I could make it bigger would I? Sure, but I don't think I'm small.
 
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7 1/2 is a very nice size..., I'd love to be that big (5 1/2) and medically its
above average, average size being 5 to 6" Its not huge but huge always isn't best or sexy. Your lucky to have such a nice cock, not everyone needs to be 10" in fact very few are
 

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I've always kind of wondered if other black males ever felt this way too...it's like "go big or not at all". It's like there is only big and small...average is not an option and viewed as small. Well that's just kind of how I grew up and was hardwired.
 
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I've always kind of wondered if other black males ever felt this way too...it's like "go big or not at all". It's like there is only big and small...average is not an option and viewed as small. Well that's just kind of how I grew up and was hardwired.

Speaking as another black male (assuming you are) You are suffering from some kind of cultural programming that you should try to get beyond. Nothing about your race dictates much of anything else about you. Very few things are hardwired. If you don't like something in your head, find a way to get it out, even if that involves therapy-- though that's probably not essential.
 

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I don't think size should be an issue unless you the size of a peanut or she's as wide as a window.
 

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Speaking as another black male (assuming you are) You are suffering from some kind of cultural programming that you should try to get beyond. Nothing about your race dictates much of anything else about you. Very few things are hardwired. If you don't like something in your head, find a way to get it out, even if that involves therapy-- though that's probably not essential.

Agree, west coast and the south are totally two different places. Disregard, Not looking a derail original post, as you were.
 

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Speaking as another black male (assuming you are) You are suffering from some kind of cultural programming that you should try to get beyond. Nothing about your race dictates much of anything else about you. Very few things are hardwired. If you don't like something in your head, find a way to get it out, even if that involves therapy-- though that's probably not essential.

I think race may play a part in it. Not a large part though. Thanks for the nice comments about my unit. Maybe I should seek counseling, Because its starting to affect my everyday life. I just really think im on the smaller side for some reason. As I stated, it makes me feel like less of a man that sometimes i kinda just wanna end it. I think thats another reason why I can be so happy and then depressed.
 

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I'll been told I have a nice size cock ( 7.4x5.8 )

I don't understand how you're measuring. I look at your pics, and I'm fairly certain mine is bigger, but I'm not 7 inches, so how'd you come up with 7.4"?

How'd you measure yourself when you came up with those numbers?
 

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Well to be honest all my hard pics are me being around 70 - 80% erect. Can never get a full hard on with taking a pic. Oh and I use to be 300+ so I always have done BP when measuring, not a jam it in but a firm push.

Also PUT UP SOME PICS THEN =p
 

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My cock is nearly exactly the same as ( albeit slightly smaller than ) the opening poster's for this thread.

And yet, I believe I'm ( a bit ) larger than average.

If we use the normal commutative properties of arithmetic, that would not make sense. So, I conclude, he's on the larger-than-average side too :smile:

And, yes, almost every aspect of our view of our own penis in relation to others, is mental.

Indeed, arguably, our entire world is a just a "mental" projection. All of it. Not just politics, art, spirituality, but the rocks and soil, and trees and clouds ... See Berkeley, Leibniz, Husserl and so on...

DO NOT WORRY.

:smile:
 

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My cock is nearly exactly the same as ( albeit slightly smaller than ) the opening poster's for this thread.

And yet, I believe I'm ( a bit ) larger than average.

If we use the normal commutative properties of arithmetic, that would not make sense. So, I conclude, he's on the larger-than-average side too :smile:

And, yes, almost every aspect of our view of our own penis in relation to others, is mental.

Indeed, arguably, our entire world is a just a "mental" projection. All of it. Not just politics, art, spirituality, but the rocks and soil, and trees and clouds ... See Berkeley, Leibniz, Husserl and so on...

DO NOT WORRY.

:smile:

Hmm. I guess thats why MOST woman say as long as you have a good size and can use it dont think about it to much =)
 

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mate REALLY DICK SIZE AS ALL THE REST OF THE PROBLEMS IN THE LIFE ARE MENTAL.
BECAUSE WE ARE TIGHT TO WISHES THAT WE CAN
NOT REACH BUT WE PERSIST AND IT IS THE PROBLEM
WHEN WE ELIMINATE WISHES PROBLEMS NEVER SHALL. EXIST
BUT IS NOT AM EASY MATTER BECAUSE ALWAYS WE WANT MORE AND MORE
SITUATION IS THAT WHEN WE HAVE ALL LIFE. GIVE WE ARE NOT SATISFY,SO HOW COULD FEEL A MAN THE ONLY GET A BIT OR NOTHING OF THE LIFE.
 

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Hey guys. I've just been wondering lately, is it possible to make yourself believe you have a smaller cock even when you don't?

For instance, I'll been told I have a nice size cock ( 7.4x5.8 ) even called big a few times. However, for some reason I just don't believe it to be truth. Its like I have a mental block on it. So much that my erections as of late are soft and I've even thought about getting surgery. Sometimes I get real low and think about.. well I dont wanna say it.

Maybe Im just thinking way to much about it , or maybe Its truth and I'l just been getting lied to.

Anyway whats you guys opinion on the matter?

thats because it is small