Hello everyone,
Here is my situation : I’m 18 and i’ve never had a relationship with someone nor have sex with someone,
Since I couldnt find love IRL up until now, I decided to use grindr, which we all know is not ideal to get in a relationship, but rather for hooking up.
The problem is that since i never had sex with anyone, I’m feeling a bit reluctant to hook up for my first time, although there are some really really hot boys ready to hit me and also I just feel like it would take forever to find someone I truly love.
Rn I’m just starting to get bored of masturbating on my own lol.
Basically, I don’t know if it’s a bad idea to just hit someone for the first time or keep my first time for someone i really care about, knowing that i’ve already been waiting for almost 2-3 years.
Note that i’m just asking for the first time : i guess i would be more open to hookups if I already had sex before.
I would gladly take your advices !
I feel like hookups are much more common in the gay community, but I’m still wondering if their first time would be also the same.
So I would really appreciate if you could also tell what kind of first time you’ve had, like a hookup or something else...
thanks !
Here is my situation : I’m 18 and i’ve never had a relationship with someone nor have sex with someone,
Since I couldnt find love IRL up until now, I decided to use grindr, which we all know is not ideal to get in a relationship, but rather for hooking up.
The problem is that since i never had sex with anyone, I’m feeling a bit reluctant to hook up for my first time, although there are some really really hot boys ready to hit me and also I just feel like it would take forever to find someone I truly love.
Rn I’m just starting to get bored of masturbating on my own lol.
Basically, I don’t know if it’s a bad idea to just hit someone for the first time or keep my first time for someone i really care about, knowing that i’ve already been waiting for almost 2-3 years.
Note that i’m just asking for the first time : i guess i would be more open to hookups if I already had sex before.
I would gladly take your advices !
I feel like hookups are much more common in the gay community, but I’m still wondering if their first time would be also the same.
So I would really appreciate if you could also tell what kind of first time you’ve had, like a hookup or something else...
thanks !