Okay so I've been trying to date and find a boyfriend and start a relationship, but everywhere I turn, everyone wants to have sex first. And I realize that when there are two men who want to start a relationship, there are twice as many male sexual hormones in the air, which makes it hard to resist having sex as a first meeting. For me, there is nothing really wrong with sex on the first date, as long as we actually go on a date. I mean boys will be boys. Its almost always expected to have sex the first meeting, or atleast do something sexual. And so the thing is, Im not comfortable with meeting someone and boom, cock out, ass up in the air. But, it seems that that is how things roll nowadays. Am I just looking in the wrong places or is the apparent old-school idea of getting to know someone for a few hours atleast before having sex gone?