is it a big turn off when your partner's dick smells bad?

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  1. D_Dkjhgbk

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    urgh it kills my sex drive like no other. would u go down on your man when his private part doesn't smell nice?

    what about sex? would u do it with condoms?

    wat would u do in this situation?
     
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    <vomit>
    A shower???
     
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    :rolleyes:
     
  4. EmJay

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    Well I have had this experience once when I wanted to go down on a guy I was dating..and his dick was really awful..stinky and he had all guwie stuff inside of his skin..

    I was appalled that he didnt take a shower before he came to visit me and because I have had better experiences with him, I felt it was rude to just send him home.

    But I felt disgusted so I said he needed to take a shower. He did..but I could still smell a hint of that scent. So my appetite for sucking him was just gone..

    So i didn't go down on him...andĀ“decided that he just had to focus on my bodyparts..
    He put on a condomn..and because I was still really horney and needed to get mine..We still had a session pornostyle..

    However I didn't feel like seeing him again after that. he probably didn't shower for days before he visited me..because that was just awful. I felt disrespected in a way. Next to that the fact that I had to send him to the shower felt a bit embarrassing..so didnt feel like going through that again..

    I couldnt get the memory of the scent out of my head for a few days..

    We girls can have our vaginal issues as well..but my God..this was just awful.
     
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    Do you mean that his dick has that smell like old semen or do you mean when its a little too close to the ass? Both are pretty gross. If I'm going to go down there I expect him to be squeaky clean. If he's not, he needs to shower. Any guy who you're going to do oral on...you better know him well enough to have open communication otherwise you shouldnt have your face in his crotch!
     
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    Im the same way. If someone smells that bad I wouldnt be able to get past it. Ever!
     
  7. EmJay

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    Yes..We had been having sex for awhile..and never encountered this with him. He had just been amazingly dirty that week.

    But it didnt smell like ass..haha. It was that old..'I haven't washed my dick in a few days and there is still some old cum from a few days ago in there'..kinda smell..or something else that was white and sticky..

    Goodness..
     
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    I've never encountered this but if your dick was stinky I'd be getting out my toughest scrubbing brush and some industrial strength bleach.

    :eek: Goodness indeed. I admire your dedication to dick!
     
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    I love a bit of dick fromage on crackers. Bon apetit!
     
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    Total turnoff! If a guy can't keep himself clean, my mood is shot.
     
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    Happened to me ughh. Such a mood killer I mean its like if my nana stank. I just kinda popped back up and suggested some shower fun.
     
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    I would never show up to a woman's house dirty! thats the least we can do is wash our member.

    I expect the same from a woman - dont show up stinky or with scent!

    ohhh and bad breath - holy shit thats a mood killer!
     
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    Its usulaly under the foreskin tha.t stinks. Hey tell him and if he keeps it up, come see me i wash it everyday and sometimes twice a day and everytime after sex.
     
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    Oh god! Yes - mood killer and vomit inducer! This happened to me once and it almost put me off oral sex for good. I can't even describe it - it just was gross. Could not go through with it and he was so insulted, he never spoke to me. No loss.

    In my opinion, I don't care if I've been sleeping with someone for one night or one decade - I am going to be clean and I expect the same respect in return.
     
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    Phew! Thank goodness I showered earlier! :biggrin1:
     
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    To any guys who might be reading this who CAN'T keep their junk smelling normal:


    I had HORRENDOUS ball-stank for years with my ex. I couldn't figure it out, just kinda blamed it on my line of work which requires me to sit in a ball-suffocating chair and operate stuff with my legs for long hours. Sometimes she would literally kick me out of bed for how bad they smelled, even when we were just gonna go to sleep, the stench could fill up a room. It was REALLY embarrassing and I couldn't figure out how to stop it... I thought to myself "if I'm ever single, I'm screwed... how to you excuse yourself on a date and take 5 minutes to wash your balls?".

    Well finally, after researching it for the millionth time (maybe even on here) I came across someone online with the same problem. The culprit? Not drying off enough after showering... bacteria loves dark and damp, and ever since I was a kid I hated drying off, only doing a once-over for whatever stupid reason (probably laziness). My crotch was a breeding ground for stank bacteria.

    So ever since I do what the rest of the world does: take 30 seconds and actually dry off.

    No more ball stank! Hurray.
     
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    If a guy I'm with has a stench wafting from his crotchal region, I give him a bar of soap and say "Here, scrub your dick".
     
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    Haha, that was awesome! :tongue:
     
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    Once in the summer, i did not bath like in 3 days, and i did had a smell from that area, but it was not a ugly smell, it was like odd, but not bad, then my cousins and i went for my aunt at the school, and one fellow teacher asked my aunt if i wanted to meet her daughters, i was like "seriously wtf?" , i had an ugly beard, i smelled funny, maybe that smell was different, odd but it was like that, still if u will go out with someone always take a bath
     
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    oh dear.
    I never fully appreciated the trials of the female members of this site till i read some of these questions.
    Question for the OP: Would you go down on a girl who smelled? on second thoughts... make that rhetorical :rolleyes:
     
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