Is it a compliment?

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  1. Rob_81

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    If you were called a MILF, would you find that derogatory or take it as a compliment? I don't know if there are other threads like this, so I'm making one. I just want some input here. =)
     
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    I know I'm certainly not the person to answer this, but doesn't it go hand-in-hand with age? If you're a wee bit on the older side, it might be a compliment, if you're a young mom, perhaps you don't want to be look on as a mother, more as a young woman?

    Just my two cents. ;p
     
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    Very offensive, since I am only 19.
     
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    No what?
     
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    And you're a mom?
     
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    It is NOT a compliment, no matter what your age, to be categorized by gender and income level.

    edit: OR occupation!
     
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    ok I'm a female and a mom and MILF -- "Mom I'd Like to Fuck" -- doesn't have anything at all to do with income level, and I think technically you still have to be female to be a mom so no -- I don't take it offensive at all.......in fact I guess I take it as a compliment. Means someone still thinks I'm hot!
     
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    Who said anything about income level? The acronym MILF has nothing to do with income.


    That's what I would think most people would think, that people still find them attractive.
     
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    I guess it's because all the ones I've seen in the photos with that label are in a middle class suburban setting with abundant cosmetics and not any taste, which would lead them to be categorized as bohemian, gothic, educated, or skilled. They typically seem to be creatures who are entirely decorative regardless of their status vis a vis having offspring. I guess it's me who interpreted it as 'middleclass mother' MMILF.

    My bad. But I still wouldn't like to be that.
     
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    Well I wasn't one of those "lucky women" who had a kid and my body bounce right back to perfect. In fact, I've never looked the same. I don't think I'm ugly but I certainly don't look like I did before I was pregnant! I've been called a MILF on numerous occasions tho. Maybe it doesn't bother me because I'm not easily offended and apparently some still think I look good:smile:. After all, it's not like they called me a stupid fat whore!:wink: Now THAT might offend me!
     
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    The only thing that pisses me off about using the term MILF is when people use it towards women who are not actually moms yet.
     
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    I'm 40, don't wear a lot of make-up, and a Mom. But I've never been called a MILF to my knowledge. So I guess I don't know how I would take it.
     
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    I'd rather someone say to me that I'm attractive than call me a milf. I wouldn't take it as an offense, I'd just be flattered more by someone who respects me enough to use something other than a term coined by a movie!
     
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    I think you're over analysing just a bit! :biggrin1:

    I only use the term MILF if I know she has a kid. Otherwise, it's just a woman I find hot enough to wanna fuck.
     
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    in the car tuning scene...the word "MILF" is kinda stylish .. not bad at all.

    you can get lot's of stickers :D...:rolleyes:

    my best straight friend loves my mum too ;) but i would kill him when he touch my mother..
     

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    it's definitely a compliment to be called a milf
     
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    It depends on the woman. I'm not female, but I can see how it can be interpreted as offensive or complimentary. Some women don't like to be sexualised like that, whilst others find it appealing, as I say it's relative to the woman.
     
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    It's a horrible word though. You wouldn't say to someone else "HEY I'D TOTALLY STICK MY PENIS INSIDE YOU" but you are doing that to people by calling them MILF, haha. I really don't like the word.
     
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    It seems to me that most women would likely be offended by a guy saying to them "I'd really love to fuck you".

    Yet I think that many of the heterosexual ones want the guys they encounter whom they find attractive to be thinking just that.
     
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