Is it a problem?

Discussion in 'The Healthy Penis' started by Gab_Stone, Mar 18, 2008.

  1. Gab_Stone

    Gab_Stone New Member

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    Everyone I've been with has told me I'm the best they've been with and either the biggest or one of the biggest. Of course I think some of that is just ego stroking that I believe alot of women do because they wouldn't want to damage a guys ego. But I know most of what I've been told is true. Now the problem is, I'm still not happy with it. I don't ever get cocky about it. In fact I still think it's not big enough. I just look down and am like,"Okay, it's big. It really is big. You've compared and everyone tells you, it's big. But I still really feel like it needs to be bigger! Thicker and longer, by at least a couple inches!" I have had women tell me they wouldn't sleep with me if it was any bigger. But I still want more! I think this is generally a common feeling among men. But it just doesn't seem all that healthy to me. Is this big craving a natural thing, or something we're conditioned to think? Is pop culture just telling us we have to be bigger, giving us inferiority complexes? It's big, why isn't it big enough! Anyone else feel frustrated in this way? Like you're big but just not big enough?
     
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    UnderTheOathOfu New Member

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    Man I know exactly what you are talking about bro!
    You just got to live with what you got! And take the compliments!!!
     
  3. jumbo747jet

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    You're proving what I've been saying for a long time, that how we feel about penis size has more to do with what's between our ears than what's between the legs. It's all in your head.

    Try thinking more realistically about your size. Sure, it could be bigger still, but compared to more average sized men you have what they can only dream of having.
     
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    Yep, when all you see online is porn and this site, you get a really skewed image of things. It gets hard to remember that we're only smaller than the very biggest.
     
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    Yes I know. I keep it in perspective most of the time. I'm not the insecure type either. Just sometimes you look down and are like, shit, you could do better. Maybe it's a competitive nature thing. I think maybe it is hard to accept sometimes that there are alot of things you can do in life better. Get bigger muscles, get better at sports, do better at your job. You just can't get a bigger dick. Luckily we are mostly blessed on here with a pretty good thing going on.
     
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