I've noticed that most people when it comes down to a relationship (or sex) is based mostly on looks. I know I am not the best looking out there, but damn it, why can't someone see me as the person who will be there for them and listen to what they have to say? I am tired of talking (chatting online) to someone and really connecting with them then they ask the same old question, which when I answer honestly, it sends them away. What's your stats? Now I know I am not the skinniest person out there, but when I answer them, they make me feel like I am a 2 ton fat piece of sh*t. Has anyone else had this happen to them? Does anyone look past the looks at the person, or should I go on The Biggest Loser and hope it works out?