Is it appropriate to say that a mate is well hung?

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I'm of the opinion that you shouldn't tell someone's business regardless of the subject matter. If they want people to know, they can they of it themselves.
 

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I think the guy who got offended has a little one! I wouldn't sweat it.

typical female reaction tho
honestly if that's the only reason you can fathom for being offended by something like that does that mean if I show a girl my dick and she's upset she's automaticall a lesbian...
 

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It's friggin ridiculous to tell people how hung your partner is. I had this friend at the office -- nice woman -- tell me, once that her husband was "a very large man" -- which he was (and in all directions), with a heavy emphasis on the "large"...nudge...nudge...wink...wink. I just had this sense, no, that's none of my business lady; I wanted to say, "I'm glad you enjoy him, if you're trying to make me envious of him, the only complaint I've ever gotten in that dept is 'ow,' so let's not talk about dick size unless you're prepared to give me a blow job."
 

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Is it appropriate to say that a mate is well hung?

not if you are over to his parents for dinner.

not during church services.

not while spooning for body heat after your plane crashed into an arctic wasteland.
 

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Would it be acceptable for you to go around telling others that your friend has a small cock?

How about telling others that a friend of yours has erectile dysfunction? Or had a heart attack three years ago? Or earns $75,000 a year?

The bottom line here is that when you have access to personal information about someone, it's implicit that you maintain that person's privacy. Whether you perceive the information to be positive or negative is irrelevant.

It is his business to share with others as he sees fit. Without permission, it's not okay to share personal information like that.
 

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No, I don't like that at all. It is OK to show off on a site like this when we can control the "exposure" somewhat.
 

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I agree with your friend. There's a reason a euphemism for genitalia is "private parts"

One of my friends once 'casually' mentioned in conversation, while we were in a group of 8-10 people, that I was hung. He insisted that he was "doing me a favour" and couldn't understand why I was pissed off.
 

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Just the Other Day I Received this E-Mail Alert:

Alien Alert...

Female aliens are invading the earth and kidnapping men with big dicks..... fortunately, you're not in any danger. I just emailed you to say goodbye.
 

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A male friend of mine told me about his friend's donkey dick and autofelatio. After being thoroughly fucked by him and having multiple orgasms - all I can say is thank god!
 

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One of my most annoying friends is this guy who pretty much constantly brings up how big my dick is. I don't really care if people know, but the way he'll mention it all the time whenever we're hanging out is very annoying, especially when I'm just meeting people for the first time and get introduced as the "friend with the huge dick".
 

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You could just point to him and say, "Really, he's the 'huge dick' here." And turn to him and say, "What a jackass you are!"

If you wanted to make a point.

:smile:

NCbear (who sometimes fails to filter his thoughts and lets them just come out :eek::rolleyes::tongue:)
 

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Q: Is talking about how awesome your genitals are something you would want someone else to do, without your express permission or knowledge, often? Female admirer or not... No.
 

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I agree with most of the others here, it's best to keep privates private. Even if you are bragging on him he probably wouldn't like you to, so get permission first. Most guys want to keep a little mystery about themselves until the final revealing and if everybody knows how big your friend is how is the girl supposed to go "WOW! I HAD NO IDEA!" If she knows beforehand she might go, "Oh, I heard it was bigger than that" or "Is that really 10 inches? It sure doesn't look like it."
 

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this just recently happened to me. i used to work for a small company and was dating a coworker for a while. He told some people and everyone knew. i didnt mind too much because i knew all my coworkers well and no one made a big deal out of it.

i just started at a new small company that many of my old coworkers from my previous employer are now working. well i found out that alot of the new people know how big i am before i even met them. I still dont mind but it is kind of weird meeting someone and catch them staring at my crotch knowing how big it is.