is it better to give or receive

Discussion in 'Relationships, Discrimination, and Jealousy' started by peterbogan, Feb 22, 2009.

  1. peterbogan

    peterbogan New Member

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    cant decide
     
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    give it to me and I'll let you know
     
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    Hehehe.. Pecker, LOVE your posts..... I prefer to give pleasure to my partner... I get a strange thrill from making them moan, squirm, beg, grunt, groan, squeal, and eventually orgasm ( if it goes well, more than once ! ) That's what I enjoy... the harder they cum, the harder I cum.....
     
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    It depends on what you consider 'better"

    for most folks, giving is the better part of the deal, because they get the warm feeling of having done for another.


    Receiving, for most people, is harder, because it creates a sense of obligation or debt to the giver... and many people actually give specifically to create this obligation from others.


    If you are the type who is forever giving to those you love... then you may want to consider that sometimes, the greatest gift you can give is to ask others to help you.

    Then you are giving them that warm sense of having done for you.


    That is a real gift.
     
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    It depends of what you're talking about. I am not a huge fan of getting blowjobs, but I love giving them.

    But anally, I'm a total top: I can't stand being penetrated.
     
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    Personally I'm on the side of giving. I love receiving of course, I just love giving my partner exactly what she wants even more.
     
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    I like both. :biggrin1:
     
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    I like to give....

    but I like to get mines in return too!
     
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    easy question both unless your a selfish tw@t
     
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    I'm all for equality so both but i prefer to be top
     
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    Both... sex is sex. To be more specific though.. I'm a very oral bottom (love giving/love receiving)
     
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    The 69 position sheds light on this question. Loving partners know that great and meaningful relations involve both giving and receiving. That's the pattern in all of life. Right?
     
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    I would be equal ( oral only) except that I rarely find any guys who give really good head and do it only for you and not just for their own enjoyment. i've had thousands of bj's and well less than 10 percent really know how to give great head. deep throat usually doesn't feel good. i use hand and mouth coordinated head and NO one ever has to jack themselves off to cum like in almost all bj porn movies.
     
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    Both, but if I had to choose only one...it would be giving.
     
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    I like both of course, but i tend to enjoy the sex more when I give. If you're good at giving you'll always get something good back :wink:
     
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    i like to give, receiving depends a whole lot (even more than giving) on who
    that person is. with the right person i think it could be totally mutual.
     
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    I like both, but I must say giving is a bit nicer :)
     
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    When I' with a woman, I find that giving is better when having vaginal sex. Oral and handjob are better received from a woman, IMO. With a guy, it's equal on all fronts, I like to give, and receive with all acts.
     
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    give.
    if i had to choose between giving and receiving, id choose receiving becasue its what i think of often when i jerk off. i really dont think about about being sucked off when i masturbate.
     
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