Why do men constantly ask this? They always ask me and not just on lpsg. If they are big enough or thick enough, I tell them. What if they aren't, how do I respond? Today, someone asked if he is big enough- 7 x 5, I told him he wasn't big enough but he is thick enough but really, I was just being polite. Is there a way to respond to this that isn't hurtful or do some men want to hear that their size is inadequate?