Is it common to have seldom got a good blowjob before?

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  1. B_ILIW

    B_ILIW New Member

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    I don't think i've had many, is this common?

    I suspect it's because most women i've been with find it too thick/wide to handle.

    i kind of feel left out is all lol
     
  2. D_N Flay Table

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    I have had a few. I remember the best one well. I couldn't sit still. She made me flop around like a fish. I had to cover my head with pillows.
     
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    I don't say this to be argumentative, but have you ever thought that maybe they were fantastic bjs, but you just didn't enjoy them. Maybe bjs just don't do anything for you. Just thought I'd suggest it because my ex didn't enjoy bjs, but every other guy I've been with has said that I give the best bjs ever.
     
  4. dolfette

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    there's no such thing as a universally good bj, because every guy is different.
    i know guys for whom a good bj has to involve teeth.
    they might just not dig the bj,
    or they might like a style of bj that's not the norm.
     
  5. DiscoBoy

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    Bingo.

    I used to think I didn't much enjoy receiving a blowjob until quite recently. Just took someone with a different technique is all.
     
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    Oh, I agree. I did change it around for each of them, depending on what each one liked/disliked. I have to admit, I'm most comfortable with those that like teeth coz I have a small mouth and I get a bit paranoid that I'm gonna hurt the sensitive guys. It's entirely possible that my ex would have loved someone else's bj, although he didn't like it with either of the two other women he'd been with.
     
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    So what did and didn't work for you? Just curious because I'm always looking to expand my repertoire :smile:
     
  8. DiscoBoy

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    I'm sensitive, so no teeth whatsoever, plenty of suction, less tongue-play, and a quick pace.

    It's a little more complicated than that, but that's the gist of it.:tongue:
     
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    Thanks :smile:. I try to listen and watch to make sure I'm doing the stuff a guy likes, because of course everyone likes something different to the next guy. I can do no teeth, but it takes a lot more concentration. With the guys who can handle teeth (or even like teeth) I can throw myself into it a lot more.
     
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    i have yet to cum from a bj
     
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    Yes, I've only been with one girl who knew how to do it and get me off.
     
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    My b/f gives me mind blowing bj's all the time, toe curling, eyes roll back...etc...he just knows how to have it slow build and slow build until it's gone!
     
  13. D_N Flay Table

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    I know what you are saying. It takes a very special cock sucker to make me Cum.
    I have had great bj's. Bit trust me there is such a thing as a bad bj. I have asked girls to stop in the middle of one. The look on their face is priceless. Girls have fragile bj egos.
     
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    Send her over. ;)
     
  15. dolfette

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    bullshit.

    i give lousy, half arse bjs and i'm fine with it.
     
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    Most women do dolfette. They think they give the best. I have been blown by men and women. I still remember the best like it was yesterday. A one night stand. That I still go back to in my mind during jerk sessions. Awesome.
     
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    As someone who hasn't been blown by enough women to make a fair judgement call as to whether or not men or women do it better, the only thing I can say on the subject is that regardless of who is giving the head they must be really into doing it. If they feel as if they're just going through the motions or aren't that connected to the person they're servicing, it will never be good. I've had a few guys who one day were amazing at doing it, only for them to be really bad the second time around.

    Sometimes I see some porn clips and the person giving head looks rather bothered or bored. Hetero or homo, I hate seeing someone get their hands on a great piece of meat and do practically nothing with it. I don't know how many times I wish someone with skills would come onto the set, push aside the person giving bad head and say, "Look... this is how you do it!!" :tongue:
     
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    Ditto.
     
  19. dolfette

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    men are exactly the same about sex.
    the desire to be the best they ever had is pretty much universal...unless you're a selfish bastard like me.
     
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    I've asked TheBF about 2,000 questions about how he likes to be blown, and I think he's tired of the subject!

    He's one who likes teeth. Just a little bit of teeth. He's cut, so I think that might make a difference with some men.

    With him, what sends a bj over the top isn't just what happens in my mouth, it's what I do with my hands during the bj. He likes to be touched, fondled, and grabbed a lot while his cock is in my mouth, which is perfect because I really like fondling and grabbing him.
     
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