Is it common to have seldom got a good blowjob before?
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Incocknito
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The problem is that a lot of girls see a blowjob as (hard?) work. Very few girls are enthusiastic about it or enjoy it.
I give great oral because I thoroughly enjoy it and enjoy what it does to my partner.
Girls suck for about sixty seconds at the most and then say "are you gonna cum yet?" or "my mouth's sore".
Some girls just have one trick they can do like sucking really hard and making a pop sound. It might be cute but its not going to make me cum.
Then when you try to tell a girl what to do she either doesn't understand or takes offence.
So no, I have never had a good blowjob and I haven't even asked for a blowjob (ALWAYS HAD TO ASK) in years. The times I didn't ask, I would have to physically put my cock in her mouth.
I just have straight up sex because there's less that can go wrong with that and I will usually enjoy it.
I give great oral because I thoroughly enjoy it and enjoy what it does to my partner.
Girls suck for about sixty seconds at the most and then say "are you gonna cum yet?" or "my mouth's sore".
Some girls just have one trick they can do like sucking really hard and making a pop sound. It might be cute but its not going to make me cum.
Then when you try to tell a girl what to do she either doesn't understand or takes offence.
So no, I have never had a good blowjob and I haven't even asked for a blowjob (ALWAYS HAD TO ASK) in years. The times I didn't ask, I would have to physically put my cock in her mouth.
I just have straight up sex because there's less that can go wrong with that and I will usually enjoy it.
A downside of being girthy I think, at least if you're one who doesn't get anything out of teeth (which being girthy makes more of a problem). I can count on two hands the number of really great ones I've had over the years. That's a bit of a bummer, but the bigger problem is that it can make a woman feel badly. Someone above mentioned 'fragile bj egos' and I think that's definitely true for the most part.
Yeah.. I agree.. my gf always says, "its to thick, I can't open my mouth wide enough to not scrape you"
Then I yell at her and make her cry.
JK.
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D_Chaumbrelayne_Copprehead
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Even a bad blow job is still pretty damned good. But generally they're not so good that I stay interested for long. I've never cum with one, either administered by another guy or a girl. But then I think there's a real art form to it.
I know that I'm much better at eating pussy to the satisfaction of a partner than sucking cock. There's just something about nuzzling a clit with your tongue as you go exploring with your fingers that is so, so cool.
I know that I'm much better at eating pussy to the satisfaction of a partner than sucking cock. There's just something about nuzzling a clit with your tongue as you go exploring with your fingers that is so, so cool.
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Does anyone like it when their friend bites their dick or clit? I would love that.
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This is what I've heard from lots of guys about what makes me different to most other girls who've given them bjs. I genuinely love doing it. I can't say I'd choose it over sex because I love penetration too, but I can happily spend several hours sucking cock (as long as my jaw holds up).
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you and i should meet one day. i'd like to graduate from BJ university. :biggrin1:
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I can't guarantee that I'd be able to make it work for you but I'd certainly give it a try :biggrin1:
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Guess is all about finding a compatible and talented woman.
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Get your arse down here then and i'll give you a BJ that you'll NEVER forget!:tongue:
Bj's are better then RO imo.
I hung out with this girl and had a few beers. She had just gotten her nipples pierced, and had a nice large rack. She let me check them out if I showed her my dick. She said I could tit fuck her, so I'm standing there with a boner, and she said "guess I should lube it up." So she begins to sloppily suck my dick taking almost the whole thing. I remember thinking I never knew a blowjob could feel so good.
She made eye contact the whole time, then her cell phone rang. She picks it up and answers it so I'm thinking great now she is going to stop giving me the best blowjob of my life. So I sit on the sofa, then she starts going to town on my cock while talking on the cell phone. That's about I could take before I shot my load. She didn't swallow pulled off and said "I won't swallow don't want you to fall in love".
She later admitted to have sucked alot of dick, so I guess practice does make perfect.
She made eye contact the whole time, then her cell phone rang. She picks it up and answers it so I'm thinking great now she is going to stop giving me the best blowjob of my life. So I sit on the sofa, then she starts going to town on my cock while talking on the cell phone. That's about I could take before I shot my load. She didn't swallow pulled off and said "I won't swallow don't want you to fall in love".
She later admitted to have sucked alot of dick, so I guess practice does make perfect.
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I think people thing they are supposed to like giving and getting bjs... and a lot of time it's really just foreplay for a few minutes before they move on to other things. For me, giving a blow job is my favorite kind of sex. It frustrates me when a guy just wants me to suck for a couple of minutes, then want to turn me around and fuck. It's not just that some people don't give good blow jobs, but that some guys are really not interested in them very much. What motivates me as a cocksucker is to really blow my man's mind (so to speak). I've often heard form a guy after sucking him off that it was the first time he ever got off from a blow... it makes me proud.
When one has had only a few partners in a lifetime the memory of their oral gifts I find to be perfectly wonderful. I am sure that not every bj was tops but then not many things in this world are 100% dependable.
Giveing and receiving I am mindful of the very helpful role partners can play in "giving directions" and by that I mean letting one's partner know what is good and what is not quite right in a bj session. My partners were never passive in receiving and neither was I. That has a way of coloring one's appreciation. After all sex is meant to be the closest of sweet communions between persons.
Being in love changes everything. Let your partner know that you love him and you also love his cock. Casual sex does not rise to that level.
Giveing and receiving I am mindful of the very helpful role partners can play in "giving directions" and by that I mean letting one's partner know what is good and what is not quite right in a bj session. My partners were never passive in receiving and neither was I. That has a way of coloring one's appreciation. After all sex is meant to be the closest of sweet communions between persons.
Being in love changes everything. Let your partner know that you love him and you also love his cock. Casual sex does not rise to that level.
My girlfriend always gave good blowjobs, but over the years they have gotten better and better.
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