Up front, to clarify, I'm not talking about staying hard after cumming, or quickly getting hard for round 2, I'm asking about the longer-term effect (hours later) on getting hard.
Hypothetical: let's say it's been several days since I've cum, and I have a date planned with my girl for tonight, but after we slept in this morning, she's amused that I've still got morning wood after stepping out of the shower, so she gives me a blowjob. Assuming I want to be sure I'll get a raging hardon tonight, should I:
A) Turn down the blowjob
B) Let her suck me to almost the point-of-no-return, but then have her open her mouth so that I can shoot my load without any stimulation, to avoid triggering orgasm, then tell her that's enough and walk away still hard.
C) Let her suck me me off, but clamp down while I'm cumming to minimize how much cum I shoot (after the first few spurts they'll just be dry pulses).
D) Let her suck me to the point-of-no-return, then pull out and jerk off every last drop into her mouth, and hope in 12 hours it won't make any difference.
So, what I'm getting at is, what is it that dampens the libido and the quickness to get hard the next time? Is it because you felt "satisfied" from the stimulation during orgasm, or is it the "tank" being physically drained by cumming? Is it more mental or physical?
Hypothetical: let's say it's been several days since I've cum, and I have a date planned with my girl for tonight, but after we slept in this morning, she's amused that I've still got morning wood after stepping out of the shower, so she gives me a blowjob. Assuming I want to be sure I'll get a raging hardon tonight, should I:
A) Turn down the blowjob
B) Let her suck me to almost the point-of-no-return, but then have her open her mouth so that I can shoot my load without any stimulation, to avoid triggering orgasm, then tell her that's enough and walk away still hard.
C) Let her suck me me off, but clamp down while I'm cumming to minimize how much cum I shoot (after the first few spurts they'll just be dry pulses).
D) Let her suck me to the point-of-no-return, then pull out and jerk off every last drop into her mouth, and hope in 12 hours it won't make any difference.
So, what I'm getting at is, what is it that dampens the libido and the quickness to get hard the next time? Is it because you felt "satisfied" from the stimulation during orgasm, or is it the "tank" being physically drained by cumming? Is it more mental or physical?