Is It Dangerous To Bottom For Big Dicks?

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Hello im just wondering if it is dangerous to bottom for guys with big dicks over 9-10 inches for a long time period or is there not really much to worry about?
 

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Yes here's some advice, run, don't walk and grab his ass bring him back here to be measured and collect your prize money! Let me know when it happens Hoss
Im quite suprised that it hassent been collected yet, is the matter that they dont exist or dosent anyone really belive there is a prize? Haha
 

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Im quite suprised that it hassent been collected yet, is the matter that they dont exist or dosent anyone really belive there is a prize? Haha
The reward is there - including the finder's fee.

10" cocks on the other hand... Not so much it seems...

As for anal sex - enjoy it. There's nothing to worry about.
 

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is the matter that they dont exist or dosent anyone really belive there is a prize? Haha
Easily, the former, and I'd be very careful asking advice on something which might land you in the ER from a place where the fish stories are so abundant. There are probably safer places online to get an answer. Take everything here with a grain of salt.
 
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Back to the original question, though: Some heavily siliconed or otherwise radically modded dicks could do damage, but with patience, lube & relaxation there's no natural human penis alive that a bottom can't take.

Be careful though. You may put yourself at risk of becoming an insatiable size queen...not that I would know anything about that ;-)
 
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re your question, if you're a complete newbie maybe DON'T start with something that scares you and you're not used to??

for a first or anytime with a guy who is particularly big, either girthwise or lengthwise, and especially if both, you need to trust them first and foremost - find a guy who knows what he's doing as well. A big dick does not automatically mean good or pleasurable sex.

lots of foreplay, take your time, lube and someone who'll take it slow and easy at first.
 

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re your question, if you're a complete newbie maybe DON'T start with something that scares you and you're not used to??

for a first or anytime with a guy who is particularly big, either girthwise or lengthwise, and especially if both, you need to trust them first and foremost - find a guy who knows what he's doing as well. A big dick does not automatically mean good or pleasurable sex.

lots of foreplay, take your time, lube and someone who'll take it slow and easy at first.

Thats why i madr this thread to hear what people with experience have learned so far, have been thinking hard about buying some good silicone toys for deeper stretching but just want to hear what side effects can come from stretching the sigmoid and so on
 
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A long cock is less of a problem than a thick one. I know how to angle my cock when I want to go balls deep, and I always have a good supply of lube. But an extremely thick cock is another matter. It's one thing to give a bottom a bit of a stretch, which feels good for both of us: it's quite another when a cock is thick enough to cause real damage which sometimes may be permanent. Lube and learning to relax may not be good enough. More than once when I've bottomed I've said no to a cock that i think is too thick.
 
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There is opportunity to tear something if you don't know what you are doing and end up embarrassed in the ER.

As a rule of thumb, the bigger the cock, the more foreplay to stretch your hole prior to penetration. This is something your partner should know unless he's inexperienced too. He can't just jam it in there like in a porno.

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My suggestion is to practice on your own with similar sized toys, use lots of lube but also remember to reapply regularly. And most importantly, start in positions where you are in total control of the progression like cowboy until you have more experience.

Unless you are thoroughly cleaning yourself out, you may want to consider not going balls deep because he will probably drag poop from your colon.

If you feel him hitting the back of your rectum, tell him go shallower or change your position so he can pass through your "second hole". Normally positions with your knees to your chest will make it a bit easier but NEVER force anything.
 

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Since you mention getting it regularly over a long period of time I just want to add that as long as you are doing anal sex safely and smartly there is no reason you would have to worry about anything changing or becoming super loose or anything like that. Your sphincter muscles will grow over time and you will find it easier to take over time as well (less prep time needed to open up, in particular) but your sphincter will always go back to the normal size.

Like everyone else has said, just go slow and enjoy it. If you do everything right it shouldn't hurt much at all. :) I've taken toys bigger than 10in and I've loved it each time.
 

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Can you guys tell me what it acctuarly feels like having sex with something like that?

Before I met my bf who has a 9in dick, the biggest dick I’ve ever taken was 6in and had only bottomed for literally only 5 times (yes, I count). Then 8 months ago, I got into relationship with him and ever since then, we’ve been having sex nearly every day.

Coming from someone who barely bottomed and never played with dildos to suddenly taking 9in almost every day, it may be a bit challenging to take it all in in the beginning stages. Eventually, your hole will start to loosen up to fit your partner’s dick in the more you do the deed with him.

Please DO NOT forget to use lube and make sure to TAKE YOUR TIME TO RELAX AND PREPARE YOUR HOLE! The advices that people have been giving in this thread are great ones, so I would take them into consideration if I were you but take them with a grain of salt.

Be safe and have fun!
 
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