Listen, buddy, I'm not saying you, with your "100%" str8 are gay (although I'd question that in anyone), but that is a gay act. Particularly the going down part. Just sayin.
Is it gay to jack off a friend, or even suck him?
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Listen, buddy, I'm not saying you, with your "100%" str8 are gay (although I'd question that in anyone), but that is a gay act. Particularly the going down part. Just sayin.
VERY true, in fact we have words that describe the pairings. HOMOSEXUAL means sexual activity (nothing about love or connections) between two members of the same sex. That whole "You can do it without getting emotionally attached" is a sorry ass deflection by people who are either ignorant of orientation, afraid of being considered "not normal", or just homophobic. Jacking another dude off is a sexual act between members of the same sex, isn't that the definition of homosexual?
Go ahead and question it. Ain't a person on the planet who's 100% str8 who would do ANYTHING with a dude. You can't deflect this with "I was just horny" or "there weren't any girls around". He chose a dude, he got off with a dude or helped a dude get off, he's NOT 100% str8. Whether or not he acknowledges that is his own business but don't shit on a platter and tell me it's chocolate moose.
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Guys are always jacking themselves off solo. And it seems to be a fairly common fantasy to jack off not with just anybody, but with a particular friend. Given those two things, I never understood how mutual masturbation ended up only in the gay bin. It seems like it could go in the straight, bi and gay categories if not equally, easily.
Do you really, honest to god, believe you're 100% straight?
Please don't get me wrong, I'm not attacking you.
I only want you to think of the sex. I'm not pretending you to visualise yourself having a relationship with another man. But if you enjoy sex with another man (be it your friend, BFF, neighbour, whoever), then you're not 100% straight. This does not mean that you have to move to the nearest gay village and wear pink feathers on the gay pride parade, it only means you enjoy sex with men (at least one). As a result, you're bisexual at some level which would mean that yes, there is a certain level of homosexuality in sucking or jerking off your male friend. Which has nothing wrong with it, I must say!
But this is just my opinion!
If someone finds otherwise, that would certainly put by bisexuality into perspective! I might be straight!
LOLIf a guy suck another guy, or lets a guy suck him or jerks off a guy/let's a guy jerk him off that is gay.
Allanon585
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Its not even a little gay to look an another guts penis and not that gay to jack off with another guy. otherwise most guys would be gay and the human race would die out.
um. i think it has to do with intent. it's performing a task like anything else, the way you do it changes the event. i think sometimes the intent is gay and then it is gay to do it. and sometime the intent is friendly and then it is not.
motorcityboy
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In all honesty, does it matter? Do you want someone to tell you that you are gay? If you have to ask then there is some question in your mind about your sexuality?
Straight people do not engage in any sexual activity with members of their own sex.
Bi-sexual people enjoy a little of both to whatever degree.
Gay people enjoy exclusive sex with their own gender.
It is pretty cut and dried, really. If you sucked your friend's cock then you have dabbled in bi-sexual activity. If you stop doing so, and solely have sex with women then you experimented but are straight. If you continue having sex with both, then you are bi. If you stop having sex with women and solely have sex with other men then you are gay.
None of these are judgments, just definitions. If you choose to define your sexuality, then these are the dictionary-type definitions.
Straight people do not engage in any sexual activity with members of their own sex.
Bi-sexual people enjoy a little of both to whatever degree.
Gay people enjoy exclusive sex with their own gender.
It is pretty cut and dried, really. If you sucked your friend's cock then you have dabbled in bi-sexual activity. If you stop doing so, and solely have sex with women then you experimented but are straight. If you continue having sex with both, then you are bi. If you stop having sex with women and solely have sex with other men then you are gay.
None of these are judgments, just definitions. If you choose to define your sexuality, then these are the dictionary-type definitions.
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D_Jared Padalicki
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In my opinion NO. There has to be more to be gay. I won't call it straight either because that doesn't really excist. If you jack off a buddy or even suck him or even more you are a sexual human being that enjoys lots of kind of pleasure. If you are willing to try it, than there isn't a thing wrong with that, it's fun and nice way to have a bond with your friend, more unique than others of your friendships.
For me the level of gay comes in when both are in love with each other, that there is an emotional part involved instead of only the physical part.
For me gay doesn't mean having sex with another gay, for me it means to have emotional feelings for a guy. Everyone has a different opinion on this.
For me the level of gay comes in when both are in love with each other, that there is an emotional part involved instead of only the physical part.
For me gay doesn't mean having sex with another gay, for me it means to have emotional feelings for a guy. Everyone has a different opinion on this.
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And then there are those who think that you can't have one (sex) without the other (emotional feelings) but that is a whole different topic.
It probably varies by culture too. Someone ought to do a poll, is it gay to jack off a friend in X, Y, or Z nation. With all the vids coming out of the Czech Republic, I'm thinking it must be more normal in some places than others. Or maybe that's just the porn talking. Or the money honey.
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