Is it gay to jack off a friend, or even suck him?

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  1. luvmycock

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    i agree, what does it matter. just be yourself and have fun, life is too short to worry about what others think
     
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    ROFLMAO!! Crescendo, you have accurately pointed out how inaccurate and pointless this question really is. The issue is just so much more complicated than can be determined with one simple inquiry.
     
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    All this equivocating, denial...it's GAY! Why is it so taboo to say that on LPSG?
     
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    yes of course, do you think its normal on a straight men to suck or even jack off a friend? hahaha. stop acting like you didn't know... :)
     
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    It is a fantasy of mine to JO a really hung guy.....maybe even BJ him. Why? Because mine is much smaller, and I would love to know what a big cock feels like in my hands. The power and weight are very intriguing
     
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    Ya know it's only what it is to you. This idea of grouping people as gay/straight/bi is such a new thing in society (within the past couple hundred years) and even then is more a product of victorian goofy piety.

    For most of our existence guys had fun sex with each other and made offspring with their wives.

    What's gay anyway? Is it that whole lifestyle deal, or is it just having fun with another guy.

    Do you really need to classify yourself a certain way? If so, go for it. If not, don't worry about it.

    Have fun, enjoy life, and if you can enjoy sex with a guy and a girl, just have at it and enjoy the fact that you've got a lot of options.
     
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    Funny thing about this thread. Why are alot of men claiming to be str8 even in this room? Why is football (men playing with eacch other, rolling over each other, spanking each other on the butt (coach included), shower with each other). the only sport to be played by men showing affection on each other, ok
     
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    It is a homosexual act. But that doesn't mean you are gay. Men have a range of sexual identifications. The only thing in exploring is are both partners comfortable and consenting. Just as you wish to explore, allow the same understanding in how other people in society explore there's too.
     
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    it's only up to you
     
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    Actually, football has the highest % of 'down low' gays.
     
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    I actually laughed out loud when I saw this thread title :D
     
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    At first it is exprimental or curiosity thd next time it is getting into bi or gay if repeated multiple times
     
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    Not even a tiny bit gay....if its for medicinal purposes, that different...though.
     
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    Du uh.
    No thats totally 110% straight.
    Gay is when you lick pussy.
    super gay is when you fuck women.
    where do these people come from asking this shite?!
     
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    Go for it. Just have fun. Labels don't *really* matter
     
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    I agree that most people in our culture would label one guy giving another a BJ as a gay act.

    But in reality that would be just putting a shallow label on a behavior that is much more complex.

    History is full of examples where one person has either been told or believes that they can acquire some attribute from another person by interacting with them. The Aztecs (along with many other culture) believed that drinking a king’s blood or eating some animal’s organ would convey some special power to them.

    Today, hero worship like that given to politicians, sports figures and movie stars attracts followers who would be totally happy to give their special person a BJ. These people are not gay, but for some reason they will go to great lengths in order to share a bond with their person of interest.

    As Daisy noted, football heroes and their ardent fans would be likely candidates for this behavior. After all how is it possible to explain a straight guy’s compulsion to hang window size pictures of male sports heroes in their garage and to spend countless hours of time and money collecting pictures of male baseball players.

    Perhaps we should be asking, " when does a (straight) male go gay with their sports hero or sports team"? Perhaps they don’t actually give BJs, but lots of them are more than willing to bend over and give it up for "their guy" or "the good of the team".
     
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    This. Right here. The "gay" concept is a recent label applied to humanity (I believe specifically by Americans). Western American cowboys and cowpunchers (yes, there is a real difference) were routinely having sex with calves on cattle drives in the late 1800's (I don't believe it was prolific, but it was certainly not shunned).

    So, the animal thing is, yes, WEIRD, and certainly not something I would ever want to do or defend the occurrence.

    However, sex between men has for millenia been commonplace and socially acceptable. Women were revered as child bearers and the foundation of the "home family". Sex with them was seen as more "honorable" in a sense because it was to bear children. Sex with men was just seen as a "release" or "fun". You also have to remember the further you go back in time, the less time men spent at home or with their families. Just as recent as the late 1800's here in America, some cattle drives or work exploits would keep men away from home, and in many cases away from civilized society for 2-3 years. In Roman times, sometimes 10-20 years.

    Do what YOU want without worrying about what others think.
     
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    Can you adduce statistically valid studies that corroborate these claims that straight men would and, in fact, do masturbate their heroes--and that these heroes accept masturbation by fans or followers, or is this just an opinion of yours?
     
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    What he said.
     
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    The topic was BJ’s, not hand jobs. And No, this is not the kind of information available for a clean statistical count.

    However, tabloid reports on the behavior of “groupie traditions” together with outright hero bragging does support the wide spread practice of “worship sex” with hero figures.

    Example: Wilt Chamberlain claims to have slept with 20,000 different women in his life.

    According to close friends, Wilt loved threesomes. According to legend, he was intimate with 23 different women on one 10-day road trip.

    http://mentalfloss.com/article/12310/did-wilt-chamberlain-really-sleep-20000-women

    In the future perhaps the nature of our culture will make it macho-positive for Hero personalities to tell us how many notches on their bed post were male and how many female.
     
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