Is it gay?

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The only way that comparing dicks with a mate can really be a valid comparison is if you're both hard. I think we've all done it with mates (even if many people still won't admit to it) - but I'm not sure about doing it in an open locker room! In the privacy of your (or your mates) home, possibly, although I realise that this was a casual encounter. I would have thought that you could have suggested going somewhere a little less public. Imagine the reputation that you guys would have got if someone had come in and caught you both stroking your hard-ons and then spread the information around.
 

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What I always wonder about these posts is what one does with the answer. Suppose we all agree that it was gay. Does that mean that you need to behave differently in the future? From now on you have to have MM sex at least monthly now or something?

Or the opposite: If everyone were to agree (which never happens here) that it is absolutely NOT gay, do you inform your friend? Tell the world?

If you are seeking for reassurance that you are alright, here it is: Lots of men have compared their cock to another man's, and some of us have done a lot more afterward while some stop there. All of us have somehow carried on with our lives.
 

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I was changing in the locker room at work the other day and one of my co-workers made a comment on the size of my package. So he pulled his out and we compaired sizes. He's 6'2" and I am only 5'10", but I am proud to say that I beat him by about two inches. My question is; is what we did kinda gay? I mean standing next to each other and working up an erection to compair?
Um--it's a little weird if nothing else. A public locker room at work, doing this sort of thing is a good way to get your self fired. Is it queer? Only you know if it got you sexually excited. If your penis starts to twitch when you think about it; then odds are there's a twinge of queer involved in it. This--:wank: --might not be seen as gay. This--:eek:p: --probably is moving into it and this--:bj: --reduces doubts a little more. If it moves towards this--:swordfight: --then you are clearly queer (smashing your swords together simply screams QUEER .)

what you did was the gayest act known to man....you are now "King of the Gay People"
What?! I don't remember relinquishing the title or the crown.
 

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It's odd to me that you guys say that comparing penis sizes in a locker room is, "common". I've never ever seen ANYTHING that remotely resembles that kind of behavior in a locker room, either in school or in adulthoood.

Men are usually uptight and do their business and get the fuck out without even so much as talking, let alone commenting about each other's bodies. What locker rooms are you guys hanging out in!? I want a membership to THAT gym! :)
 

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The better question would be is what you did going to change your sexual orientation?? Sure it may be "gay" in nature but does that mean you are a screaming homosexual?? I'm pretty sure it doesnt. Just chalk it up to curiosity and keep it moving.
 

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Rutabegas? I've heard of some weird veggies as sextoys, but that one takes the cake.

But nope, I don't think a comparison of erect cocks makes a person gay. A person's orientation is a lot more complex than that. Just as an aside, I've never done what the OP is describing, but that's doesn't mean I'm *not* gay or bi.

I tried rutabagas once, and it didn't make me a vegan, so... :rolleyes:
 

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its no more gay than comaring yourself to other profile pix here on the site, and gayness isnt black and white its all to degrees, your not gay unless you feel a strong attraction to men rather than women, and it dosent make you gay, even if you mess around a little, women do it all the time, i dunno why us guys are so hung up on it.
 

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Not necessarily gay. I think it's possible for two straight guys to compare cocks and it not be gay. It would probably sound gay to someone else, but only you know if it really is. Did it turn you on? Did you want to do more? If not then it's not gay.

A lot of men are obsessed about their size and compare constantly whether it's actually pulling it out and looking or just comparing with pics on here..
 

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One of my brother-in-laws was always pulling his dick out in high school, even after he was my brother in law. I don't know why. It wasn't big or anything. We did jack off together once, but we didn't touch each other. He's not married to my sister anymore, but he's still straight.

So how's that strap-on thing working out for you soldier?
 

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its no more gay than comaring yourself to other profile pix here on the site, and gayness isnt black and white its all to degrees, your not gay unless you feel a strong attraction to men rather than women, and it dosent make you gay, even if you mess around a little, women do it all the time, i dunno why us guys are so hung up on it.
Does your post win a prize for the most sensible so far?

With over 6 billion people said to currently be alive on Earth without objective verdical verification of the concurrence of terminological application can this question have any answer that is objectively warranted.