Is it good to have vagina/cervix stretched?

vanessa_c

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Well, I may have very little experience with this, but I'm what you call "size queen curious". The big cocks in porn drive me insane with lust! I love watching girls get fucked by these nice cocks.

Now, it's not that my boyfriend is small either, he's just under 6" with decent girth. But I think I'm fairly large down there as:
1. He's the only guy i've ever slept with
2. He's been with 4 other girls, and he says I definitely feel the most loose.
3. With out 8.5" dildo, which I don't like, and I'm never fully aroused when we use it, I take 7.5" easily. I'm pretty sure I could take the whole thing if it was a real cock.

So there, I am very curious about big cocks and I'm very willing to try it. My bf knows this fantasy and quite frankly is ok with it, as long as I never develop feelings for my lover.

I don't think of it as cockholding. As one of girlfriends said, "fucking the latino yard boy is basically like masterbating with a real cock. I have no feelings at all and I love my husband, but sometimes when I just wanna fuck, I fuck Francesco's 8" cock".

Basically, my husband says he'd be ok, if I was ok with him going to strip clubs and getting lapdances.....which I'm fine with.

I haven't found a lover yet, since these developments in our relationship are fairly recent. However, he has had two lap dances in the last 2 months, both of which I am totally fine with.

I need a big cock, and he needs to be free with lusting after other women. We are still best friends and are tremendously inlove. Once you can separate love from pure physical sex, then you've reached another level in your relationship.

I fully believe we can do this.....and while I know I have not yet fucked another guy, I know I wont be falling out of love with my BF. We're kinda like swingers in away. I don't mind even if he wants to fuck other women, however, it was his call and he said he'd rather not (too afraid of stds to be honest, which is a concern myself, so I defintely be careful who I choose as my Fbuddy).

Whether to OP's story is true or not, it doesn't matter. What matters is that, it is defintely possible for a relationship like this to work, so don't be quick to judge.
 

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Thank you vanessa_c for this post.. I think it's ridiculous I made a post and got stereotyped, analyzed, abused, labelled, I mean, what do these people know about me? Absolutely nothing. But by passing judgements ignorantly, I sure know something about them very well.

Your story is pretty similar to me and my wife, basically. Her need for a big cock to be satisfied is no different than swinging couples where the woman fantasizes about a black man lover, or someone who gets off more with his/her partner while having porn being played in the background, or those who seek the thrill of having sex in public, or being filmed, or BDSM, and a million other things. It's what gets people off. If the wife in a marriage needing a big cock lover is wrong, then married couples who need to engage in bondage, S&M, swinging, public sex, voyeurism, 3somes, and countless acts to live up to their true sex potential are also "wrong"!?!? Give me a break.

My guess is, those passing judgements so quickly are not very successful in relationships.


Well, I may have very little experience with this, but I'm what you call "size queen curious". The big cocks in porn drive me insane with lust! I love watching girls get fucked by these nice cocks.

Now, it's not that my boyfriend is small either, he's just under 6" with decent girth. But I think I'm fairly large down there as:
1. He's the only guy i've ever slept with
2. He's been with 4 other girls, and he says I definitely feel the most loose.
3. With out 8.5" dildo, which I don't like, and I'm never fully aroused when we use it, I take 7.5" easily. I'm pretty sure I could take the whole thing if it was a real cock.

So there, I am very curious about big cocks and I'm very willing to try it. My bf knows this fantasy and quite frankly is ok with it, as long as I never develop feelings for my lover.

I don't think of it as cockholding. As one of girlfriends said, "fucking the latino yard boy is basically like masterbating with a real cock. I have no feelings at all and I love my husband, but sometimes when I just wanna fuck, I fuck Francesco's 8" cock".

Basically, my husband says he'd be ok, if I was ok with him going to strip clubs and getting lapdances.....which I'm fine with.

I haven't found a lover yet, since these developments in our relationship are fairly recent. However, he has had two lap dances in the last 2 months, both of which I am totally fine with.

I need a big cock, and he needs to be free with lusting after other women. We are still best friends and are tremendously inlove. Once you can separate love from pure physical sex, then you've reached another level in your relationship.

I fully believe we can do this.....and while I know I have not yet fucked another guy, I know I wont be falling out of love with my BF. We're kinda like swingers in away. I don't mind even if he wants to fuck other women, however, it was his call and he said he'd rather not (too afraid of stds to be honest, which is a concern myself, so I defintely be careful who I choose as my Fbuddy).

Whether to OP's story is true or not, it doesn't matter. What matters is that, it is defintely possible for a relationship like this to work, so don't be quick to judge.
 

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Runco.... Can I ask, Do you have any medical qualifications?

You deliver your initial response as if you are medically qualified to do so (though I thought you were a business consultant and not someone 'in the know')

Your statements could put some 'naive' or maybe just 'trusting' females off anything over 7" as you infer it will cause them severe and long lasting harm!

Also, this being a LARGE PENIS SUPPORT site, it's hardly supportive to suggest anything over 7.5" isn't usable or is at least harmful!



MBs comments were spot on, again, and if I'd seen this sooner I'd have been agreeing with her sooner. Your opinions, you are entitled to. Your generalisations of 'most' or 'many' women, you're not.
Unless qualified, of course!
Which I am not sure you are!

Am I wrong?