Research has shown that what most women want is a bigger-than-average penis, but what is really important is width rather than length. The ideal penis is one which is thick enough to stretch the opening to the vagina and which can be felt inside their body, each time they have sex.
As female orgasm is not dependent on deep penetration, most women would prefer a penis of average length to a very long one, which can cause pain if thrust too hard. The vagina is, on average, only 8cm long but during arousal it can stretch both widthways and lengthways to accommodate almost any size of penis. A penis is rarely too big but it can be too long a problem which can be overcome if the man doesn't go in all the way.
As well as an at least average-sized penis, women also want men who know how to use it. Research has shown that if sex is unsatisfactory for them, women do not often complain to counsellors about penis size but they do complain regularly about sexual technique.
So guys it's not just about what we got but how we use - the art of giving is what counts most if we are to be invited in!