roedhunt: As I posted on another topic, a good friend of mine confessed he was long (11 inches).Being naturally curious and a non-believer, I asked if I could measure it, never seeing one as well. He was, and I told him I felt sorry for him. Of course shocked to hear THAT kind of response, he asked why. I told him it must be awful for him to not get complete satisfaction of going all the way in...Since most women wouldnt be able to handle it... Plus, I cant even begin to imagine what it would feel like to meet a woman and know that if you have sex together, you might cause her pain instead of pleasure. I knew I hit a sore part, because he started to cry. I was wondering, do any of you go thru these emotions or anxieties before sleeping with someone new?