I recently have questioned much about other men's behaviour towards me. I have noticed a few situations that i really don't understand. I'll make a few examples:
1- In my gym,we have 3 common shower places and others which are closed and individual. I always shower in the common one,since i like showing off a bit and do not have problems in standing naked in front of other guys. It seems like guys have been noticing that i have a big cock;i see their surprised expressions sometimes and my friends do joke about this fact with me,also in the locker room. There is a straight guy their who is a friend's friend. I have realized that he tends to take the shower before i do,even though we end training at the same time. If i go first,he seems to waste time so that i come out of the shower and only then he goes into it. It has happened that i get into the common shower when he is there too and he then shows he is not at ease and quickly quits the shower. I thought he might be just shy. But he always stands naked when alone under the shower,and also in the shower that is the most visibile from the locker room. He is also big enough and seems to feel bad only when i reach him. When other guys are there with him he's ok and spends much time under it. He knows i like men so i wonder if it is just homophobia but....why do straight guys think that if they are naked in front of gays,they are in danger? I mean....people do not jump over you and fuck you in the lockers,nor wherever. Things are made in two,not alone.
2- I had to spend recently some time in an hotel with a group of co-workers. One of them was supposed to stay in my same room. He said to the principal,that he was not very glad of this fact and that he would prefer someone else. So he went and stayed with another straight guy. He is straight too,knows I'm gay and knows i have a big cock. A friend told me he didn't want to spend the night in my same room because he was afraid of my dick and of getting fucked....
What do you think?i don't understand this behaviour. How can a straight guy be afraid of a gay's big cock? how can one think that only because i like men,then i am gonna put them in danger and fuck them?is this pure homophobia? I guess that if someone is sure about being straight, he shouldn't worry too much about standing naked in front of a gay guy(in a common and public situation) or sleeping with them....I mean,we do not jump over guys like this....and if one does,you just tell him you don't want and they stop.
I'd like some opinions about those things and i'd like to know if anyone had similar experiences...
1- In my gym,we have 3 common shower places and others which are closed and individual. I always shower in the common one,since i like showing off a bit and do not have problems in standing naked in front of other guys. It seems like guys have been noticing that i have a big cock;i see their surprised expressions sometimes and my friends do joke about this fact with me,also in the locker room. There is a straight guy their who is a friend's friend. I have realized that he tends to take the shower before i do,even though we end training at the same time. If i go first,he seems to waste time so that i come out of the shower and only then he goes into it. It has happened that i get into the common shower when he is there too and he then shows he is not at ease and quickly quits the shower. I thought he might be just shy. But he always stands naked when alone under the shower,and also in the shower that is the most visibile from the locker room. He is also big enough and seems to feel bad only when i reach him. When other guys are there with him he's ok and spends much time under it. He knows i like men so i wonder if it is just homophobia but....why do straight guys think that if they are naked in front of gays,they are in danger? I mean....people do not jump over you and fuck you in the lockers,nor wherever. Things are made in two,not alone.
2- I had to spend recently some time in an hotel with a group of co-workers. One of them was supposed to stay in my same room. He said to the principal,that he was not very glad of this fact and that he would prefer someone else. So he went and stayed with another straight guy. He is straight too,knows I'm gay and knows i have a big cock. A friend told me he didn't want to spend the night in my same room because he was afraid of my dick and of getting fucked....
What do you think?i don't understand this behaviour. How can a straight guy be afraid of a gay's big cock? how can one think that only because i like men,then i am gonna put them in danger and fuck them?is this pure homophobia? I guess that if someone is sure about being straight, he shouldn't worry too much about standing naked in front of a gay guy(in a common and public situation) or sleeping with them....I mean,we do not jump over guys like this....and if one does,you just tell him you don't want and they stop.
I'd like some opinions about those things and i'd like to know if anyone had similar experiences...