I have to wonder if maybe it's just me. The local guys on here seem to be the biggest cowards of all, either elusive, complete pieces of work, or full of excuses once it's been established that meeting is highly probable. Here are a few examples, screen names withheld: There's a guy who lives about 20 miles from me, but he seems to be a level 5 clinger and has really high approval needs. He's very much with the fishing for compliments, acknowledgement, praise, etc, which isn't my thing. The closest approximation I can make of his approach is that of a 5 year old child or puppy. He also asks about completely inappropriate topics. I mean, I'm hardly conservative, but when it's illegal as well as its transmission banned by the FCC, I say no. It's frustrating because he's decent if we can keep topics off his dick and sex! Another is roughly equidistant geographically and has told me some tall tales to say the least. The pics he's emailed me and those on his profile are the same. He's only into super submissive women of exceptionally rare physical proportions, alleging he's fucked 100s. Uh huh, right. A third lives about 30 miles away. He's supposedly 6'7" which makes me quite giddy. He only seems to want to chat on his terms. No thanks. I've seen none of their faces. What gets me every time is a guy with an attractive face who's very tall. One on here I know is pretty hot, has a great job, travels, and there's no arm twisting when I want pics. We have good, at times insightful and others amusing, chats about all sorts of subject matter. I also know he's pretty much a manwhore. Understandable given his looks and size! He's about 80 miles away, but sometimes in my area on business. I'm not about to venture that far myself for less than a sure thing. There are two other tall, attractive, hung guys I really enjoy chatting with, proven on cam, one on the east coast and the other in the UK. Both are married, neither has kids. Each was upfront and answers anything I ask. I'm not out to be a homewrecker, but if these local guys are in similar circumstances, where's the honesty? The closer the guy, the more sketchy they are has been my experience. Anyone else made that observation? My best guess is because they don't want to get caught in deceit, whether it be lies about their attributes or situation, since meeting is much more readily an option. This might have been better served posting as a blog or in another category, but I'm here with the intent of seeing who's in proximity serious about meeting. Right now that entails getting to know someone new. Let me know some basics about you here if interested, namely your height and location, or send me a private message. Thanks!