Is it just me that finds this pointless

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  1. exlinebacker46

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    Sorry guys i dont mean to be negative about this whole subject, but as a benificiary of a rather little fellow ( so i do understand to a certain degree what you guys are about )

    i just think that we were given what we were given simple as,

    do you not think trying to concentrate your efforts on pleasing your partners and technique rather than simply trying to make it bigger to look better in swimwear or the showers ??? is a huge bulge really that important ???



    ( i can feel a storm brewing now lol )
     
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    Well I dont know about you but i think it definately is a big deal (to me) I wont use urinals or public change rooms simply beacause i dont feel comfortable having it where people may see it i wear the most bagg swimwear i can and always make sure i get ride of the cling b4 getting up out of the pool. just hate how small it is I would sooner have a big flacid dick that didnt grow at all when it gets hard than what i have. My sex life is fine however.
     
  3. Onslow

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    Aye, there's a storm-a-brewin' lad!


    Actually, you hit the basic nail on the head. It is about learning ways to please a man or woman with what you already have. Size is not everything. I have been given some of the best times ever with men who are on the smaller side. I have been with the 4 incher who can do it all~~and has. I also was with the man who sported a solid 6 inches soft; but never could get hard.

    Size has it's momentary plus--and then it becomes a nighmare. The man or woman expect certain things from the mighty thrasher. What happens when the man cannot deliver on the promise of pleasure? Sure he felt good as he walked back and forth along the nude beach,and all were impressed that he had controlled his urges; but little did they know he was impotent (even a combination of Levitra, Viagra and Cialis didn't help), so at the end of the day, the woman (or man) ended up unsastisfied from Mr.Biggie when he couldn't stiffen it up and get it in--and yes, there can be nerve damage from the enlargement method. If the well endowed man has not also learned to use his hands and mouth it could turn ugly and end up with the cops being brought in.

    Then again, some men are content just to strut around with long penis (possibly a thick one) even if it cannot achieve it's original purpose--getting to an erection and proceding to satisfying a partner (or even ones self). As long as he can look good in the locker room or in his swimsuit, what more could he want. At least in the minds of otheres he is getting a lot of sex--if only they knew the sad truth.
     
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    Ok...I keep saying the same thing over and over in different threads, I feel like I should just cut and paste this.
    The most important thing is who you are on the inside. Be happy and confident with yourself and make the you the best possible you! If you are mean and have no soul and everyone in the world hates you all you are is a BIG DICK!
    Some of the best sex I've had has been with confident, skilled and caring and sharing lovers.
    Has anyone ever pointed to you and started laughing?...I don't think so! Don't be so sensetive about what you think you are missing... and be happy and confident with what you've got!
    Sometimes there are certain drawbacks to having a big dick, I have people say...Oh no way buddy boy are you putting that inside me.
    Be at peace.
     
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    Thats kind of like saying, "hey there scrawny boy why would you want to work out? Be happy and confident weighing 120 lbs soaking wet because thats what you were given. You can hurt yourself if you lift weights".

    I think its more about self improvement. I don't need a larger cock, but if i can take the time and dedication and actually truly 100% improve something on myself that is an accomplishment, especially if its my cock! I think its hot that man can take his cock in his own hands and manipulate it in such a way that it increases in size. Its something very tangible. There was my cock , and here is my new cock after I worked on it. I think its accomplishment.

    Getting back to my first point, don't you see? For someone with a small penis, making it larger can have more profound benefits on their life than working out. It brings confidence. It can bring happiness. Just as a man leaving the gym after working out for 6 months knows hes bigger, stronger, more attractive, and more able to defend himself in a fight. A man who makes his cock bigger knows his cock is prepared for ANY battle. Against ANYONE.

    For all the things that humans want more of; drugs, money, food, etc. Having more inches on your cock seems the least harmful.
     
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    I feel genuinely sorry for anyone whose entire sense of self-worth and self-esteem comes from his cock - whether large or small.
     
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    What I said was this!
    The most important thing is who you are on the inside. Be happy and confident with yourself and make the you the best possible you! If you are mean and have no soul and everyone in the world hates you all you are is a BIG DICK!
    I fully believe in going to the gym, look great, feel better, live longer! But don't tie yourself in knots over something that you really can't do that much about!
     
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    The biggest "organ" or part of the body any man should think of improving upon is his BRAIN !

    That's where it all originates from: Happiness, Confidence, Emotions, etc.

    During sex, the brain stimulation is mightier than anything....

    Long penises, thick penises, veiny penises....blah blah blah....Without the mental fortitude....The penis is lost !!
     
  9. DC_DEEP

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    I usually don't go more than a month on LPSG without mentioning this - if the penis is the most important thing, and size is a MAJOR issue for you, and the man to whom it is attached is of little importance, that's what dildos are for.

    If I feel I ABSOLUTELY MUST sample that 12" penis, but the guy that comes along with it is a total jerk, why deal with that? A 12" dildo isn't as much of an annoyance as some flake with an appendage.

    I will concede that a large penis does have aesthetic value. But in choosing someone to spend time with, it's way down near the bottom of the list of desirable qualities.
     
  10. B_ScaredLittleBoy

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    I think if someone wants to spend vast amounts of their time 'making it bigger' they need to get their priorities right. This is just my opinion.

    Months or years of your life spent in PE
    Or waking up one day and accepting who you are...you save a lot of time. You could then spend that time doing other things. I know which one I would choose.
     
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    I'm not one to criticize another man's hobbies.

    So, I won't.
     
  12. Skull Mason

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    You guys look into this too deep. Why not assume everything else about the man is good. Smart, attractive, whatever. Whats 15 minutes every night to get your cock in better shape? Could you really do anything else more productive for 15 minutes before you go to sleep? Better than watching Hannity & Colmes.

    And it is particularly easy for a woman or man with a large penis to say these things. Don't judge a man until you walk a mile in his shoes. I'd like to see some of you wake up with a 4 inch penis tomorrow and see how quick you start yanking on it. Or some of you women wake up and your 9 inch cocked lover has a 5 inch dick, see how long you last with him!
     
  13. DC_DEEP

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    I fell in love with my partner a long time before I ever saw him naked. His cock size did not matter to me, in the least. Yes, all other things being equal, of course a larger cock is more appealing. All other things aren't usually equal, though.
     
  14. Mr. Snakey

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    My friend you make some good points. Everyone has different tastes when it comes to size. So there is room for small to large and Xtra large. Thats the beauty of it. If someone wants to try make their cock bigger i have no problem with it. They allready might be concentrating on pleasing their partner by doing this. When all is said and done its what you do with it. :smile: :cool: Big or Small be proud and do your best to be a good lover. The rewards are amazing
     
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    Just to clarify this issue: there is a difference between P.E. and big-dick obsession. They are not perforce mutually inclusive, although they often are coincident.

    For me, it is a hobby. I have spent about thirty minutes per week for a total of nine months on my hobby, and have gained half an inch in length and girth. Not a bad little hobby, eh?
     
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    I PE, and for me, it is not pointless. For me, it's not just about 'looking better in swimwear or the showers', I spend little time being observed in either. I have made some gains, my dick is healthier than when I started PE, and my sex life has improved.

    Some people 'waste time' learning a foreign language that they'll seldom have the chance to speak, or in turning clay into bowls when they could buy them cheaply and more quickly down at their local megamart. I don't hesitate to exercise to increase my physical fitness in ways other than PE, even though my work and most of my life is not that physically demanding. For me, PE is just another aspect to self-improvement.
     
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    No disrespect, but that's a Parade of Horribles if I ever heard one.

    You left out the one about PE making hair grow on the palms of your hands. The amount of money I'm forced to spend on shaving cream and razors is horrendous.
     
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    PE is not a BAD thing....and many people say it has had a lasting effect. If so , GOD BLESS !

    I'm average in size, as you are aware by my site name. My wife could care less about my size....She cares about it's performance, that's it.

    Turn the tables: BREAST SIZE

    My wife has large breasts...they do NOTHING for me, and actually for her neither. They are not very sensitive for her and she gets more bothered by me sucking on them than she gets enjoyment.

    I'd prefer smaller breasts, they have more appeal to me. BUT I wasn't attracted to her for her breasts, and didn't marry her for her breasts.

    Same with my penis size.

    Humankind can be such a shallow species.
     
  19. Onslow

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    Oh darling. invest in a blowtorch~~you'll never have to shave those hairs again.

    (Please do not take me seriously on the blowtorch idea--it could be dangerous)
     
  20. MCC

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    I dont think it is pointless, no. There are people here who get genuine help about issues that they are concerned with, and amongst a lot of men penis size is a long standing concern.

    It is great that you are secure and find that you do not have issues. I first joined this group out of curiosity - to see what could be achieved, but now I use it incase I can help someone out. Judging by the supportive contributions of a lot of the members here, I am not alone; there are good people here.

    Penis size will continue to be a concern to men. Offering well informed advice about what can be done (and what should not) is surely worthy of being considered a point? Having the confidence to just be what you are is rare, until we all get there, there are psychological crutches like "knowing you are well hung" or whatever. It'd be nice if it was not an issue, but it sometimes is.

    [I'd like to apologise for the puns in this post - accidents honest!]
     
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