Is it me? (Women's Forum)

Discussion in 'Women's Issues' started by B_Mademoiselle Rouge, Jul 19, 2008.

  1. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Or has this board totally turned into a bunch of guys asking for relationship advice and/or trying to get masturbation fodder from our sexual experiences?

    I'm all for giving advice or venting about your relationship, maybe having a question here and there. But have some of you guys heard of seeing a therapist or maybe read some relationship books?

    I'm a huge self help advocate and there are tons of resources out there for how to get a date, how to analyze what type of personality you have and who will be a good match for you.

    Honestly, the serious questions get skipped over because of titles like "Who has the biggest tits, lets post all your pics in this thread so i dont have to use the search function"

    I'd like to think this is a place where the women can communicate with one another and get asked ANSWERABLE questions. Not be used in the place of professional advice if you have never been on a date or don't know why your big dick isnt getting you everywhere you want to go. Some of the explanations required are relationship 101 or psychology 101. If you truly care about how you can land a girlfriend you will do some investigating about our gender in general. I still do relationship reading when i feel there is something i need to understand in my marriage. I don't poll 17 different guys on a sex board because it doesnt tell me anything about me or the person i'm with or want to be with.

    I wouldnt go to a big tit board and ask the men there how i can be more appealing to men if they don't know me in real life. Many times, the internet gets to see the side we want to show off and we can't honestly tell you why you arent getting the ladies to flock to you.

    How would Teen Magazine answer the question from a lonely school girl that goes something like this:
    Hi Teen Magazine....i want to be popular. How do you suggest i go about being popular this year in school? Enclosed is 4 self portraits. Any advice would be appreciated! Thanks!


    Sometimes i feel like because the forum says Women's Issues that its an invite for every lonely male to come on here and have us solve his issues tracing back to his mother, sister, first girlfriend, last girlfriend....whatever. It's exhausting.

    Sometimes i start to respond, then i see 5 other people already explained the same thing 4 times this month on page 2 and 3. Or i've responded to similar questions and i dont even remember who asked it.

    I've taken up this subject with many of my fellow female boardmates recently and i happened upon 10 minutes to address it. So don't shoot the messenger.

    If you have questions about why we prefer tampons to maxi pads, what lubricant we like, what type of men we like and why, go for it....but look on other pages if you don't get a huge response. We've likely answered it before and don't care to go into the details again. No offense. Last but certainly not least....there is an Adult Websites forum where there is no shortage of men who provide you to links of free porn if you are looking to get off. If you want to read it in text there are numerous erotica books out there.

    Also, just because most women admit to liking a big dick doesnt mean thats all we need to be happy. All the big dick in the world is not going to land you a woman if your breath smells like a litter box.
     
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  2. Axcess

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    Yea I'm guilty of that . My lastest thread got not responses but I learned my lesson .:smile::smile:
     
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  3. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    HD, i honestly will admit i didnt even read the title, not because it was from you, but i think all the other questions as of late, minus a select few have been more trouble than they were worth to respond to.

    I'll read up on your question now.
     
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    Hi MR. Just a quick question...Why are you bothering to post here? You've posted enough condescending, insulting, offensive posts on BD towards the people here as well as the site in general. I'm sure the majority of people here who have no clue, would be interested in your opinion of them...in general of course. :smile: I understand you're extremely insecure...you've turned your wrath on me without cause, you've done your "I'm leaving forever" thread twice, gone through periods of posting your daily activities on a seemingly minute to minute basis...I don't need to paste your posts from BD here...you know exactly what you've posted. I'm really just curious why?
     
  5. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Stretch, are you still mad i didn't want to see you on cam. Awww too bad. Thanks for playing.
     
  6. Axcess

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    Seriously you don't have to answer it . It was really my mistake of writing a thread about that .
     
  7. Stretch

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    :smile:...Nice diversion. Seriously...Why are you here? You have nothing but disdain for the people and the site. You insult anybody who has the nerve to disagree with you. You're one of the most narrow minded, insecure people I've seen here over the years...

    lol...I just received a private message from you:

    Listen, you are creepy and thats why hardly any women talk to you on here. I didnt post that good bye thread in the last 6 months, it was ressurected to cause problems. So i'd appreciate it if you stopped causing problems and put me on ignore
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    and quit embarassing yourself, you have everyone asking me why i dont like you and your a pushy asshole in private and thats why i dont like you

    Considering the fact that we haven't had private contact in at least a year, and that was consensual, I'm not really sure what your trying to convey here.

    Creepy?...Your response is extremely reminiscent of Monster, and I'm sure you don't want to lower yourself to that level.You've got some serious issues MR. Everyone does...but you should really check yourself and stop insulting everybody here.
     
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    Stretch, i've explained it to you many times, you just got your feelings hurt so bad that night that you can't let it go. Let it go man. You don't have to like me, but hijacking my threads with your personal issues and refusing to acknowledge the conversations we've had in PMs a dozen times. You mentioned how important it was that those conversations remain private and not brought up on the board. But why do you keep bringing them up yourself? You and i both know why i quit talking to you, you just cant admit it. Just quit hijacking random threads to try to express your anger towards me. It's passive aggressive.
     
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    Are you completely crazy? Dozens of PMs? I mentioned how important they remain private? All of that is bullshit. We have had so minimal contact. I asked you once how you came to be a conservative republican and you freaked on me. That is the extent of your problem with me. I'm only referring to your posts on BD where you constantly berate the people here.

    I really could care less about you. Otherwise I would have expressed myself a long time ago. lol...Even now you're sending me insulting private messages to my msn. I don't even have your address. I don't know how you're doing it but I have no way of responding to you. Again...without you rearing up and freaking out...my only question was why are you here when you have such disdain for the people here and the site in general. That was all I was curious about.
     
  10. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Its been about 10 months dude, get over it. Stop putting on the facade on this board.

    I'm no pussy, if you read my threads on BD they back up what i've not been afraid to say on here. Nice try. There is this rule about hijacking threads like this and Mods continuously tell people to take their personal business to PMs. We've been there done that, im over it.
     
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    10 months since what? dude? :smile:
     
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    If you don't like it here find a new forum. Its just that easy! Set it...and forget it!
     
  13. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Awwwwww, how sweet of you.
     
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    If I were to dislike something about the forums. I would go to the suggestions area and post an idea of how to change something. You don't want guys asking dating questions in the womens forum, so suggest a new area for dating or something. Instead of complaining and making multiple threads about guys looking for jerk off material, try to change something. But then again, this would have to be a much more strict site than it currently is to change stuff like this. Its probably not worth the effort, just google up a new place, google knows almost all.....

    The questions won't ever stop, no matter how much you educate us on how to read books written buy guys who know how to go to a club and get laid.

    Besides, its not like the women here generate enough threads by themselves to keep the forum interesting. There aren't enough of you. There is always going to be alot of crap in a forum you don't want to read, but hey, thats how forums work. You probably browse these when you are bored (at least I would think, I mean if LPSG is your hobby then damn....I feel bad for you) there has to be a bunch of mindless stuf for you to sift through to pass the boredom time am I right?
     
  15. Stretch

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    I would PM you...but you have some one way system that doesn't allow me to answer you. I would appreciate it if you would stop sending me insulting pms that I can't respond to. Hijacking?...Been there?...We've never had this conversation. I've never been at all personally negative to you. After I asked you how you came to your beliefs you posted that I was rude and creepy(there's that word again). You called me names and accused me of things publicly that led me to believe you must have had me confused with someone else. That, believe it or not, is the only root of my problem with you. You posted photos with your real name attached to them a couple of months ago and when I referred to you, using that name, I was informed that you wanted me banned for using it. Even then I didn't think you worthy of the energy to respond. The people who ask you what you have against me are right to ask. I've never done anything to warrent your spite. You insult and belittle people constantly for the very things you always do. I'm really not trying to do anything here...I have no agenda. I'm sorry you have so much anger and bitterness. I'm sure you're going to throw more venom at me but...Good luck and be happy
     
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  16. B_Mademoiselle Rouge

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    Bait much?
     
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    Relationship sub-forum?
     
  18. Drifterwood

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    With all due respect, and acknowledging that some people are off base, if I have an issue that I think people can help me with, I am going to ask it.

    I will also happily give what advice I can if I think the question is genuine.

    Isn't that what a support group is all about?
     
  19. Jovial

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    Yes, there have been a number of questions about dating and relationships. They probably should be in the relationship forum. There's only so many things to discuss about large penises and once you're here long enough the subjects start to repeat. All you can do is spend less time here and just read the more interesting threads when you are here.

    The nature of the forum is people start threads, and if no one answers then the thread disappears off the first page. I can't blame anyone for starting a thread unless they repeat the same subject and it's been discuss a lot already.

    There are better forums with more women to discuss relationship issues. These dating questions that the guys have asked usually aren't related to penis size anyway. And a lot of the women here are married too. But men can help the other men here also, so the threads should go in the relationships forum.
     
  20. D_Kay_Sarah_Sarah

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    I do like the relationship advice threads, i think they are gret for getting the sexes to understand and help each other but i don't like that there now seems to be a (how do i say it?) contest between the ladies for attention and soaking it up.
     
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