Is it normal to be submissive to my girlfriend/fiancée?

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I recently started having sex with my girlfriend and learned more about myself. For example, I agreed that I won’t cum or even touch my cock without my girlfriend by my side. I won’t have any kind of sexual pleasure without her permission.

That makes me very horny when I am with her. And when we have sex I address her as my master, as if I was her slave (which I do feel to some extent).

To clarify, I look like a pretty masculine man and muscular too, heading to the gym pretty often. Some friends even describe me as being too cocky. I’m just surprised that I’m so submissive/obedient to my girlfriend and she seems to like it.

Can someone direct me to resources to learn more about this kind of mindset?
 
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Dude, nothing to learn about. Maybe you are still young. Soon you will realize sex is sex. Everyone gets horny and everyone has their fetish. Those things are entirely separate from who you are in society.

And, I fkin love submissive str8 men. Had a lot of fun.
 
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I’m saying this in a calm and very supportive voice.

“Normal”, what do you really think normal is? Normal is just the mask social people wear for the rest of the world to see. It’s the social media persona we fly like a flag for the rest of the world to judge us by because we fear having an accusatory boney finger pointed at us as the rest of the room gasps, because they’re afraid they will be found out as well.

Fella, enjoying having a dominant woman as your partner is *your* normal and that is more than ok, it’s perfect, for your life. Maybe it isn’t what somebody else wants or can even accept but who in the hell cares?! Enjoy your sexual intimacy in any way you like and to hell with what anyone else likes. Life is short and sex, love, lust, intimacy, and creativity are some of the greatest gifts imaginable so don’t waste your time worrying about “normal”.

I have very few reservations about intimacy and pleasure so let your freak flag fly what ever it is and be happy!
 

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sub·mis·sive
/səbˈmisiv/
https://www.google.com/search?clien...2ahUKEwjt1qP7zMWBAxUgl2oFHayKAt4Q3eEDegQIDRAq

adjective
  1. ready to conform to the authority or will of others; meekly obedient or passive.
    "a submissive, almost sheeplike people"

    Or are you just living with your partners wishes how does this lead to you questioning you masculinity? You freely admit that by doing so it makes you horny and I am sure the sex is intense so why fight it?
 

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Funny this got mentioned. I am a faggot and im wanting to take on the faggot slave role in a master/faggot relationship. I do know that what ive read and seen on video and some roleplaying, rrrreeeeaaaallly turns me on. I want it for real. Committ to it i just dont know where to start. Suggestions appreciated.
 
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I’m saying this in a calm and very supportive voice.

“Normal”, what do you really think normal is? Normal is just the mask social people wear for the rest of the world to see. It’s the social media persona we fly like a flag for the rest of the world to judge us by because we fear having an accusatory boney finger pointed at us as the rest of the room gasps, because they’re afraid they will be found out as well.

Fella, enjoying having a dominant woman as your partner is *your* normal and that is more than ok, it’s perfect, for your life. Maybe it isn’t what somebody else wants or can even accept but who in the hell cares?! Enjoy your sexual intimacy in any way you like and to hell with what anyone else likes. Life is short and sex, love, lust, intimacy, and creativity are some of the greatest gifts imaginable so don’t waste your time worrying about “normal”.

I have very few reservations about intimacy and pleasure so let your freak flag fly what ever it is and be happy.
Thank you. Feeling encouraged.

We are both conforming to the gender stereotype where I am pretty masculine and almost cocky and she’s cute and caring. It’s just in the bedroom that my submissiveness happens.

I am even willing to deny myself any kind of sexual pleasure except she’s with me. For example I don’t touch my cock and don’t jerk off unless she is with me and allows me to. Since we don’t live together, the morning wood is very intense and I seem to enjoy this kind of denial.

She also gives me handjob and heads. But most of the times she gets exhausted before I can cum. I have to head to the gym to shake it off.

She allows me to cum once every week, so I’m still coping fine.
 
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Thank you. Feeling encouraged.

We are both conforming to the gender stereotype where I am pretty masculine and almost cocky and she’s cute and caring. It’s just in the bedroom that my submissiveness happens.

I am even willing to deny myself any kind of sexual pleasure except she’s with me. For example I don’t touch my cock and don’t jerk off unless she is with me and allows me to. Since we don’t live together, the morning wood is very intense and I seem to enjoy this kind of denial.

She also gives me handjob and heads. But most of the times she gets exhausted before I can cum. I have to head to the gym to shake it off.

She allows me to cum once every week, so I’m still coping fine.
Well then my friend, you two have captured something very rare. You have each found someone you can be completely open and honest with about your sexuality and not only that but you are you fit together like a dovetailed joint. I really hope you can appreciate unlikely this is. I really hope you both can build on what you already have and continue to be completely honest about your desires. What we fear most is what we don’t know or don’t understand so support each other, communicate, and be open minded.

If I could I’d buy you both a drink and give you a salute.
 

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Well then my friend, you two have captured something very rare. You have each found someone you can be completely open and honest with about your sexuality and not only that but you are you fit together like a dovetailed joint. I really hope you can appreciate unlikely this is. I really hope you both can build on what you already have and continue to be completely honest about your desires. What we fear most is what we don’t know or don’t understand so support each other, communicate, and be open minded.

If I could I’d buy you both a drink and give you a salute.
Thanks sir!
We are scheduled to get married soon. Cannot wait.