Is it ok if a gay guy compliments a str8 guys penis ?

[SoFla8]

As I understand it you are asking about to ettiquette of LPSG. Around here, there are a few "Str8s" (i.e., totally closeted 'mos in huge denial) who do not like it when you compliment them, but you can always tell them because their pictures have captions like, "For the Ladies Only" or "No gay guys allowed."

Everyone else understands that if you are posting cock pics, everyone will comment.

A cam site I frequent has that sort of thing. I laugh when they have on the cam "very str8"

 

[Alex Chambers]

I was just wondering what the view was on here of this before i get myself into trouble :newangel:

Of course, it may depend upon who is doing the complementing--such a complement may be more acceptable coming from someone who looks like you (ie. a hottie) versus someone who looks like me (ie. a two-headed troll living under a bridge). Seriously, though, I cannot FATHOM how someone could get so offended by a heartfelt complement from someone of the same gender. If you don't swing that way, just accept the compliment in the spirit in which it was given and move on. These stooges who think "if I am complemented that way by a man, others will think I am gay, so I better assert my masculinity by beating up guys who complement me" just irritate me. I just don't *get* that mindset. Anyway, be careful who you complement.

 

[vinny_spiruccino]

Well I'm CLEARLY the str8-est dude here, but I'll take a leap towards diversity and say that I wouldn't mind in the least...

 

[BrownStallion]

I think a comliment should just be that a compliment. I dont think anyone should take offense to it. Personally, I think its cool. I'll take one anyday.

 

[D_Roland_D_Hay]

Well I'm CLEARLY the str8-est dude here, but I'll take a leap towards diversity and say that I wouldn't mind in the least...

Very well then....great penis Vinny (backing away to judge his reaction....)

 

[Calboner]

It depends on the setting, and it depends on the comment. If the comment is something like "What a beautiful cock," it would be welcome in my gallery or in a PM, but it would probably make me very uncomfortable if it were made in a locker room. If the comment is "I would like to suck your cock," that would be fine if made in my gallery, but it would put me to some trouble if made in a PM, because then I have to calculate how to reply without snubbing the person but also without giving him any encouragement. In a face-to-face encounter, of course, such a comment would create an extremely uncomfortable situation.

 

[southwest]

If people post pictures of their body parts in a forum frequented by all sexual types then I think its ok to comment. If a person requests that you don't then don't, that would be the polite thing to do. It does not bother me what a persons sexuality is as long as its legal ( actually all acts between consenting adults is ok with me ). I have broadened my sexual opinion since coming to this forum and I think that would occur for most regular visitors.
A person can comment on another persons body parts, and that person can take it as a compliment, but it still does not mean that they would want anything other than a forum relationship, same goes for the person giving the comment, they most probably only want a bit of internet fun too.

 

[yngjock20]

As I understand it you are asking about to ettiquette of LPSG. Around here, there are a few "Str8s" (i.e., totally closeted 'mos in huge denial) who do not like it when you compliment them, but you can always tell them because their pictures have captions like, "For the Ladies Only" or "No gay guys allowed."

Everyone else understands that if you are posting cock pics, everyone will comment.

It's official. The term "Str8" is now a meaning for something else! If I could find that other thread about that word, I'd link it...but it's besides the point.

To the OP. I posted a thread about this not too long ago and the majority of the straight<---not "str8" men who responded said that they didn't mind and were actually very flattered that they did it for a gay man.

 

[155727]

is it ok if the str8 guy responds with a shot to the gays teeth?

 

[conchis]

compliments are compliments. no problem when them come from gay guys.

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

A compliment is a compliment it's not a proposal of marriage, whoever it comes from it should be taken in the spirit in which it was given.

 

[dcwrestlefan]

I guess it would depend on the str8 guy.

pretty much it. some would freak. some would not.

 

[dcwrestlefan]

is it ok if the str8 guy responds with a shot to the gays teeth?

is it ok if we punch back?

 

[fortiesfun]

is it ok if the str8 guy responds with a shot to the gays teeth?

is it ok if we punch back?

Over the internet? The obvious literal homophobia in the first post notwithstanding, I am just curious how it would happen. And, though I would gladly turn DCwrestlefan back on you, I wonder how it would happen back...

 

[SpoiledPrincess]

It kind of puts me off a guy if he complains if a gay guy compliments him, it makes me think he must be really uptight if he can't accept a compliment on the net.

 

[espreggels]

Considering that 90% of the picture comments on this board come from gay guys, I don't think very many people have a problem with it. I certainly don't -- though of course I'd love to get more comments from women.

 

[Wrey]

I agree with those who side with tact. A compliment should be just that, a compliment. Not a salacious drool slathered verbal molestation.

Having said that, I must admit to occasionally being salacious. But only when the party being complimented gives the go-ahead.

When giving a straight guy a compliment on his equipment, I try always to keep it short, simple and to the point.

“That’s a great unit, dude. The ladies must love it.”

 

[basque9]

I personally think it wise to be a little cautious about the nature of a compliment with any guy. A straight might take offense and a gay might mistake it as a proposition. If I have a repartee established with someone , then I might stretch the bounds, knowing that the compliment will be interpreted appropriately!

 

[toss64]

Everone likes a compliment straight or gay. If you're confident about your own sexual preference and in yourself then it won't be a problem.

 

[B_RedDude]

is it ok if the str8 guy responds with a shot to the gays teeth?

insecure in his sexuality?