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personally I welcome any comments from either sex ... (but then again i'm a comment whore)
Is it ok if a gay guy compliments a str8 guys penis ?
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Principessa
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Making comments on gallery pics? I think most guys are okay with that. There are a few who aren't but they usually make emphatic statements about their straightness in their profiles or signatures.
Soarer_boy is correct, the in person cock complient has to be tactfully delivered with barely a glance. Otherwise as novice mentioned make sure your dental insurance is paid up. :redface:
dcwrestlefan
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am not into violence. kinda reminded me though of a story i heard when i lived in galveston tx. straight guy starts shit with a gay guy. gay guy beats this shit out of him. be careful who you mess with.
i would never compliment a homophobe's cock.
there's a difference in "Straight" and "Str8" it appears LOL. it centers around the mind set...
I consider myself straight.:smile:
I agree with Calboner
I consider myself straight.:smile:
I agree with Calboner
calboner said:
I've recieved compliments from men about my cock in the locker room from guys who did not know I was gay and I thought it odd and out of place. I took it as an unwanted come on, smiled and switched the topic of conversation.
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Very important for you to distinguish between the internet and real life.
If your compliment were over the internet, you don't have to give a damn about what the other person thinks (none of this is real).
On the other hand, if this were real life, you need to realize that complimenting someone on his penis would be the same as telling a chick that she has great tits or a fantastic pussy. That's not an appropriate thing to do in 97% of social settings.
Not only would you be subjecting yourself to the danger of physical retribution you might be putting yourself into criminal liability depending on the circumstances for sexual harrassment
If your compliment were over the internet, you don't have to give a damn about what the other person thinks (none of this is real).
On the other hand, if this were real life, you need to realize that complimenting someone on his penis would be the same as telling a chick that she has great tits or a fantastic pussy. That's not an appropriate thing to do in 97% of social settings.
Not only would you be subjecting yourself to the danger of physical retribution you might be putting yourself into criminal liability depending on the circumstances for sexual harrassment
But if you WERE a female in a locker room with other naked females and you commented on someone's great proportioned breasts or expertly trimmed landing strip, isn't that a little different? It's all context, isn't it?
I was once in the sauna and commented on this guy's dick tattoo and then got in a full on, appreciative yet non-sexual discussion about it. It wasn't weird, he was straight, and we moved on.
If I did the same thing at a staff meeting, then yes, sue away!
Hey all,
As a new straight member, I can attest that while I get more turned on by reactions from women, I appreciate a compliment from anyone. I would be a little more uncomfortable receiving compliments from a gay man I didn't know in the physical world, but I used to hange out a lot with a really great gay guy (he moved away, nothing bad happened to our friendship), and when he would occasionally make a comment about how good I looked, I just smiled!
As a new straight member, I can attest that while I get more turned on by reactions from women, I appreciate a compliment from anyone. I would be a little more uncomfortable receiving compliments from a gay man I didn't know in the physical world, but I used to hange out a lot with a really great gay guy (he moved away, nothing bad happened to our friendship), and when he would occasionally make a comment about how good I looked, I just smiled!
In real life, situations that would even make this possible or probable are relatively slim. I've had guys give me the once over in the steam room and even had them obviously cruise me. I don't care, frankly, and it's a bit of an ego boost. However, if you're not wanting the more aggressive guy to take it like you're coming on to him, you have to word the compliment appropriately macho sounding, and preferably in some self-depricating humor. Saying (looking at some well-hung dude in the shower room), "Man, I don't care what they say about all men being created equal. You're definitely more equal than I am," is clever, self-depricating, and complimentary.
I had a guy in the steam room once lean over to me while I was sitting there on a towel, eyes closed, crotch uncovered and say, "Man, do you have to have a concealed carry permit to put on your pants?"
I chuckled and we started talking. He was gay but didn't come on to me. That was totally cool with me.
I had a guy in the steam room once lean over to me while I was sitting there on a towel, eyes closed, crotch uncovered and say, "Man, do you have to have a concealed carry permit to put on your pants?"
I chuckled and we started talking. He was gay but didn't come on to me. That was totally cool with me.
"Wow it's big!.. Do it look like a fountain when you piss?":lmao:
http://www.lpsg.org/554158-post1.html
I think it's great that here at LPSG most people are open to compliments.
I really appreciate it when people leave compliments in my gallery.
I usually tend to try to respect others boundaries and don't post comments if they don't want them from males, I'll just vote by number instead...
As for those who are outright hostile about it, well in my experience they're often the ones who are deeply in the closet, and in denial about their own sexuality...or have something they are fearful or are in pain about resulting in an outburst of anger or negativity, hopefully they can
come to terms with their challenge in time. I wish them well.
I really appreciate it when people leave compliments in my gallery.
I usually tend to try to respect others boundaries and don't post comments if they don't want them from males, I'll just vote by number instead...
As for those who are outright hostile about it, well in my experience they're often the ones who are deeply in the closet, and in denial about their own sexuality...or have something they are fearful or are in pain about resulting in an outburst of anger or negativity, hopefully they can
come to terms with their challenge in time. I wish them well.
My view on it is if a guy posts his pictures on here he is fishing for complements in the first place. With that said, I don't mind, but I typically ignore pm's from other men.
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