Is it ok if your partner can't deep throat?

Discussion in 'Sex With a Large Penis' started by SouthernGirl, May 21, 2009.

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What if your partner can't deep throat?

  1. It's ok if they can't.

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  2. It's ok. But I would try to teach them.

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  3. It's not ok. If they could not learn I would dump them.

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  4. My partner can deep throat.

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  5. My partner can not deep throat.

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  6. I know how to deep throat.

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  7. I do not know how to deep throat.

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  8. I do not know how to deep throat but would like to learn.

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  9. I don't know how to deep throat and am not interested in learning.

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  1. SouthernGirl

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    I'm not an expert at giving head. I bought a video (D*** sucking for dumb asses, some porn start named Pinky who looks like Miss Piggy is the lead)...anyway, Pinky said that if you're not good at deep throating to just use a lot of sound effects and open your mouth really wide and he won't notice (WTF?).

    Like I said I'm not an expert at head but it is much more comfortable for me to suck a larger/fatter penis. But of course I can put the whole thing down my throat.

    My question for the guys with large penises is if it OK if your partner can't deep throat? Does using sound effects really work? I hear guys all the time talking about how a woman is really good at head only if she can swallow the whole thing! But of course these guys have small penises so they might not know what they are talking about anyway.

    I'm still learning.....well, not really learning because I don't have a BF to pratice on right now. But I watch the video every day. I guess it will improve my game when I do get a BF.
     
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    Of course it's ok if you can't deepthroat, you are more than the sum of your abilities in bed. Communicate with your partner and I am sure you can find ways to rock him in the sack.
     
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    It's okay if my partner couldn't, don't expect that. My dick is quite thick, wouldn't want either such a piece in my throat, what a gag-effect would that create lol.
     
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    I was lucky enough to meet someone who, although at the time could not deepthroat, wanted to learn how to. It took him a good many years to perfect it & now, does it quite regularly without effort. :biggrin1:
     
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    Yes, it is okay if you can't deep throat. I really hate that porn has made people, especially women it seems, feel inferior or faulty if they can't deep throat. :irked: :mad: It is possible to give an exemplary and satisfying blow job without deep throating. :rolleyes: :duh:

    A major factor in the ability to deep throat for many is girth not length. I seem to recall a thread from a few years ago mentioning that anything over 5.50" in girth would take some effort/practice for most women and many men to handle. I know that's true for me and I give great head and have no gag reflex.

    IMHO any man that demands his partner deepthoat is a selfish idiot. :cool:
     
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    It doesn't bother me whether she can or not, but then I've never really been into the whole gagging thing...
     
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    It doesn't bother me that my wife can't. Then again, I've never been deep-throated, so I am blissfully ignorant of the joys and wonders of it. I have to imagine that if I'd previously had mind-blowing deep-throating, it might be harder for me to be so happy without it now.

    Steve
     
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    It's OK if they can't but I'd try to teach them or at least give them some advice or practice on me for relaxing their gag reflex and learning how to do it. I know how to deep throat so it's not a big deal if they simply couldn't at all.
     
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    This!
     
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    Maybe it's time for the seminar tour :cool:
     
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    Ill man your tickets booth. :biggrin1:
     
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    Of course it is ok if you can't or for that matter don't really want to. I have honestly never had any woman take me all the way down so it isn't an issue for me. It is hot as hell to watch sometimes on porn or something, but not needed. I LOVE sounds when my woman sucks my cock. The noiser the better for me. She knows JUST how to moan, make slurping, popping noises, and actually tries to talk with her mouth full (yes that is allowed in some cases LOL). She takes me about 3/4 of the way down most of the time, but she HAS said, unprompted from me thank you, that she would LOVE to be able to take all of me. Trust me though, it is the BEST head ever and whether or not she ever gets those last few inches in, it won't matter to me either way as long as she loves what she is doing and makes me feel that AMAZING.
    Of course in turn, I LOVE giving her a LOT of reciprication and appreciation!!!!!
    Cmonkey
     
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    Yeah i supose its fine, i mean technically its my fault not hers. Ive never been deepthroated and after hooking up with a few who said they could and then couldent i quit hoping. I think there is sompthing to making more noise and opening wide though. my gf cant deepthroat me but when she opens wide and gags on it it makes it hard as fuckin steel...lol
     
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    It has been ok and it will be ok without getting deepthroated.
     
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    None of my past or present partners has deep-throated me. I've asked them to try and several have. They always complain about the girth and the large cockhead.

    But so what if they can't deep-throat me. I expect few women can. Anyhow, they are/were great partners in bed for many other reasons.

    I think it is absurd to expect most women to deep-throat an above-average man.
     
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    I've only had one girl who could take me all the way down to my balls; so it'd better be OK if they can't, otherwise I'd be a very lonely guy.
     
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    For me contrived noises are a turnoff. Wide, no deep yes. You don't have to swallow the whole thing, but please try to get more than a couple of inches in your mouth.

    I would try to teach her, just as I learned.
     
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    Porn had nothng to do with it. It was the first two girls who did deep throat me that made the change. For me one of the most sensitive areas of my cock is on the shaft by the balls, so if you have the rest of me in your mouth and you using your tongue there then that feels great.

    For me it isn't 5.5 it is over 6.5
     
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    Well, since my girlfriend has now mastered the art of deepthroating AND milking my cock at the same time with her throat if we were to break up for whatever reason I would have a hell of a hard time adjusting to a woman who couldn`t take me all in and do the same thing she does.

    Not to say that other women who are not deepthroaters can`t give a damn good blowjob, but really when your used to being spoiled the way I am (she loves giving head btw, god I love that woman!) I would definately not want to settle for less. Seriously who wants to trade in a Ferrari for a Buick instead?
     
  20. Pitbull

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    I think I've had only one woman deepthroat me also. :rolleyes:
    Not 100% sure :confused: since she was smothering my face with her pussy at the time
    and I wasn't able to see exactly what she was doing. :biggrin1:

    :frown1:

    Well since no one else is gentleman enough to help you, I volunteer to allow you to practice on me every day until you master the art. :wink:
     
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