My wife could get to past my circ scar, and there's the best feeling nerves in my whole cock at that point, so that's my "trigger for orgasm during a blowjob" and as long as she got there, we were both fine
But, she always wondered about going deeper. I did too, but I could cum from every bj she gave me (I didn't, but could if that's what we both wanted...she loves to swallow all of my cum...) so it wasn't a big worry.
Then this one, magical night, she was sucking me while I stood and she sat on the edge of the bed, and she grabbed my hips and pulled me into her and used me as leverage to push more and got half of me down! That very first time I felt that push and slight "pop" as I passed into her throat was just ridiculous!!! She came up off me and said "mmmmm wow I always wondered if I just pushed past the back where you normally hit me, what would happen..." and then proceeded to suck me the deepest ever and even deeper as she continued! Got a little more than half, so that was like 3.5 to almost 4" inches!
Then it was ON and that was all she focused on for the next year and wound up getting within literally a 1/2 inch of taking all of me! What a journey, she controlled her progress the whole time, I was happily along for the ride as far as it went
Cumming while being deepthroated is an experience that is so unlike vaginal sex. In fact, vaginal sex is amazing but honestly, and she understands this, when over or at least half of my cock is being sucked it actually feels better than vaginal sex! Wish it didn't, but she gets it; she's the one doing it and she knows how good she is because I am out of my mind while she's going to town!
She's had two major oral cancer surgeries in the last 2 years and we have cried a LOT over her loss of a third of her tongue and her new reconstructed tongue and limitations, challenges, etc. Eating of course took precedent over everything, and talking and swallowing. But she admitted dozens of times that she'll never be able to experience my cock the same way ever again
I think she's more upset over this than me because she loved seeing me so deep in pleasure all because of her, and she's addicted to my cock and it being in her mouth. I'm fine with it, I love her and just want the world for her. However, it's an issue for her. So you can imagine how amazing and emotional of an experience it was for her to give me oral sex again
We both cried intensely. you can also imagine how insane it was when she was strong enough to blow me to completion. I cried when it was over. She cried because she could do it again and because I was crying.
Oral sex is fucking intimate. It is intense. Some people use it as a bridge to penetration. Some as their only means of getting off. If you can't deepthroat it's totally fine. Just loving the cock you are with, the one that can go in your mouth, is so important, I think, to the health of the relationship. It's such a wonderful feeling to know that the person you are with appreciates you in this kind of way. Love what you are all able to give and receive, it is a sacred gift we can give to each other!!